Akunakwenzeka ukulahlekelwa ukuzithiba emehlweni abanye. Ukuthukuthela kubi nakakhulu kunokugquma. Ethukuthele, ubonisa wonke umuntu ukuthi awukwazi ukunqoba isimo esinzima, azi ukuthi ungathatha kanjani izinto ezandleni zakhe futhi uthuthukise isimo. Kodwa kufanele ubeke phansi, ubale u-10, futhi uhlole inkinga. Ungalindeli ezweni lobulungiswa. Ukuphila kwethu kuyinto engalungile. Kubalulekile ukuthola indlela yokubusa, ukukhishwa impilo, ukusebenzisa kahle. Asiyithandi isimiso empilweni, futhi emva kwakho konke kuyisisekelo sokufeza kwethu.
Indlela yokuthatha izinto ezandleni zabo, yiziphi ezinye izindlela ezikhona? Kumele ukwazi ukuvimbela izifiso zakho. Isibonelo, siyazi ukuthi iningi lamnandi liyingozi empilweni yethu ngakho-ke kumele sizinciphise kulokhu. Konke ngesikhathi esisodwa kuyindlela yokufinyelela kwengane. Futhi kumelwe siqonde ukuthi kumelwe sikwazi ukulinda, silungise futhi, endleleni yokufeza umgomo, ukuziphika okuthile. Ucabanga ukuthi awukwazi ukulondoloza okuthile. Kodwa kufanele uzame ukusindisa kancane kusuka kumholo ngamunye futhi uzomangala umphumela.
Abathembayo bakholelwa ukuthi nganoma yikuphi ukushaywa kwekusasa, ngesimo esinzima, sithola izipho ezithile ezivela ekuphileni. Ngakho-ke, umuntu akakwazi ukubona isimo esinzima njengenhlekelele. Ukwesaba kwethu le nkinga kuphazamisa ubuchopho. Futhi lokhu akunikezi ukuhlolwa okwanele kwalesi simo. Ngakho-ke, kunoma yisiphi isimo, into esemqoka ukuzola, ukuphumula, ngisho nangomzamo wokuzicabangela okuthile okuhle. Kwaphumela - kuhle, bese sinquma isimo ngokusho kohlelo.
Owokuqala ukucacisa ukuthi yiyiphi inkinga yenkinga.
Owesibili ukuqonda izizathu nokuthi yini okufanele uyenze ukuze ugweme inkinga enjalo esikhathini esizayo.
Okwesithathu - cabanga ngomphumela omubi kakhulu, yenze ngokuthula. Kungase kungabi kubi njengoba ucabanga ekuqaleni.
Okwesine , zama ukuqonda ukuthi iyiphi indlela ephuma kuyo inzima.
Owesihlanu - cabanga, kungenzeka ukuthi kuleso simo isixazululo esingezona ejwayelekile nokuthi yini okuzoshiywa ukuze ifeze le njongo.
Isithupha - yakha uhlelo langempela lokuphuma kule nkinga. Kumele kubonise ngokucacile ukuthi yiziphi izinsiza ezizodingwa, ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esingakanani nokuthi yini okufanele kwenziwe ngokuqondile ukunqoba isimo samanje.
Eyesishiyagalombili - into ebaluleke kakhulu, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi iyiphi inzuzo engasuswa kule nkinga. Futhi lena yinto ebaluleke kakhulu.
Enye yezingxenye zokuphumelela yisimo sakho somzwelo. Uma ungekho mayelana nobunzima namaphutha okungazelelwe kuvela kunoma imuphi umsebenzi, yonke imizamo yakho iyoba yize. Imizwelo enhle ingumkhuba omubi futhi kufanele ufunde ukuthi ungayishintsha kanjani umkhuba, faka imizwelo emihle. Lokhu kungafinyelelwa kanjani?- Kudingeka ukuthi uziphathe ngothando. Khumbula lo mzwa uphinde uwubize esimweni esinzima.
- Ukuphila kuhle. Thanda impilo yakho.
- Ungabi i-whiner, njalo igwenywa ngenhlanhla.
- Funda ukuphumula nokuphumula.
- Uyakhathazeka njalo. Chaza izinto ngokubaluleka, ungalweli ukucabanga njalo futhi yonke indawo.
- Ungaziqhathanisi nabanye, njengoba ucabanga ukuthi uphumelele kakhulu. Futhi banenkinga, kodwa baxazulula.
- Esimweni ngasinye, ufike ekugcineni, udumise.
- Kufanele kube umkhuba wakho ukujabulela izinkinga njengendlela yokuphila. Ngaphansi kwezimo ezinjalo, maduzane ukuhluleka kwakho kuzoba ukunqoba.
- Kufanele senze njalo, khona-ke ukwesaba inkinga kuzodlula, futhi ukulawula isimo ngeke kulahleke. Kungcono ukusebenzisa amandla esenzweni, hhayi kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho.
- Ingqondo yakho engacabangi kufanele ibe yinto enhle futhi ibekwe impumelelo.
- Akufanele neze ulahlekelwe phansi ngaphambi kobunzima.
Ngifuna ukuhlala kangcono ukuthi ngingabhekana kanjani nemizwelo emibi phakathi nesimo esinzima, lapho kubonakala kungenakwenzeka ukuthatha isimo. Zama ukususa ukunakwa kusuka emicabangweni enzima kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi. Yebo, uma kuzokukhipha amandla emzimbeni. Kubalulekile ukukhuluma, kodwa umuntu kumele abe nobungane kuwe. Ungakwazi ukuphumula ngokukhuluma nesilwane sakho. Vele ushaye ikati.
Indlela enhle kakhulu yokwenza izinto ezandleni zakho ukufaka yonke imicabango yakho enzima ephepheni bese uyishisa. Uzozizwa ukhululekile ngokushesha eshaweni. Zenzele isipho. Thenga into oyifunayo isikhathi eside noma usebenzise usuku ngendlela oyifunayo. Ungalala phansi futhi ulale. Ungenza okuthile okuhle kubantu abaseduze nawe. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, kunoma yisiphi isimo kudingeka uthole okuthile okuhle. Ngelinye igama, thatha umoya ojulile bese uya ekuphumeni kwenkinga bese ufinyelela umgomo wakho. Khumbula - konke kusezandleni zakho, kholelwa kuwe futhi konke kuzovela.
Ekuphileni, kwenzeka - umuntu ufika ezimweni ezinzima okwesikhashana futhi uphume ngokuncintisana. Futhi kukhona abantu abahlala kule nkinga yokuphila, ngoba babona ukuthi isimo sinzima futhi singaguquki. Abantu abanjalo abazami ukuphuma kuleso simo, kodwa bafune ukuyekethisa. Ukuncintisana akusho ukugcwaliseka kwezifiso zakho futhi akukuvumeli ukuthi uvukele ezingeni elisha lokuphila. Ngakho zama ukususa umqondo wokuphila - isimo esinzima. Manje uyazi ukuthi ungathatha kanjani izinto ezandleni zakho bese ulungisa isimo. Shintsha isimo sibe yinto enhle, ekufezeni izifiso zakho nezifiso zakho. Ngakho, ngokushintsha isimo sengqondo ngokuphila, uzokwazi ukufeza konke.