Noma yikuphi owesifazane nentombazane abanesithakazelo kulo mbuzo: "Kuhle kangakanani ukuvuma uthando kumuntu?" Yiqiniso, uma umfana noma umuntu ethanda ngempela, khona-ke bayakuvuma, kodwa uma ungamkhathaleli, akukho mzamo, isimo esingavamile, ubuhle ukuthembeka ngeke kusize. Yiqiniso, uma uqinisekile ukuthi isigamu sakho sesibili asinandaba nawe, kodwa ngenxa yokwesaba kwakhe, akakwazi ukuvuma lokhu, bese usebenza ngokwakho. Kunezindlela eziningi zokwenza kube kuhle! Nazi ezinye zazo:
1. I-Valentines
Kuhle ukuvuma ukuthanda indoda kungasiza ngo-valentines zakudala kanye ne-banal, kanti nakuba kubonakala sengathi ama-valentines ayenomzwelo futhi anesizotha, uphutha kakhulu. Izinhliziyo eziqoshwe futhi ezidwetshiwe ngezandla zakhe ziyakwazi ukutshela ngemizwa yakho bese udlulisa imizwelo. Ukuze lokhu kungenakulibaleka kumuntu wakho, ama-valentines adingeka ukuba aqedwe ngangokunokwenzeka, ngamunye wabo udinga ukubhala amagama amahle-ukuncoma futhi uwabeke nomaphi lapho atholakala khona namuhla yizintandokazi zakho: esimweni sefoni ephathekayo, isikhwama sezingubo zakhe, ekamelweni, njll.
2. isidlo saseRoma.
Hlela isidlo sakusihlwa esingenakulibaleka! Kungaba yini enhle futhi enhle kunomuntu ohlala kuyo, ngokuphambene nalokho, ngengubo enhle yambusi, phakathi kwamakhandlela e-flickering. Amakhandlela, ngendlela, angafakwa ngendlela yenhliziyo. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi isidlo sasinokudla okuthandayo. Izitsha zingahlotshiswe ngezinhliziyo ezinqunywe imifino noma izithelo, kusuka enhlama, sauce noma ukhilimu. Uma ungumama omuhle wendlu, khona-ke kulokhu ungabhaka ikhekhe bese ubeka kulowo umbhalo othi "Ngiyakuthanda", futhi kuyoba mnandi kakhulu uma ikhekhe ibhaliwe, isibonelo "uSeryozha, ngiyakuthanda". Ngemuva kwalokho, lapho ebona igama lakhe namazwi okuvuma ngekhekhe, injabulo yakhe ngeke iphele. Kumuntu wakho, isidlo esinjalo ngeke nje sizwakale okuhle, kodwa futhi sikhumbule. Qinisekisa ukuthi udlala umculo ozolile futhi ongahlosile ngesikhathi sidla, njengoba uzokwenza isidlo sakho sibe nomthando omkhulu.
3. Abezindaba, iziteshi zomsakazo, njll.
Uma isabelomali sakho ikuvumela, khona-ke ungavuma ukuthi uthande indoda ngosizo lwamabhantshi, amamaki alula, amaphosta. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kwanele ukufaka usizo kunoma iyiphi i-ejensi yokukhangisa, ikakhulukazi esikhathini sethu - kubhekwa njengento ekhangayo, eyinkimbinkimbi nemfashini. Uma kuyabiza kakhulu kuwe, ungashicilela ukuvuma kwakho emithonjeni yezindaba noma ushayele isiteshi somsakazo, akusibi kakhulu futhi cishe wonke umuntu uyatholakala.
4. Ukuqashelwa okungavamile
Ukuze uvume uthando lwakho, ungase futhi ngesinye isimo esingavamile. Isibonelo, unamathele ku-elevator, hamba ibhaluni ukugibela noma ukhuphukele ophahleni, ukuhlangabezana nokuntwela kokusa naye noma uhambe nje epaki. Noma kunjalo, uma uthola ukuthi ugeza izitsha, hamba kuye bese umamukela, ungakhononda, isibonelo: "Wena unomnotho, mnandi, omuhle, ngiyakwazi kakhulu." Ungakuvumeli ngokuphelele, kepha indlela eqotho neyomusa yokuqaphela othandweni.
Wonke owesifazane unengqondo, sonke singabakhiqizi kanye ne-zateynitsy, ukuthi kuhle kangakanani ukuvuma ukuthi umuntu uyamthanda umuntu ngamunye. Udinga nje i-fantasy encane. Isimiso esiyinhloko ekuqapheliseni ngaso sonke isikhathi sihlala sihlale sisodwa futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi kudingeke sikhumbule ukuthi kunhle othandweni ukuhlonishwa hhayi kuphela kulawo madoda nabesilisa ongashadile nabo, kodwa nakwabesilisa bakho abathandayo, ngoba bafuna ukuzizwa bedingeka futhi bathandekayo .