Emsebenzini
Namuhla, ubuhlobo emsebenzini abubhekwa njengento engavamile. Yiqiniso, akufanele umkhangise. Ebudlelwaneni nabalingani emsebenzini, abantu bayashesha kaningi. Emva kwakho konke, isikhathi esiningi sichitha konke lapho, futhi kusihlwa akusekho uthando lwezinqathe, iningi lazo, beza ekhaya, belele ukulala. Futhi esikhathini esiningi kakhulu "sebhizinisi" sisehhovisi. Lokhu kuphonsa "ikhibhodi nabasebenzi befoni" ezandleni zababhali abancane, abaphathi bezocansi kanye nomakhelwane nje ekamelweni lokubhema. Lokhu kuwubuciko obukhethekile. Bobabili abalingani bahlola ngokucophelela amathemba obuhlobo obunjalo futhi akunakwenzeka ukukhuluma nganoma yimiphi imizwa noma bazihlanganise. Ubulili obunjalo bungasibo nje uhlobo lwe-caresses ne-preludes - lungabandakanyeka ngisho nokuxhumana phakathi kozakwethu. Ukukhulumisana ngamazwi, yebo, - banomzimba okwanele. Nakuba i-romance yesevisi ingahudula izinyanga eziningi, ngisho neminyaka. Lona uhlobo lwe-detente - futhi luvela kumlingani wokuphumula ohlala njalo, futhi kusukela emsebenzini wokuthakazelisa okuningi.
Kule ndawo
Ngeshwa, akuwona wonke umbhangqwana ongakwazi ukuphumula ndawonye. Omunye akakhululwa emsebenzini, umuntu onomoya akabekezeli umlingani othandekayo waseNdiya noma ilanga laseGibithe elishisayo. Futhi eminye imindeni ikholelwa ukuthi iholide elihlukile liqinisa ubudlelwane futhi lenze kube lula kakhulu. Kodwa iqiniso lihlala - iholidi ngaphandle komlingani noma eziningi akubhekwa njengento engeyona engokwemvelo, ngenxa yalokho, ilanga elikhanyayo nabathandi bezitshisi ezishisayo bayakujabulela ngokuhlukile. Futhi lapho, emaphethelweni ahlukene womhlaba, amahomoni abo bobabili aqala ukuthatha owakhe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, izwi eliphansi lingaphakathi livame ukumisa noma liqale ukuthunga idama: yenza, akekho ozokwazi. Futhi-ke, ngokumangalisayo, into enesifiso ilula, futhi isifiso cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi sithandana. Abesifazane abavela ebuhlotsheni obunjalo ngomqondo wangempela we "balder" - uma ungathola sonke isitolo sokuvuma kanye nokusebenzisana ngesonto? Futhi amadoda athola injabulo ngokulungele ukwenza zonke izinhlobo zezinto ezenzekayo ezakhamuzi zemizi yokubhuka noma izivakashi ezifanayo futhi zifuna uthando lwezintandokazi. Njengomthetho, ebuhlotsheni obunjalo bonke abantu bathola lokho abakufunayo. Phela, akudingeki ucabange ngekusasa, ikakhulukazi ungazami - ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa, indaba yezobucayi izophela, futhi abashadile bazobuyela ekhaya, wonke umuntu ovela ezwekazinikazi - ukuhlangabezana nokuhlela ubulili obubonisa ukuthi wonke umuntu ngokuhlakanipha uhlale ethule mayelana nokuthola lapho abamukelayo abaningi kangaka. Ngendlela, abesifazane, amanoveli amothando ngokuvamile agcina engaphumeleli - uma uthola ikhanda lamanye amahle ashisayo aseMpumalanga, bese ubhidlika, ungabhaleli izincwadi ezincwadini ezimbalwa bese uzihlupha ngomcabango othi "kungani engabuyelanga emuva." Khona-ke ekuphishekeleni umlando osheshayo ungalahlekelwa ubuhlobo obuqinile obuqinile. Futhi umyeni wami othandekayo. Vumela okungalungile kancane. Vumela i-horny encane. Kodwa othandekayo.
