Cabanga ukuthi intombazane uKatya yabonakala into ekhangayo - indoda. Bahlangana ku-intanethi, futhi ekhaleni usuku lokuqala olulindile. Yini uKaterina okufanele akwenze ukuze ajabulise umfana? Ithimba lika-Allwomen laxoxa nabantu abangaphezu kuka-100 bobuchwepheshe obuhlukene phakathi kweminyaka engama-20 no-55 futhi bathola ukuthi bangabanakekela kanjani futhi bavusa isithakazelo sangempela emaminithini okuqala omhlangano. Kuyini ukubaluleka kobulili kumantombazane kuqala? Sihlanganyela ngokuvuma okukhululekile kwamadoda!
Ungathanda kanjani umfana oneminyaka engu-20-25 ubudala
U-Ivan, 20, umfundi Uheha intombazane enamahloni, ethobekile. Ngikukwazisa ukuba ube ngokwakho, hhayi ukudlala omunye umuntu. Ukwenyuka okuncane: ukugcizelela amehlo kuphela, khanyisa izindebe. Izipikili ezingaphezulu kanye namashiya aqoshiwe, adonselwe ipensela - laba bantu abaqondi. Akufanele kuxhomeke kubazali abangu-100%. Yiba nezinto zokuzilibazisa ezithakazelisayo, futhi ungafaki ukushiya okungenakuyeka futhi uphinde uthumele imishwana eqondile odongeni. Ngaphandle kobuqili nokungcola. Ngaphandle kwesifo "se-princess". Uhlakaniphile.
U-Vasily, oneminyaka engu-22 ubudala, osomabhizinisi abasha ngiyawazisa amantombazane afuna ukuzethemba. Ngempela nginesithakazelo esiqinile nakwesifazana ebhodleleni elilodwa. Kuyinto intombazane enefilosofi yangaphakathi, ekwazi ukugqugquzela nokusekela umuntu. Isiguli, esifundisiwe, ngokudala. Uhlala ekhula njengomuntu futhi umatasa ngebhizinisi lakhe siqu.
UCyril, oneminyaka engu-22 ubudala, ummeli Onke intombazane inhle ngendlela yakhe, kodwa kimi ingqondo, ikhono lokugcina ingxoxo, ukuhleka kwemihle - ngaphambili. Khona-ke nginaka isitayela, ukuvumelana kanye nemvelo yesithombe. Ngiyathanda ubuhle bemvelo kanye nendawo encane yokwenza - yenza ama-eyelashes, sebenzisa i-balm engenambala ezindebeni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, owesifazane kufanele aqonde ubuthakathaka bakhe namandla akhe, abonise lokhu okulandelayo. Ekuphileni komndeni, ukwazi ukubhebhethekisa izimo eziphikisanayo, ube isazi sengqondo esihle futhi usize umfana. Ungathembeli ngokuphelele emalini abantu, zisebenzele wena.
U-Anton, oneminyaka engu-22 ubudala, i-IT Angithandi abantu abavamile. Okokuqala, ngiyazisa ikhono lokusekela ingxoxo engeyona encane. Akukhona nje ukuphendula imibuzo, kodwa futhi ukukhombisa isinyathelo ekukhulumisaneni. Ngiyathanda izibani ezibucayi emehlweni ami nokumomotheka okumangalisa. Ukuheha ubuntu obusondayo, obungavamile.
U-Andrew, oneminyaka engu-23, umqeqeshi wokuzivocavoca Umusa, ukwethembeka - izici eziyinhloko. Magnet ukhanga amantombazane afunde kahle. Kumelwe ube nokubuka komhlaba okucacile nezimiso zokuphila. Ukukhuthaza umuntu, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo kube okuphambene naye. Ngikhathazekile ngendodakazikazi enokuzilibazisa kanye nempumelelo yakhe. Ukubukeka - Angibucayi, kepha ngithanda ubuhle obuhle obuhle. I-categorially ngokumelene nombala we-Amazon namathani we-tonalki ebusweni ngendlela yansuku zonke. Ubuningi bemvelo, obunemvelo, obuthandayo - yebo, intombazane enjalo iyamthinta!
