Yonke isikhathi eside isijwayele ukuthi indlela emfushane kakhulu enhliziyweni yomuntu isesisu. Kulula konke lokho, kodwa, kodwa ... "inhliziyo yesisu noma isisu senhliziyo" into engaxoxwa ngayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, sekuyisikhathi eside abesifazane besazi ukuthi ngaphandle kwesisu amathuba okufinyelela enhliziyweni yomuntu othandekayo awawona amancane. Futhi nansi inkinga.
Okubalulekile kuzohluleka ngokungazelelwe?
Owesifazane webhizinisi nsuku zonke ubemi kude ekhishini, akanaso isikhathi sokucabanga ngamakhokhethi futhi, ikakhulukazi, aphile ngenxa yesisu somunye umuntu. Ngakho wonke owesifazane ophumelelayo unamathuba angamakhulu angaphezu kwekhulu ukulahlekelwa yinhliziyo yakhe?Ngokubona kwesimanje, lapho abantu bekhetha ukuba nekhofi emsebenzini futhi badle isidlo sakusihlwa endaweni yokudlela enkampanini yabangane, indlela eya enhliziyweni ye-cute iqala ukukhuphuka futhi ilahleke. Amadoda okuqala azizwa engalungile. Bakhathazeka ngokukhululekile, bangasho ukuthi sekuyisikhathi eside befisa izingubo zezimama, amaqebelengwane angama-flat and skits. Ngokuvamile baxhaphaza ukudla okusemthethweni, baningi badumisa "itiye elingenalutho", badakiwe ekhaya emndenini womndeni. Ngokuvamile bacela abathandekayo babo ukuba bapheke okuthile. Akunjalo ngomqondo wezilwandle, kodwa elula, ehloniphekile. Into eyinhloko iwukuthi ngokwabo, ngezandla zabo siqu, "bayasho ngokuphupha.
Bheka esikhundleni sokusihlwa.
Ingabe lesi sihloko singaxoxwa embuthanweni wesifazane? Uma ubheka izinkundla zamabhinqa ezimbalwa, qiniseka ukuthi uyakwazi. Isihloko, siyavela, singunaphakade ...Ukuze siqonde ukuhlupheka kwesisu esiswini, ngaphandle kwama-pie asekhaya, sizokwazi imenyu ye-bachelor. Isisu somuntu, ngokuyisisekelo, sifana nokuhlafuna, uma kuphela kunokulingana okwanele ubhiya namavithamini. Esivivinyweni sethu sabamba iqhaza: ikhofi, ama-sausages, amadombolo, ugwayi, inkukhu, ubhiya, ama-sausages, amazambane, amaqanda kanye ... nebhola. Umthamo owodwa we-athomu womuntu obanjwe ngokuphelele ufanelwe umphathi. Isithombe sasihluke ngokuphelele uma evele ekhishini. Izidingo zokudla zanda ngokuqhubekela phambili kwejometri. Njengamadoda kamuva avunyelwe, kwakubalulekile kubo nokuthi kanjani ithebula linikezwa, futhi okubaluleke nakakhulu, ukuthi "likhonjwe" kanjani. Abanye babengaqondile: bathi, kuhle kakhulu uma umenyiwe ngokujabulisayo ukuze udle. Umoya uthuthuka, ukugaya futhi, futhi inhliziyo ihlabelela nje. Omunye ukuqashelwa wesilisa kungabhekwa njengento ejwayelekile. Siyafunda: "Uma ngingenangqondo, ke: i-borsch, inkukhu namazambane, itiye ngaphandle kobisi nobisi lwejuju." I-iresiphi yesimo sengqondo esihle ingahle ichazwe njengendlela eya enhliziyweni! Kodwa-ke, izazi zengqondo ziphikelela ukuthi ekuthandweni kwezingane zesisu, akulula kakhulu. Abesifazane kumele bafunde okungabonakali ngokwabo kusukela ku-belyashas kanye no-ukhukhamba oqoshiwe, okuthiwa babefisa kakhulu injabulo esuka enhliziyweni yabanamandla kuleli zwe. Akukho lutho konke lokhu. Futhi yini engeyona into eyiyo?