Uhlazo oluhle
Uke wafunda izincwadi zabanye? Umlando wemiyalezo ku-ICQ? Noma i-e-mail? Futhi akudingekile. Ngiyaphenduka, ngiyisoni. Njalo lapho ngithembisa ukuthi ngizohlonipha impilo yomlingani wami. Futhi njalo lapho ngiphuka. Ikhompuyutha ivuliwe, umthandi akasekho ekhaya, zonke izinhlelo zisesandleni sakho. Vula it. Ah, uyathanda. Ngezinkinga zomsebenzi? Ukuphazamisa kancane kancane namhlanje. Futhi yikuphi lokhu? Phew, yiyiphi inhlamba. Amathuba okuba nenkinga efana nalokhu - i-SMS, ukuxhumana kwe-elekthronikhi, inamba enkulu yezingxoxo zocansi nezinye izinto ze-elekthronikhi. Lolu hlelo lulula: hamba, ufike nesidlaliso esikhangayo bese uqala ukuxhumana. Ungabeka isithombe - i-poerotichnee eyengeziwe, ngezingubo ezincane ngangokunokwenzeka. Amadoda azibonakalisa kalula kumngane weqiniso enkazimulweni yayo yonke, kepha amantombazane kule plan ngokuvamile ayamahloni kakhulu. Ama-photo seductive ama-computer awabonisi ngokushesha, aphuze lo mzuzwana. Abaningi babo bade bathumele isithombe kusukela ku-intanethi kuya kumbukiso esikhundleni sezithombe zabo (okuyiqiniso, izithombe zabadumile asisekho emfashini - "ama-alanuha" anjalo angama-immune athuthukile), kanti omunye unomkhawulo ochazwe ngomlomo wezintelezi zabo. Kungani imibhangqwana eshadile ikhathele umbhede womndeni udonsela kuwebhu ekhulayo yewebhu web jikelele? Izibambiso ezinjengokuthi "ukukhathala okuvela e-monotony embhedeni" futhi okujwayelekile ukuthi "idemoni emgqeni" lapha kuzoba ngaphezulu. Into esemqoka edonsela bobabili besilisa nabesifazane ngezocansi zangempela ukuthi ayikho inqatshelwe kuyo. Awuboni umlingani wakho, kodwa akakuboni. Ngeke uhlangane. Ngakho-ke, ungakwazi ukukhokhela konke, ngisho nezinto ezinamahloni ngazo ukukhuluma ngokuzwakalayo.
Amadoda nabesifazane abaye bashintsha umlingani wabo ohlala njalo, bezisola ngesenzo esihle, naphezu kokuthi isenzo selokhu siyimfihlo. Lezi ziyimiphumela yezifundo zanamuhla eziqhutshwa izazi zengqondo kanye nezingqondo ze-psychotherapists eminyakeni yamuva. Cabanga ngaphambi kokuba uwele umugqa onqatshelwe. Amaminithi enjabulo akufanelekile ukuthembela komuntu othandekayo.
"Ngomngane omdala"
Ukutholakala "kwezintombi ezindala ezinhle" kulabo abathembekile akudingeki kukunike injabulo. Njengabo "abangane bakhe" kanye nabangangifunda nabo. Omunye wathi ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane buya ocansini, buhlehliselwa kamuva. Imibono ngale ndaba ihlukile kubo bonke. Kodwa ukuxhumana okunjalo kungakhula kalula kube yinto engaphezulu. Impikiswano engathí sina (noma cha) emkhatsini womlingani - futhi bayaya ukuthola induduzo kubangani. Futhi uma umngane ebukeka ehlukile kobulili? Yebo, futhi kubukeka kahle? Mhlawumbe, bekukhona uthando olufihliwe phakathi kwakho kanye neminyaka yesikole? Uphuza oluncane lungaba yisisusa salo mxube. Futhi umphumela kuphela ukuhlazeka phakathi kozakwethu. Abesifazane emva kokungabonakali okunjalo, njengomthetho, baphindela emuva emndenini - kuthinta umuzwa wecala. Ukuxhumana nomngane wakho kungase kuphele isikhathi eside. Futhi amadoda azizwa ekhululekile - angase aqhubeke nokuxhumana "nentombi endala," kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuthi ubulili besikhathi esisodwa buzokhula zibe ngaphezulu. Izintshisekelo ezinjalo azipheli lutho - ezivela kubantu abadala, abahlobo babo abavivinywe isikhathi eside, abavame ukuphuma abathandi.
