Uthando ngumzwelo omuhle, unikeza abantu amaphiko futhi baphefumulelwa uthando lwabo ukuletha abantu kuphela ukukhanya nokufudumala. Abathandi bayiletha imfihlakalo nenjabulo emhlabeni, amanzi abo amanzi aqinile kangangokuthi abonakala ekhanyisa umhlaba wonke ngokukhanya kwawo. Ukuthanda okwangempela, akuwona wonke umuntu owanikwa, kuyisipho sikaNkulunkulu. Ngokuvamile, uthando luzuzisa ngokufanayo, noma uthando emvelweni.
"Uthando olungunaphakade luhlala othandweni," - ngakho-ke ungasho amaphesenti amancane abantu bomhlaba. Kwabaningi, ukukhona kothando olungunaphakade kungenye enye inganekwane. Indabakwane mayelana nenkosana ozosifeza okuhle futhi othandekayo, ukunikeza izimbali, ukugqoka ezandleni zakhe. Eqinisweni, sinamathuba amaningi okuba nobuqili kithi, noma izinkulumo ezivamile zothando ngendlela yesinye esangazela esihlathini lapho sisebenza. Futhi kuthiwani ngalolo thando oluhlala njalo nothando, yiziphi izimbongi, abalobi beprosethi abhala. Siboniswa ezindabeni zethelevishini ezibukisayo mayelana nothando oluphakade. Kungani sisendaweni yangempela lokhu empeleni ayifuni.
Sidinga ukubheka le nkinga evela kuzo zonke izinhlangothi, akufanele nje kuphela ngokuzithobayo sibhekane nalolu daba. Amawayini akahlali nje elele emagxeni omuntu, kodwa thina besifazane nabo sihle. Ngokuqinisekile uyindoda, kodwa owesifazane uyintamo. Ngowesifazane onokuhlakanipha kwakhe okungabuya ubuhlobo obudala bothando nothando.
Ngimangele othandekayo wakho futhi umangale. Lona ngumthetho wokuqala wothando oluphakade. Ungacabangi ngalokhu, ukuthi ngeke kube neholidi nsuku zonke. Kungakwenza nje, uma ubeka umzamo kuwo. Ukwakha uthando olungunaphakade ngumsebenzi onzima kakhulu, ongenakuqhathaniswa nakho. Ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane buyonakaliswa - impilo yansuku zonke, umkhuba nokuntuleka okungapheli kwesikhathi. Kodwa kukhona indlela yokubhekana nobudlelwane obuseduze, ikhandlela eliyisisekelo ekhanda lombhede, i-massage yobusuku, ilineni elibukeka kahle, izinti ezinamakha. Futhi okuningi okuningi okungaletha intsha ebuhlotsheni.
Lalela indoda yakho futhi uyizwe. Ukulalela nokuzwa yizinto ezimbili ezihluke ngokuphelele. Akufanele ulalele kuphela abathandekayo bakho, kodwa futhi uzwe lokho akushoyo kuwe. Hlaziya konke akushilo. Singabantu besifazane, kaningi singavumeli umuntu akhulume, amvimbe ngamazwi athi: "Ngisazi ukuthi yini ofuna ukungitshela" noma "Ngiyazi ukuthi usho ukuthini manje". Ungayinqumanga ngakho akudingekile, futhi awukwazi ukuqhuba i-monologue phambi kwakhe. Bambuza imibuzo futhi baziphendulele yena. Awukwazi. Uyothini kuwe ngomzuzu olandelayo, awufundi umqondo wakhe.
Ngaphambi kokuba sinikeze umuntu wethu othandekayo ezihlukahlukene, siqala ukucabanga ngokushesha lapho esabela khona nezimpendulo zemibuzo. Lokhu kungenye iphutha kithi, asikwazi ukuthi kusengaphambili ukuthi indoda izosabela kanjani kulokhu konke. Futhi ngenkathi le ndaba ingafinyeleli ku-apogee yayo, asazi ukuthi yini le ndoda ecabanga ngayo.
Ukwesaba okwesaba ebuchosheni bethu bukhuluma ngokungaqiniseki kwethu nawe. Uma umuntu ethanda futhi ekwazisa, uyohlale eqonda konke. Futhi uzokwazisa imizamo yakho ngesithunzi. Futhi, uma konke kungenjalo njengoba kwakulindelekile, ungakhathazeki esikhathini esizayo kuzoba ngcono. Sifanele lokho kanye nabantu ukuba bafunde emaphutheni ethu.
Nika! Yilokho, naka ukunakwa kwakho, izipho. Kodwa izipho kuphela azizona zomnotho, kodwa isipho esinomcabango wengqondo yakho nothando.
Nguwe kuphela okwazi ukusiza ukusinda kothando kuleli zwe elikhulu lezilingo nokucasula. Ngokuvamile khuluma nomuntu ngobuhlungu, ake uzwe futhi futhi uzame ukusiza. Ngokubili - unamandla, ngamunye - izidalwa ezibuthakathaka.
Ngisho nososayensi baqala ukufuna indlela yokuthanda okuphakade. Ngemva kokuphenya imibhangqwana esemisha kanye nemibhangqwana ehlala ndawonye iminyaka engama-90, bathola ukuthi imibhangqwana ethile ehlala ndawonye iminyaka eminingi, inokuphendula okufanayo ebuchosheni njengamabhangqwana othandweni. Lokhu kuphikisa ngokuphelele umbono wendabuko ngothando, ngokusho ukuthi yiziphi izinqubo zamakhemikhali ezenza ukuba isimo sengqondo siphelelwe yisikhathi ezinyangeni ezingu-15 emva kokuqala kokuphila okuhlangene futhi sanyamalala ngokuphelele ngemva kweminyaka eyishumi.