Yenza imikhuba yakho emibi, silwe nobuvila, funda izinto ezintsha, ujabulele nsuku zonke!
Wake wake wacabanga ukuthi izingane zethu ngomqondo oqondile kakhulu isibuko sethu? Ungakwazi ukukhalaza isikhathi eside ngenkani noma intukuthelo yendodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho, kodwa kaningi lokho kungabonakali okweqile okwenziwe yi-oat porridge ewusizo noma kudinga ukuthi umholele ekuhambeni kwebhokisi le-sandbox elikude "lifotshwe" kusuka kuwe kuphela. Ungacabangela leli qiniso futhi uqhubeke ulwa nemikhuba emibi yezingane zakho. Kodwa akulula yini ukuzakhela ukuze isibuko esibukwayo sibonise isithombe esihle kakhulu? Ikakhulukazi kusukela ohlakaniphile endala NCE ufundeka kanje: "Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ingane yakho kulandzela sibonelo sakho futhi imikhuba, hhayi ngeseluleko sakho." Ngakho-ke, siqhubeka nomsebenzi ohleliwe nokuzikhandla kithi!
Buka inkulumo
Ungasebenzisi uhlambalaza ngokwakho futhi ukhawule emibonweni yezinyane elizungezile abantu. Hamba phambili - ungawehlisi endleleni yokuxhumana, engafani. Ngokuvamile uzibeke engqondweni endaweni yengane yakho. Ungathanda yini uma umuntu oseduze ehlutha ulaka: "Ngathi kunoma ubani: vala amathonti bese ugeza izandla zakho - isidlo etafuleni!" Umkhuba wokumemeza ngokungalungile awufaki emfudumeni. ukukhulisa umuntu onesizotha futhi onokukhalipha ozihlonipha yena nabanye abantu Bakhulume "amagama omlingo", kufaka phakathi uma ucela ingane ukuba yenze okuthile ("uletha, sicela, indebe egumbini") noma ubonge ngesicelo sokubulawa ("ngiyabonga, Ngingeke ngikwazi ukuphatha ngaphandle kwakho! "). Yithi kubomakhelwane bakho, hlonipha futhi ucabangele ezokuthutha zomphakathi, noma ngabe uhlangane nehabhu langempela le-tram. Izingane azidingeki ukuthi ubone ukuthi ulahlekelwe kanjani.
Kunoma yisiphi isimo, gcina ubuso bakho bese usebenza emikhubeni yakho emibi. Ungamangaleli ingane kubantu abaziwayo - ngaphandle kwalokho, qiniseka ukuthi umamazala wakho uzokwazi ukuthi ucabangani ukuthi uyomile engqondweni.
Yidla ngokufanele
Ukuvela kwengane kuyisenzakalo esingavamile somndeni wonke ukuqala ukudla ukudla okunempilo, okuhlukahlukene nokulinganiselayo. Uma ungafuni i-crumb yakho ngaphambi kweminyaka yobudala ukuba ube nesithakazelo kumaswidi ashibhile aphansi, ubhiya, ama-chips, ama-noodle asheshayo nokunye okuphazamisayo - ungagcini lutho olunjengalokhu endlini. Ingane ithukuthele, uma engavunyelwe ukuzama into abazali aba nayo injabulo ecacile bazidla yona. Ukuze uchaze ukuthi kungani umama nobaba bengadla ama-chips, futhi uVanya akakwazi, ngeke asebenze ngaphandle kokuqamba amanga. Kodwa sikhumbula isibuko futhi asifuni ukuthi umuntu ongekho emthethweni athole isibonelo sokukhohliswa kubantu abangekho emthethweni. Futhi uma ingane ibona isikhangiso se-dessert esondlekile esincane, kuyoba lula ngaye ukuthi amukele ukungakwazi ukudla lokhu okudla okunamnandi, uma uthi nje: "Asiyidli." Qinisekisa ukuba ungahambisani nokuvinjelwa kwakho.Uma uthanda ukuphuza itiye nama cookies embhedeni egumbini lokuphumula phambi kwe-TV, akunangqondo ukuvimbela ukuhudula ukudla egumbini, ukhohlwe ngalomkhuba. Ngakho-ke noma uthwala amaqembu akho etiyi ekhishini, noma ubeke imfucumfucu ekhapheni.
