Izingane ezikhulile ngeke zigijimele ukuphuma esidlekeni somzali bese zizama ukuphila okuzimele, futhi abazali, ebona ubuthakathaka bezingane zabo, bazozizwela futhi ngazo zonke izindlela zingabakhusela "ukuphila okunzima" okuzimele. Imfundo yezemali yezingane kufanele iqale ngokubantwana. Ingane idinga ukuchazwa ukuthi imali izuzwa ngabasebenzi futhi azama ukujabulisa zonke izinto zakhe. Mqeqesha ukuba akhokhe imali ngokulinganisa, futhi, uma esekhulile, ngeke "ahlasele" imali yakho.
Intsha yanamuhla "iphula" izisekelo ezindala zaseSoviet futhi zizama ukuzitholela ngokwazo, zikholelwa ukuthi akuzona ezihloniphekile zokuhola indlela yokuphila encike kuyo. Usizo lwezezimali oluvela kubazali kubantu abakudala abangazange bathole umsebenzi ngeke babe namahloni. Ukuqeqesha kuthatha isikhathi esiningi, futhi, ngokuthola ngokuzimela, umfundi uqala "ukuphonsa" isifundo, esikhathini esizayo esingathinta ukusebenza. Izingane ezindala, zizama ukungena ngokushesha zibe ngabantu abadala, zama ukushiya abazali bazo ukuba baphile ngokuhlukile. Ngakolunye uhlangothi kuhle, kepha ngakolunye uhlangothi - ukukhulela kakhulu, ingane ingenza amaphutha angenakuqhathaniswa. Ngakho-ke, uma uyazi ngempela ingane yakho endala, indawo ehlala kuyo, makazame. Usizo oluvela kubazali kufanele luhlale lwanele. Akudingekile ukulingisa amazwe aseNtshonalanga, lapho emva kokuqedwa kwekholeji indlela eya ekhaya labazali ivaliwe futhi akukhulunywe ngisho nangokwakhe. Siphila kwelinye izwe, sinezifiso ezihluke ngokuphelele, enye ukukhuliswa. Kudingekile ukuqonda ukuthi ngaphandle kwamanye amazwe uhlelo oluhlukile kakhulu lwemfundo. Ifundiswa ngendlela yokuthi umfundi oqedile izifundo zakhe futhi akanalo ulwazi angathola umsebenzi, ngoba lapho afundiswa kakhulu, kodwa ezweni lethu, ngeshwa lokhu akusikho.
Akudingekile ukuhlinzeka ngezimali zezingane ezikhulile, uma sezivele zihola, ngisho ncane. Kodwa bayoba nesisusa sokuthola okuningi futhi, ngesikhathi esifanayo, bafunde ukugcina. Ngokwenza okunye, abazali bayalimaza kakhulu izingane zabo, bahlakulele ngaphakathi kwabo. Futhi kungani kufanele bazame, uma ubaba nomama besakunika imali.
Abantwana abadala, ngaphezu kwakho konke, badinga iseluleko somzali. Abazali okufanele bachaze ukuthi lokhu "kuphila kanjani umuntu omdala." Amantombazane amaningi kakhulu "azoba nesaba konke" futhi ngeke aphume izintambo zabazali isikhathi eside, futhi abazali bahlale bebeka icala ngalokhu. Izingane ezinjalo ezindala ngeke zizikhathaze ngokukhathalela abazali asebekhulile, ngeke zibonise ukuthi kunzima kakhulu ukuhlala empesheni encane. Inertia yabo izothinta uhlamvu. Ngokushesha izingane ezinjalo azifuni ukwenza lutho nhlobo, kodwa ngabazenzele lokhu?
Uma isikhathi eside izingane zingaphansi "kwamaphiko omzali", kamuva bazokhula. Banikeze inkululeko eyengeziwe yokwenza. Uma umfundi efuna ukuthola imali, ake asebenze eholidini. Kuzoshesha ukuthuthukisa umthwalo wemfanelo. Izingane zikhula futhi izidingo zabo zikhula, futhi uma uqhubeka nokuba ngumlindi, izimfanelo zakho zezimali ngeke zilandelwe ngokushesha. Ingane eyonakele izoba yidinga kakhulu, kepha ngegama elithi "cha" awujwayele. Akukho lutho ngaphandle kwama-scandals, ukuhlambalazwa ekhelini lakho, ngeke uzwe, ngoba bona ngokwayo bayecala ngesimo samanje.
Yiba izingane zakho ezindala, ikakhulukazi abeluleki, zijwayele ukuzimela, ngokushesha, ngcono. Banikeze ngisho nangokufezekisa okuncane, ngoba ukuzethemba okuhle kuthonya kakhulu ukubunjwa kobuntu, futhi umuntu othembekile usheshe afinyelele imigomo ebekiwe.