U-Alexander, oneminyaka engu-24, usomabhizinisi Uheha amantombazane engxenyeni yezingxoxo zokuxhumana ezithakazelisayo nemibono eqinisekisiwe empilweni. Okubaluleke nakakhulu kukhethiweyo wami ukuthi akayikufaka ifoni ngosuku lokuqala. Futhi le tape "Instagram" yayinezithombe ezimbalwa "ukuthi ngichitha kanjani usuku oluhle". Ukubukeka okuhle nokuhogela nakho kubalulekile.
UmRoma, oneminyaka engama-24 ubudala, umbhebhe Ngaso leso sikhathi emhlanganweni wokuqala nginake izinwele ezinhle ezihlotshiwe kahle, umuthi womuntu wemvelo, ukwakheka okuvamile. Ngingu-connoisseur webuhle bemvelo. Ukuheha amantombazane avulekile, kodwa nge-puzzle. Uyakwazi ukuhleka futhi uvela kuye unomusa. Angithandi amodoli adlala esidlangalaleni. Uthanda izincwadi zakudala kanye nemidlalo yaseshashalazini. Ukuthuthukiswa ngokomoya.
U-Vladimir, oneminyaka engu-25 ubudala, umkhumbi wamanzi Uheha amantombazane, abesifazane abakhethiwe kahle, abancomekayo abanenhliziyo yangaphakathi. Imvelo, abanomthelela nabanamakhono okulwa.
Lokho amantombazane abathanda amadoda kusukela eminyakeni engama-26 kuya kwengu-35 ubudala
UVlad, oneminyaka engama-26 ubudala, umshini wokudubhula abakhiqizi Abasimizi banokuthandwa okuhlukile, kusukela ekuzolile kuya kwendle. Ngomuntu siqu, nginguye wezinhlobo ezikhetha ukuthi "igolide" kusho. "Owesifazane oqothukile" usondela kimi, ongeyena onamahloni emphakathini. Ekuziphatheni nasebudlelwaneni abubheki abantu abakuzungezile, abaqondiswa yizwe "mina kuphela naye". Lena insizwa encane, eqondayo futhi enokuzijabulisa. Ama-bores kanye nama-mollings awajabulisi kimi.
UDmitry, iminyaka engu-26, i-IT Ngicabanga ukuthi ayikho indlela yonke yomhlaba noma yemilingo yokuthakazelisa umuntu - wonke umuntu ngamunye :) Ngingumsekeli weqiniso lokuthi yonke into isekelwe ekuzizweni nasekudleni. Ngokungaqondakali, ngokwemvelo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiziphi izimfanelo ezinhle noma ezimbi, ukubukeka noma izici zomuntu ngamunye. Ngakho-ke, imfihlo kufanele ibe "ngokwakho", ukuvuleka nokuqotho. Futhi-ke, intombazane e-erudite.
Denis, 28, amasiko Okokuqala, Yebo, ukubukeka. Intombazane ehlanziwe kahle kunoma yimuphi umuntu ibangela ukuzwelana. Kusukela kumaminithi wokuqala okukhulumisana kuyacaca - ngabe unamaphoyinti oxhumana naye noma ingxoxo ngeke ihlangane ndawonye. Ukuzwelana kakhulu nabesifazane abanentshisekelo engavamile: bathanda ibhola, bayaqonda izimoto. Kuyamangalisa, kukhona isifiso sokufunda umuntu eduze. Ukuze uthole ubudlelwane obengeziwe, ngizoqala emibonweni evamile ngobungane, ubulili, ibhizinisi. Izindinganiso zokuphila kufanele zifane neyami. Kodwa noma kunjalo, ungamlingisi umfana! Ungenzi umuntu ohlukile emihlanganweni yakho yokuqala. Emva kwakho konke, kubonakala kalula, bese isifiso sokubiza intombazane ngomcimbi wesibili sinyamalalala.
U-Ivan, oneminyaka engama-30, umthwebuli wezithombe ngizosho ngokufushane: owesifazane kufanele afune izingane, kodwa hhayi ukwenza umshado ube kuqala ekuphileni. Yiba ohlakaniphile, ngobuqotho, ukuze kungathinteki abanye, okokuqala, abangani. Kuhle ngaphandle kokwenza, oncane kunamadoda iminyaka engu-6-10. Khuluma kuleso cala, ungaqhathanisi umfana nabangane kanye nabangaphambili. Ukuze ukwazi ukuthethelela ukushiyeka komuntu okhethiwe - ngaphakathi kwemingcele efanele.
