Ungayithola kanjani into engekho endlini?

Cishe bonke abantu balahlekelwa yiziphi izinto ezidingekayo ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene, isibonelo, ku-cafe, emsebenzini noma ekhaya. Njengomthetho, ukulahlekelwa yinto ezimweni eziningi kutholakala ngesikhathi sokuthi kuyadingeka. Lezi zimo zingahlukaniswa zibe izinhlobo ezimbili zobunzima: kumnikazi wokuqala wezinto ezilahlekile kungenza kalula ngaphandle kwesikhashana; uhlobo lwesibili luyinkimbinkimbi, isibonelo esisodwa sokulahlekelwa ipasipoti noma enye idokhumenti ebalulekile ekuphumeni kwamanye amazwe (isibonelo, eholidini noma ohambweni lwebhizinisi). Kodwa-ke, ngokusho kochwepheshe, kungenzeka ukuthola into elahlekile ekhaya ngokuhlela kahle ukusesha kwayo nokulandela imithetho eminingana elula.

Ufuna ukulahlekelwa yimithetho
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukukhuluma ngomqondo olahlekile kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni (kufaka phakathi nezingane), kanye nabanye abantu abakhona manje. Kungenzeka ukuthi omunye wabo usanda kuwubona, ngakho-ke, kuyokwenzeka ukuthi kufinyelele isikhathi sokuseshwa.

Okulandelayo, udinga ukuhlola zonke izindawo zokubutha izinto eziningi, okungukuthi amabhabhinethi, amabhokisi, amakhabhinethi nezinye ifenisha, lapho kungenziwa khona izinto ezingavamile ukusetshenziswa noma okufanele zihlale zikhona. Njengomkhuba wokubonisa, ngokuvamile kulezi zindawo uthole izinto ezifanele.

Uma usesha ukufuna into, kuyadingeka ukuthola ukuthi usanda kusetshenziswe ilungu lomndeni noma cha. Uma kunjalo, khona-ke udinga ukucela lo muntu ukuthi abuke le nto ethize. Ungakwazi ukuzibeka ngaphandle kokucabanga ngakho. Isibonelo, isikhwama sesidakamizwa sezinsikazi kungenzeka sibe phakathi kwezincwadi zokufunda zendodana yakhe noma izingubo zomyeni wakhe.

Ukuqaphela okukhethekile kufanele kuhokhwe kulawo mazindawo lapho, ngokombono womhloli, isihloko sokuseshwa asikwazi ukubanjwa ngokubambisana. Isibonelo, ebhasikisini enezingubo ezingcolile, i-efriji noma amashalofu ekhishi.

Njengamanje, ochwepheshe abaningi batusa indlela engcono kakhulu yokufuna izinto eziye zanyamalala, okungukuthi, ukuziveza endaweni yento efunayo. Isibonelo, uma umuntu efuna izinkinobho, kumele azicabange endaweni yakhe futhi acabange ukuthi angaphi. Okuwukuphela kwendaba yokucwaninga kufanele kucatshangelwe kuyo yonke imininingwane yayo, okungukuthi, khumbula hhayi ubukhulu bayo kuphela, kodwa futhi nombala, isisindo esilinganiselwe, kanye nokuthi uzizwa kanjani. Ngakho-ke, uma kugxilwe ngokuphelele ekusesheni, umuntu ongenasidingo uzokwenza impendulo efanele emva kwesikhathi.

Izindlela zabantu zokuthola izinto ekhaya
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinketho ezingenhla, kunezinye izindlela eziningi zokusesha, ezisebenzise ngempumelelo izizukulwane eziningi zabantu. Ezimweni eziningi, ziphumelela kakhulu kunokusesha okuhlelekile kokulahlekelwa. Okhokho bethu bakholelwa ukuthi into elahlekile ingase isetshenziswe ngumninikhaya ngenxa yezizathu ezithile. Ngakho-ke, ukuze uyithole, kufanele ucele ngokukhululekile umninikhaya ukuba akunike. Kungenzeka ukuthi ngemuva kwalokhu, kungase kuvele endaweni evelele kunazo zonke, noma ngabe umuntu usevele ubheke noma izikhathi eziningana lapho futhi akawuboni.

Kunezinye izindlela ezimbili zomuntu, okungukuthi: ubophe isihlalo ngesondo bese uphendulela indebe. Ikomishi evamile kumele iphendulwe phansi, kwi-saucer, futhi ngemuva kokuba into itholakala - ukuphuza itiye kuyo.

Mhlawumbe lezi zindlela zikhumbuza izibonakaliso zabantu nezinkolelo-ze, kodwa nokho, kwezinye izimo ziphumelela kakhulu.

Ekuphetheni, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi ungakhetha eyodwa noma eziningi izindlela zokusesha, kubalulekile nje ukuzama ukuzola nokulinganisela, bese kuthi izinto zakho zizotholakala.