Uzocabanga ukuthi ngeke uhlale nomamazala wakho uzobe ulungile. Into ebaluleke kakhulu okudingayo ukucabanga ngayo ukuthi umamazala wesikhathi esizayo ungumama wengane yakho yesikhathi esizayo. Wayazi ngisho naphambi kwakho, ngoba yena ungowesifazane osondelene kakhulu futhi othanda kakhulu. Futhi manje ufuna ukuyisusa ekugubheni kwayo, ngisho noma ungazifihli endaweni yayo. Udinga ukuqonda ukuthi manje uzoba owesifazane oyinhloko, kodwa ngaphandle kwakho, akekho okufanele azi.
Uthanda kanjani umamazala wakho wesikhathi esizayo?
Umhlangano kufanele uhlelwe kokubili umamazala omusha kanye nawe. Udinga ukuvinjelwa kukho konke: ekuziphatheni, ekwenzeni, ezembathweni. Umkhwenyana womkhwenyana womalokazana onjalo, ngobuhle obuhle kakhulu nentombazane ehlakaniphile. Ungasebenzisi ama-eyelashes amaningi wokwenza, ugcizelele izindebe nge-glitter futhi lokhu kuzokwanela. Ikhalenda elikhulu lamacilongo lizoba yindalo. I-manicure kufanele ibe nehle.
Isitayela
Ezingubo, zithande izinto ezilungisiwe, ezigcinwe kanye nezinsikazi. Ukuze uthole isidlo sakusihlwa, udinga ukugqoka ukugqoka kwakho okuthandayo wesifazane, kuyoba yindlela yokuwina. Futhi isikhwama sizogcizelela isitayela sakho esiyingqayizivele. Isikhumba sesikhwama nemifino yaso ejulile, elula, yilokho okudingayo.
Umhlobiso
Uma kunezinhlobonhlobo zasendulo, zidinga ukugqoka. Izesekeli zizoba isihloko engxoxweni, ngakho uzobonisa umamazala wakho wesikhathi esizayo ukuthi awunandaba namazinga omndeni.
Ingxoxo
Kusukela ekuqinisekiseni umamazala wesikhathi esizayo, ukuthi indodana yakhe iyindoda yakho ethandekayo, oyifunayo impilo, izoxhomekeka ukuthi ingabe iyomnika "ingane" yakhe ezandleni zakho. Indlela enhle yokuthola umamazala wakho wesikhathi esizayo kuyoba ukumbonisa ukuthi enhliziyweni yendodana yakhe uthatha indawo yokuqala, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi wayengakuthandi kangakanani. Buza ukuthi yiziphi izitsha zakho zokuthanda umlingani, indlela yokuziphatha naye uma engenayo imizwa. Buza, yisiphi isipho ukunikeza abathandekayo bakho. Vumela umamazana wakho wesikhathi esizayo aqonde ukuthi ukwazi umlingani womkhwenyana wakho nombono wakhe kuyigugu kuwe.
Ngaphambi kwesikhathi, cela umyeni wakho wesikhathi esizayo ukuthi umama wakhe unesithakazelo kulokho, lokho akuqondayo, lokho akuthandayo. Khumbula ukuthi uzobuzwa mayelana nezithakazelo zakho futhi akufanele uphuthelwe ithuba lokubonisa i-erudition yakho. Konke kufanele kukhulunywe ngaphandle kokuziqhayisa. Sitshele ukuthi unesithakazelo ezintweni zokuzilibazisa zendodana yakhe futhi ujabulele ngenhliziyo yakhe ngendodana yakhe ukuthi unezinhlobo ezinhle zomzimba. Khona-ke umama wakho wesikhathi esizayo uzomomotheka ebusweni bakhe.
Gcina ingxoxo evamile futhi elula. Gwema izihloko ezingathandeki, ngoba ubona abazali bakho okokuqala futhi abazi ukuthi yini engabalimaza. Ungakhathazeki ngezihloko zengxoxo, mhlawumbe umamazala wesikhathi esizayo unemibuzo eminingi kuwe. Futhi iseluleko esiyinhloko - smile, hlonipha futhi uvule, bese uzophumelela. Inhlanhla.