USergei, 32, ongumdayisi-umdayisi Angisoze nginesithakazelo intombazane evikela kakhulu isikhundla sakhe empikiswaneni nami. Owesifazane ozimele futhi ozimele futhi akakubangeli noma yimiphi imizwelo. Lokhu kuziphatha kuqondwa ngokucophelela ezintweni ezincane: isihlalo ngokwayo siyahamba etafuleni, lapho umlimi ehlala eceleni kwayo, noma owokuqala ungena ekamelweni. Ufaka ingubo yakhe. Kulahlekile uma umuntu enika isandla ukukhuphuka noma ukuwela i-puddle / curb. Phakathi nengxoxo, ugcizelela ukuzimela kwakhe. Imisho ye-Sneak "indoda namhlanje, kodwa kusasa akusiyo, ngakho-ke udinga konke ngokwakho."
UDenis, oneminyaka engu-35, umnikazi webhizinisi elikhulu Masibe nobuqili - kumuntu, okokuqala, idatha yomzimba ibalulekile. Uma owesifazane engadonseli, izinketho zokwehlisa nokuthakazelisa umfana nje akwenzi. Khona-ke kufika ingqondo ebukhali kanye nekhono lokuxoxisana. Amantombazane aphukumezayo abheka ubuso obuhle afaneleka kuphela ekuzijabuliseni ukulala. Ngincoma ukuthi abesifazane besimanje bahlakulele ngokuzwakalayo.
Ungathanda kanjani umuntu oneminyaka engu-55 ubudala
U-Vladimir, oneminyaka engu-55, ungumnikazi wesitolo sezitolo. Ukubukeka kahle nokucabanga okusheshayo - yilokho okubalulekile kwabesifazane banoma yimuphi ubudala. Ikhono lokumelana nengxoxo, phakamisa isihloko. Kumuntu osondelene nawe, kumele ube "enomkhawulo ofanayo." Ingabe uya ngosuku lokuqala? Funda izithakazelo zakhe futhi ufunde okungenani izincwadi eziningana esihlokweni. Uma kufika isikhashana esingenakwenzeka, ngokuzumayo uthi "Ngifunde ngolunye usuku ... ucabangani ngalezi zinsuku?" Lokhu kuzobuyisela inzalo intombazane. Futhi ikhono eliyinhloko yowesifazane ukugcizelela lowo muntu. Gqoka ama-blouses neziketi, ugqoke. Izingubo ezihle. Esithombeni sajabula emehlweni futhi sangenza ngiphenduka. Kodwa ungadideli nge "bl * dskim" - ingubo lapho umpristi ebonakala khona, ukusika izinsipho kuyodala isifiso esisodwa - ukuhudula embhedeni. Futhi ukugqugquzela abalimi ngobumsulwa nokuziphatha kwakho kuyoba yinto engenakwenzeka. Futhi akukho emihlanganweni yokuqala engayifaki umsebenzi kuqala. Ungazakheli owesifazane webhizinisi. Indoda engaboni kahle ikubona njengobulili obuthakathaka. Kuhle uma uzimele futhi uvikelekile. Kodwa ungenzi inkolo ngaphandle kwayo. Umndeni nomuzi kuwe kubaluleke kakhulu.
Ukufingqa: ukuthanda umfana noma indoda
Naphezu kobubanzi obukhulu bezinsizwa ezixoxwa ngazo kanye nemisebenzi ehlukahlukene, amanani obulili obuqinile kowesifazane:
- Ubuntu obusungulwe ngokugcwele, obungagcini kwimibuzo eyodwa noma emibili yengxoxo
- Ukubukeka komzimba nokubukeka kahle
- Ubuhle bemvelo - ukwakheka okuyisisekelo ekuphileni kwansuku zonke
- Ukuziphatha kweqiniso kungama-pathos amancane nokungafani kahle
- Ungabeki umsebenzi phambili
- Uhlobo, oluqotho futhi oluguquguqukayo
- Ungazami ukufundisa kabusha umuntu futhi uthathe isikhundla sekhanda ebuhlotsheni / umndeni
Ngakho-ke, amantombazane, sihlaziya izinzuzo zethu kanye nokuziqhenya, sifunda umfana futhi sigcwalise izikhala. Khona-ke isikhulu esikufisayo siyoba yindoda esondelene kakhulu futhi ethandekayo! :)