Ukwakha indlu ephusheni: benzini abahumushi?
Kwenzeka ukuthi amanye amaphupho ahloselwe ukubikezela inkambo yesikhathi esizayo kuphela, kodwa futhi akhuthaza ukuba ucabangele okwamanje. Kulolu hlobo lapho indlu ekwakhiwa ifakiwe kulophupho. Ngokusho kwabahlaziyi abaningi abathandwayo, uma ukwakhiwa kwendlu entsha kucatshangwa, kusho ukuthi izwe lakho langaphakathi lizobhekana nezinguquko ezinkulu. Maduzane uzoshintsha ukubuka kwakho okuhleliwe ezintweni ezijwayelekile, kuyoba nokuhlaziya kabusha kokuphila.
Ukuphendukela kumhumushi wesiRashiya endala, ungathola incazelo ehlukile. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, ukubona emaphupheni ukuthi izindonga zendawo ezintsha zokuhlala zakhiwa kusho ukuthi ushintsho lungcono. Mhlawumbe, maduzane uzobe ushada / uthandane uthando. Kubantu asebevele benomndeni, ukulala kudala ukuchuma nokuchuma ebhizinisini.
Uma ngabe kwadingeka ukuba wakhe indlu ephusheni, kusho ukuthi umi emngceleni wokuphila okusha. Yonke imithwalo izothuthukiswa ngaphandle kokubunzima okukhulu kanye nezinzwa. Zama ukwenza izinto eziningi ezijabulisa inhliziyo. Kungenzeka ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze uzoba ngumnikazi wezindlu zangempela, ezizobheka wonke amalungu omndeni wakho. Into esemqoka akusiyo ukuhlala emuva, kodwa ukwenza okuthandayo.
Ngokombiko odumile wezincwadi zephupho, ukwakha indlu kusho ukushintsha indawo yokuhlala noma umsebenzi. Ngokushesha kufanele uthole isipho lapho ungalokothi unqabe khona. Uma indlu ekwakhiwa isivele ivele ivele iphelele, ibonakala ihlanzekile futhi ihlelekile, bese ulindela ubudlelwane bomndeni, izenzakalo ezijabulisayo ezihlobene nabantu bomdabu. Kowesifazane, le ndaba ingasho ukukhulelwa kokuqala noma ubuhlobo obusha obuphumelelayo.
Kungani uphupha, kanjani indlu yabanye abantu eyakhiwe?
Ukubona ephusheni ukuthi umuntu wakha kanjani ikhaya kusho ukuthi awunelisekile ngokuphelele impilo yamanje. Futhi, lesi sakhiwo singakhuluma ngokuxabana kwangaphakathi ngokwakho. Kusuka isinyathelo ongeke unqume nganoma iyiphi indlela, ikusasa lakho lizoxhomeka. Leli phupho lingabhekwa njengesibonakaliso ukuthi zonke izingozi ozoya kuzo ziyoba inhlanhla.
Uma ephusheni lakho ube nobungane ukusiza ukwakhela isihlobo sakho noma umngane wakho, qiniseka ukuthi lo muntu akasoze akukhaphela. Ngezikhathi ezinzima ungakwazi njalo ukuthembela ekusekeleni nasekusizeni kwakhe.
Bamba iqhaza ekwakhiweni kwendlu yomunye umuntu futhi uzizwe ukhathele kakhulu ngesikhathi esifanayo, kusho ukuthi umusa wakho nesihe umuntu asebenzisela izinhloso zamabhange. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzikhawulele kunoma yikuphi okuhle, futhi umkhohlisi ngalesi sikhathi uphila ngokuzithokozisa kwakhe, ekhombisa, ngesikhathi esifanayo, izindaba ezintsha ezithambile.
Njengoba sekuvele kucacile kusukela ekuhumusheni, ephusheni ukwakha indlu, akusho nje izinguquko ezithile, kodwa futhi nesici esithile sokuthi ubani onakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isakhiwo sikugqugquzela ukuthi ucabange ngendlela oye wamboza futhi, uma kwenzeka, ukuvuselela umzila oqhubekayo.