Ithiphu 1. Udinga ukulinda ukuqala. Ungamgijimi, ake ucabange futhi azikhethele ukuthi angakwenza ngaphandle kwakho okwamanje. Ngikholelwa, uma ethandana nawe, khona-ke ngaphezu kwemicabango ngawe angeke abe nalutho nezintshisekelo ezintsha, ngeke akhangwe.
Ithiphu 2: Udinga ukuphumula. Kunoma yikuphi, kukhona uxhumano lwamandla phakathi kwakho. Futhi uma uzwa futhi uhlupheka kakhulu kunakho konke, unikeza amandla akho kuye. Yeka ukwenza izinsiza futhi uzobona umphumela ohluke ngokuphelele. Ungaphinda ubuke ngokushesha umthandi omusha, vele uqondise kabusha amandla akho kwesinye isiqondiso. Ngikholelwa, umthandi wakho uzokuzwa ngokushesha. Ekuphileni kwami kwakukhona icala elinjalo, lapho ngiliphuka nomuntu othandekayo, engangiye naye ubuhlobo obude naye. Angizange ngibe ngokweqile, ngisanda kumvakashela umngane wami kwenye idolobha. Njengoba ngilapho, ngikhohliwe ngazo zonke izinkinga futhi ngiye ngapha nangapha ngekhanda lami. Kwabonakala kimi ukuthi angikudingi enye. Futhi ngokuzumayo umthandi wami waqala ukungibiza njalo futhi wazibuza ukuthi kungani ngaya khona? Futhi lapho ngivame ukuya kumngane wami ngaphambili, angizange ngibone ukuphendula okunjalo ngaphambili. Kodwa-ke ngiyaqonda ukuthi kunzima ukugcina ukunganakwa okuphelele.
Ngeke ngikubhalele, ukuthi udinga ukuqapha ukubukeka kwakho, zithande wena, ngoba sidinga ubuhlobo obuphakeme.
Ithiphu 3. Yiba nomusa kakhulu. Awuzange ucabange ukuthi abesifazane abathandi ukutholwa izipho kuphela, kodwa amadoda afana nokuthola izipho ezihlukahlukene. Uma umthandi wakho enesithakazelo esisha, cishe cishe ulindele isipho esivela kuye kunalokho akwenzayo. Basengenalo ubuhlobo obude kangaka futhi bekungeke kungafanelekile ukuba anikeze umuntu isipho. Futhi lapha kufanele uvele. Emva kwakho konke, uyazi okuningi, nomunye futhi unelungelo lokumnika into angenakuyenza, ngoba unamalungelo amaningi namathuba kulokhu. Futhi akufanele ukhohlwe ngokusekelwa kokuziphatha. Emva kwakho konke, ezikhathini ezinzima zokuphila kungasiza, umngane omdala kuphela, owaziyo isikhathi eside futhi ethemba okuningi. Uma uhambisa umphikisi wakho, umthandi wakho uzolindele okuningi kusuka kuwe. Kodwa okokuqala, umgomo wethu ukuqeda umphikisi, bese sizovela nenye into.
Ithiphu 4. Udinga ukuthatha insimu. Sondelani nabangane bakhe bese uzama ukwakha ubudlelwane nabo, ziphendulele kubahlanganyeli bakho. Futhi thola indlela eya kumama wakhe, ngisho noma engakuthandi, kodwa akudingeki ukwazi ngakho.
Ithiphu 5. Yenza izifiso zakhe ezintsha zibe yisithiyo sakho. Usuvele waba abangane, kodwa indodakazi yakhe encane imbiza njalo, ibhala imiyalezo futhi kulo mzuzu, kufanele ukhumbule ukuthi unebhizinisi eliphuthumayo. Futhi ake ukhulume manje ngento ebalulekile, shiya ingxoxo engapheli futhi uhambe. Futhi ngalesi sikhathi, umthandi wakho uzoqala ukucabanga ukuthi ukufutheka kwakhe okusha kuyisithiyo kuwe.
Ithiphu 6. Yenza ukuncoma ekuthandeni kwakhe okusha. Ngaphandle kwalokho kufanele uhlale uthi ugcwele amaphutha. Amaminithi akhe abonisa kahle ngokuncoma. Emva kwakho konke, yena ngokwakhe uyazi ukuthi yini engalungile kuwo, kodwa ukhuluma ngenye indlela, ngakho njengokungathi uyayincenga.
Ithiphu 7. Kumele umbonise ukuthi ibuthakathaka kakhulu. Ngemuva kwalokho, amadoda afisa ukuzizwa evikelekile namaqhawe. Mnike leli thuba futhi umkhumbuze njalo ngalokhu. Mbonise ngazo zonke izindlela ukuthi ngaphandle kwakhe ungeke ukwazi ukwenza noma yini futhi uhlale udinga ukuvikelwa kwakhe.
Khuluma ngokuthi ungabuyisa kanjani umthandi kungaba yisikhathi eside. Ungesabi ukuzama, futhi mhlawumbe uzothola into entsha ngokuphelele. Ngempela, owesifazane kufanele abe nobuqili, futhi nguwe kuphela owaziyo wonke amaphuzu akhebuthakathaka.
Sikholelwa ukuthi ngokukunikeza amathiphu wokuthi ungabuyisa kanjani umthandi wakho, uzophumelela futhi impilo yakho izokwakha kabusha.