Ukuhlukunyezwa okungapheli
Ngelinye ilanga umcabango okhululekile wangena ekhanda lami ukuthi ubuhlobo bebuqalile ukuthukuthela, kwakungekho okwanele kokuthile okubukhali futhi okusha. Kodwa, njengoba inhlanhla yayizoba nayo, umuntu wami othandekayo wayengenakufinyelela, futhi angizange ngilinde ama-adventures amnandi. Kisses standard, ubulili obuvamile. Ngcono kakhulu, ngeke sikwenze embhede, kodwa, isibonelo, phansi. Futhi lokhu kuzobizwa ngokuthi "ukuhlukahluka." Futhi yilapho ngidonsela khona ngifuna ukuzithokozisa "ngehora lesihlanu." Ngilungiselele kahle: Ngenza uhlelo lwalokho engangikufuna ukukwenza, ngacabanga ukuthi kungenziwa kanjani futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukhetho olukhethiwe lendima "yomlingani osheshayo obambe iqhaza." Owokuqala wayengumngane omdala. Umngane omdala usephuphile ukuthi ngeke nje sibe abangane, kodwa abangane, okungenani ngezinye izikhathi babe nobulili, kodwa njengokwengeziwe - benze njalo. Insimbi. Isimemo sokudlela. Imali ende. Isevisi yamatekisi. Dinner. Enye itekisi. Futhi sengisondele eduze komnyango, "umshayeli wami odakiwe" waqala ukukhuphukela kimi ngokungenangqondo. Mina ngokwami ngangifuna, kodwa ngaleso sikhathi kwaba yinto enengekayo futhi enengekayo. Ngisinda kulo mqhubi. Wabe esebona ukuthanda kwakhe kwangaphambili. Ukukhanya okubomvu ekhanda lami kubanjwe umlilo, kodwa sekwephuzile - umshini usuvele usebenza. Mhlawumbe ikhofi? Siya kuwe. Isandla sami sisehlombe lakho. Ngiyamanga ngesifuba sakhe ngecala. Ngabe sengifaka njengamanje. Kulesi sakhiwo ngangingamakhulu izikhathi. Izikhathi eziningi zamunca lo muntu. Futhi manje konke kubukeka sengathi akukho lutho olushintshile. Izindonga ezifanayo, i-sofa efanayo, izincwadi ezifanayo, i-vase efanayo yamaswidi etafuleni lekhofi. Ngibukeka emehlweni ami futhi ngiyaqonda. Cha, akunjalo. Angikwazi. Kule mizuzu embalwa, ngakhumbula konke: kungani ngishiye lo muntu, kungani ngingakaqala ukukhuluma ngaleso sikhathi. Ngigijimela endlini.
Isevisi yamatekisi. Ikhaya lomgwaqo. Yini elandelayo kuhlelo? Ah. Ukukwazi nomfokazi wesondo ocansini. Kule club. Noma nabantu abaningi abangabazi. Hhayi, cha! Nginakho ngokwanele! Hamba kahle. Ifoni igcina. "Yebo, ingane yami? Yiqiniso, ngizobe ngilapho khona." "Ngiyithukuthele kakhulu!" Nawe? Hamba, ubumnandi. " Ngakho ukukhohliswa kwami okucatshangelwe nokucophelela akuzange kwenzeke. Kodwa manje ngibone ukuthi angifuni omunye umuntu. Futhi ukusola ukuthi othembekile uye waba mncane kakhulu - sonke singabantu. Futhi uma ngifisa kakhulu, ngizophinde ngiphumelele kabili. Njengomthetho, abesifazane banqanda lokhu. Ngabantu kunzima kakhulu. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzoyiletha ekugcineni. Kuphela ukuze uqonde ukuthi "i-samovar yakho ingcono." Futhi thola phansi. Futhi wena, othandekayo wami, uzohlala ujabule. Mhlawumbe kungcono kakhulu - ngoba uyazi kangako, njengoba bethi, ulala ngokuqinile.
Ekuphetheni, ngifuna ukusho into eyodwa kuphela. Konke osuvele ufunda akusho nakancane ukuthi umthandi wakho uzama ukukufundisa izimpondo yonke indawo. Yebo, izinkathazo zenzeka njalo. Futhi lokhu akusho ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuphela kothando - kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa ubuhlobo nomunye umuntu kanye nobulili nje. Kodwa, cishe, emsebenzini, umyeni wakho akacabangi ngemilenze ende yomuntu osebenza naye kumakhompi angomakhelwane, kodwa ukuthi ungakumema kuphi ngempelasonto. Noma ukhumbula ubusuku bakho bokugcina.
Yebo, uma ubheka izinto ngokucophelela - kusebenza nje. Isebenza ukuze ukondle umndeni, bese uya eholidini nawe. Futhi ungaboni lapho, "kuma-samovars wabanye abantu." Futhi ngisho nabangani bakhe akalali kahle-mhlawumbe ekhuluma ngesicingo sezolo kusukela engxoxweni yezocansi, eyamthumelela isithombe se-Hilton yama-blude, kodwa asisekho. Ubudlelwane bwakhiwe ngokuthembela - ngakho ukwethemba, futhi izinkinga ezinjalo zizokudlula. Izintandokazi ziyakwazisa.