Uyazi ukuthi uthando luni? Ungakhuluma ngalokhu ngokungapheli, futhi, mhlawumbe, wonke umuntu uyaqonda lo mzwa ngendlela yawo. Lokhu kuyinto elula, ephezulu, engavamile, eqinile, ehambisana nenhloko futhi ebamba wonke umuntu kumanethiwekhi abo. Mhlawumbe, lokhu ukukhanga nokuzwela okukhulu kumuntu.
U-Shakespeare uthe: "Uthando luhlukumezeka yilowo nalowo, futhi ngemva kokuthola, kancane kancane balahlekelwa yinzuzo kulo. Bese bephule, baqala ukubuka futhi. Uthando ngabantu alukwazi ukuhlala phakade. Futhi kubonakala sengathi babulala amaqhawe abo. "
Izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi abantu abakhuluma ngothando lwabo, bavame ukuzwa imizwa efana nokuthandana: uthando, ukuthanda, ukuthandana nokuxhumana ngokomzwelo. Umkhuba wokuletha abantu ndawonye uletha abantu ndawonye. Okunamathiselwe kubonakala, okuyinto abantu abavame ukuyikhohlisa njengothando.
Wake wake wazibuza ukuthi kunjani? Izimpendulo zalo mbuzo zingaba zihluke kakhulu: ezingabonakali, ezimbi, ezihlangene, ezingunaphakade, ezingcolile, ezingcolile, njll. Kungase kube nezimpendulo eziningi, kodwa inembile kakhulu izoba "ehlukile". Naphezu kwalokhu, simema abafundi bethu ukuba bazijwayele "ngezinhlobo zothando" ezivame kakhulu. Mhlawumbe, ngokufunda lesi sihloko, uzokhumbula imizwa oye wabhekana nayo futhi uzokwazi ukuyibeka ezinhlotsheni ezenzelwe ngezansi. Ungakwazi yini, ungowesigaba sabantu abangakaze bazwe le mizwa ephakeme? Kule ndaba, lesi sihloko sizoba indaba encane. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunjani, "izinhlobo zothando" ezinikezwe ngezansi zifanelekile, futhi uthando ngalunye luhlukile ngendlela yaso.
Love-drama
Sivame ukuzwa uthando olubonakalisayo. Ngokuvamile, lolu hlobo lothando luvela ekukhuleni, lapho imvelo encane ifuna ukuzwa imizwelo eqinile, futhi umlingani wakhe uyisizathu salokhu kuphela. Ngokuvamile ezindebeni zabathandi abanjalo kunamagama: "akasoze", "kuze kube phakade", "ngithembisa", "kakhulu", "madly" it.p. Ushayela abantu abaphambukayo, ugoba, uhlanganisa umhawu, ubangele izingxabano futhi aphikisana nemisebenzi engahlosiwe. Kubonakala sengathi konke kuyingozi futhi kuhle, kodwa empeleni, ubuhlobo obunjalo buphela ngokuzumayo njengoba kwenza, kuyilapho ukuhlukana kunzima kakhulu . Uthando ekukhuleni luyisikhathi sokuqala sobudlelwane obunamandla lapho sihlola zonke amaphutha ethu.
Uthando-zonda
Njengoba kungase kubonakale kunesibindi, uthando lungaba inzondo. Ngesikhathi "ungithwala kanjani (a)", "Angifuni ukukubona" ufuna ukusho okuningi kaningi kunokuthi "Ngiyakuthanda". Uma ufuna ukuqoqa ngaphakathi kwakho konke okuphefumula uphinde uphumele ngaphandle, uthi "phumani empilweni ephazamisekile" futhi ubheke ngqo enhliziyweni yenhliziyo ethandekayo yomuntu. Lezi zingxabano ezingapheli, izingcingo ezingabanjwanga, ubusuku obuhlala bodwa ewindini ngombono womuntu othandekayo nogwayi ozwakala sengathi ugwayi. Ngesikhathi sonyaka omusha wenza isifiso sokuthi ngeke nanini uthande omunye umuntu, kodwa emicabangweni yakho yekhanda mayelana nokuthi ungasusa kanjani lesi sifo "esingcolile esibomvu." Uthando-lukuzonda uma abalingani bengakwazi ukudala ukuzwana ebuhlotsheni. Mhlawumbe lokhu kungenxa yokuthi abantu ababili, ngokuvumelana nemizwa eqinile, babengaqapheli ukuthi bahluke kakhulu.
Uthando-ubungane
Kusukela ekuqaleni, lezi zinsuku zakhiwa ekuqondeni kanye nokwethenjelwa kokubili, okuqinisekisa ukuthi uzinzile futhi ukhululekile. Akunomhawu onobudlova, izitsha eziphukile, okuhlangenwe nakho, ngaphandle kwemibango emincane yasekhaya. Uhlobo oluzolile nolulinganiselwe, lapho kwenzeka ukuhlukana, bayovele bavele babe yizicucu. Lolu hlobo lobuhlobo lungcono ekudaleni umndeni nokukhulisa izingane. Njenge-2% ye-kefir, ikuvumela ukuba uhlale uphilile futhi uzizwe uhle ekuseni. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukungena encwadini enjalo ebusheni uma ufuna ukuzinikela ekuvumelaneni nesifiso.
Uthando - ukuzimela
Isibonelo, uthanda ibhola, izintambo ezipholile, umculo osindayo, izinkampani ezinomsindo, igitare kagesi ... futhi yena. Uthanda umculo we-classical, melodrama, yaseshashalazini ... futhi yena. Baphathana njengento yokuzilibazisa, intshiseko, njengokutshala izilwane ezifuywayo ezingaphandle. Abantu abanjalo badlala ngothando, ngenkathi begcina ubuhlobo obuvikelekile. Bayohlale bephila ngokuhlukile, behlala behlukile "Mina" futhi ngeke babe yinye. Ngezinye izikhathi abantu baziphathe ngale ndlela, baphume ngokuyisimangaliso enhlekeleleni yothando. Bajwayele ukutholana esixukwini, badakwa ngosuku lukaValentine, ngokuvamile bangabangane abahle futhi bathi okuhle uma nje inkulumo ethi "Ngiyakuthanda" ixhomeke emoyeni. Ubuhlobo obunjalo bufana ne-hepatosis, lapho umuntu eqaphela ukuthi lokhu akulungile, kodwa ukuzama ukuyikhipha ukunikeza ubuhlungu. Khona-ke unquma ukushiya konke okwenzekayo bese ulinda kuze kube yilapho uhlala khona uqobo. Kufika isikhathi lapho amanxeba ezinhliziyo ezindala kakade nekrotvotochat futhi umphefumulo ugcwele imizwa emisha, njengomoya wokuphefumula noma amanzi abandayo emva kwesomiso.
Love-chameleon
Le mizwa iyimfihlakalo futhi iphikisana nokungaqiniseki. Ozakwethu bayazana, kepha hhayi kangako ukwazi ukuthi yini okufanele balindane komunye nomunye umzuzwana ozayo. Baxabana, kodwa akwanele ukuhamba. Uma bezama ukuchaza ukuthi kungani bebonke, abatholi amagama afanele. Abaqondi ukuthi yini ebophayo ndawonye, kodwa noma kunjalo, besaba ukuphula lolu xhumano.
Sithemba ukuthi ngokufunda lesi sihloko, uzenzele ezinye iziphetho. Ingabe ubudlelwane? Uzoyithatha hlobo luni?