Uthande ejele

Ngakho kwaholela eRussia ngokuvamile abayeni nabathandekayo bethu ababoshiwe ejele ngesikhwama samazambane noma okuncane kabi, kuyilapho ama-oligarchs nezikhulu behlela ukungabi namthetho futhi bangaphinde bajeziswe. Futhi manje, abesifazane nabesifazane baseRussia abajwayelekile kufanele balile futhi bakhathazeke lapho umuntu othandekayo esejele, ecabanga ukuthi angalindela kanjani othandekayo ejele. Ngokuvamile, asinalo ilungelo lokulahla abantu abalethwa ekuphileni okunjalo ukuze banqume ngamacala, bese behamba esikoleni esibucayi sokuphila ejele, beqaphela amaphutha abo. Khumbula into eyodwa, uma othandekayo wakho esejele, ungathathi zonke izono ezifayo emgodini wakhe osuvele ugcwele. Sonke singabantu futhi sinelungelo lokwenza amaphutha, futhi mhlawumbe sihlupheka kwabanye. Into ebaluleke kakhulu akufanele idangele uma othandekayo wakho esejele. Izimo zokuphila zihlukile, kodwa uma othandekayo ejele - ungumuntu owukuphela kwakhe onganikeza usizo. Umlando uhlanganisa izibonelo eziningi zokuthandana kwamantombazane nabesifazane abanezinsizwa ezizayo lapho befika ezinsukwini emva kokuxhumana okude nabo, futhi emva kokulinda, badala imindeni evamile. Mhlawumbe othandekayo wakho etilongweni, ekuqapheliseni ubuqotho bakho nothando ngenkathi ulindile, akasoze akhohlwa lokhu, futhi ukukhululwa inkululeko yonke impilo yakhe kuzokuthwala ezandleni zakhe, ukuxosha amacu okuthutha kuwe.

Ngakho lapho othandekayo wakho ejele, udinga ukubekezela. Khumbula abantu abakhulu bezwe lakithi nabo ababoshwa. Wena, kanye nomthandekayo wakho manje osezindaweni ezingekho kude kangaka, udinga ukusinda, uphinde ucabange futhi uhlukane ngokweqile ngesikhathi sesiphetho somuntu othandekayo ejele.

Kholelwa ukuthi uma ufunde incwadi yakho, othandekayo ejele uzojabula okungenani ukuthi awukhohlwa ngaye. Ngakho-ke, njalo ngangokunokwenzeka, bhala izincwadi, futhi kuzo zonke izinto onakho enhliziyweni yakho kanye nemizwa yakho ngaye, uthando. Bhala iqiniso, ngaphandle kokucindezela isimo lapho othandekayo wakho ejele. Akudingekile ukwengeza amanga ukuze ususe isimo esinzima, esijabulisayo othandekayo. Amanga anempahla yokubuyela. Khumbula ukuthi umuntu othandekayo etilongweni akayena umuntu oyisiphukuphuku ongafisi ukuphila kokubola ngemuva kokukhishwa. Kungenzeka, phakathi nesikhathi esichithe etilongweni, ubuyekeze isimo sakhe sengqondo ekuphileni. Ukuthandwa ejele, cishe, kusukela kumfana kuyoba yindoda enombono wakhe empilweni. KANYE NOKUBA UFANELE UKUHUMBULA NGALOKHU. Akukakushiywa ukuthi uzobuya ejele umuntu ohluke ngokuphelele, futhi awukwazi ukuqhubeka uhlala naye ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa. Yilungele le nguquko yezenzakalo.

Kodwa-ke, uthembela izithembiso zomuntu othandekayo ejele ngemuva kokukhululwa kwakho etilongweni impilo yakho izoba ngcono. Ngizokwenza isibonelo sokuthi lokhu kwenzekani kwabanye abantu abahluphekile le nkathazo, lapho othandekayo ejele, futhi ukuphila okungenakugwemeka.

Owesifazane oyedwa, igama lakhe nesibongo sakhe, asidlali indima, ngoba lesi simo siyabonakala, bafaka umyeni wakhe ukweba ishidi le-slate esakhiweni sokwakhiwa. Wabeka amandla kakhulu enkantolo yeThemis yaseRussia. Indoda eyayisejele yayisodwa yedwa umuntu oseduze naye, ngoba indodana yakhe yafa eminyakeni emibili edlule e-Chechnya. Kodwa inkantolo yalahla umyeni wayo ngokugcwele umthetho, futhi iminyaka engu-3 yachitha othandekayo wakhe ejele. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, uneminyaka engu-15 ubudala futhi wabheka eminyakeni engamashumi ayisithupha ngemuva kokukhululwa kwakhe. Wamemeza kakhulu ebusuku emcongeni ngemuva komsebenzi onzima, lapho ahlambalazwa khona ngomyeni wakhe - isela. Naphezu kwakho konke, wakwazi ukugcina uthando lwakhe ngaye.

Lapho othandekayo ejele ebhala izincwadi ezimcela ukuba angalindi lapho, wayenethemba lokuphelelwa ithemba. Khona-ke weza kuye. Saxoxa. Futhi manje sekuphele iminyaka engu-4 kusukela ekukhululweni kwakhe ekoloni. Bahlala ndawonye, ​​beqinisekisa isikhathi sokuthi uthando lwabo luqinile futhi luhlala kuze kube phakade.

Ngakho abesifazane abaphelelwa ithemba uma othandekayo wakho esejele. Mhlawumbe lokhu kuphela ukuhlolwa okuncane, kokubili kuye nasekuphileni kwakho.