Mhlawumbe awunayo umkhuba wokukhonza kahle itafula kuzo zonke izidlo zomndeni. Qala ukwenza lokhu ngenxa yengane! Futhi, kukhona inzuzo kabili: umncintiswano omncane uthola isipiliyoni sesidlo sasemini, futhi uqeqesha ukusebenza ngezinsika ukuze ungazizwa uvinjelwe endaweni yokudlela.
Ngokuvamile, umkhuba wokuhlala ndawonye etafuleni ndawonye futhi ujabulele hhayi kuphela ekudleni okuphekwe kahle, kodwa ekukhulumisaneni komunye nomunye, njengento engeyona enye eyenza umndeni wakho ube yinto eyodwa. Omunye uzophikisana ngokuthi ingane encane ayiyona into yokumboza etafuleni - ngezinye izikhathi inqamule ngosuku olungu-pre-yesterday cutlet kusuka esiqandisini akunakwenzeka. Ngempela, kunezikhathi lapho abantwana bengakuvumeli ukuba uphumule ngisho nangomzuzu. Akukhona ukuthi yini oyidingayo ngesikhathi esifushane sokuba umsizi womngane ohle futhi ekuseni ukupheka amabhisikidi amasha. Kodwa ukuqonda amaphesenti ayishumi, "zokupheka okusheshayo" kungenzeka ngisho nokupheka okungapheli kakhulu, ikakhulukazi ngoba inani elikhulu lemishini yasendlini lisetshenziselwa ukusiza umama. Ngokwesibonelo, ama-steam kagesi ane-timer akuvumela ukuba uhlele isikhathi sokupheka ukuze kusesimini sekusasa silungele nje ngesikhathi sokubuya ekuhambeni.
Bheka izigidi
Kukholelwa ukuthi umntwana osanda kuzalwa akanandaba nokuthi unina ubheka kanjani. Kumntwana akubalulekile ngempela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kukhona kuwe cellulitis, morshchinki eduze kwamehlo nokuthi ngabe wenze i-manicure. Into eyinhloko yi-tenderness, warmth, amazwi amathenda nokukhathazeka. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi i-crumb ngeke iqale ukuba nesithakazelo emibuzweni yobuhle bomzimba. Noma yini abakushoyo, ukuzilungisa akuxhomeki kakhulu emalini nasesikhathini samahhala, kodwa ngesifiso nomkhuba. Ngentombazane, ukuthi umama ukhathalela kanjani ukubukeka kwakhe kuyoba kamuva ikhampasi yokuhamba kwakhe ukuze ibe "yinto ekhangayo kakhulu futhi ekhangayo." Ngomfana, isithombe somama singenakulinganiswa nomfanekiso wesifazane ongcono, ozobheka njengomngane wakhe Zigcine umumo ukuze umntwana wakho ngokuziqhenya athi: "Umama unhle kakhulu!"
Umkhuba omubi
I-crumb iphinda yonke into oyenzayo. Uma ubhema, uzokubona ngokushesha ngepensela emlonyeni wakho bese ukhanyisa esandleni sakho. Phela, emehlweni omntwana konke okwenziwa nguMama kulungile futhi kuhle. Yiqiniso, abantu emkhayeni ongewona ukubhema we-teetotaler obhalisiwe bangakhula nemikhuba emibi. Kodwa lena enye indaba. Futhi manje, ngokubonakala endlini encane, ilungu lomndeni elimnandi futhi elimnandi, unesizathu esinzima sokuqeda ukuxhomeka ekubhekeni kogwayi.
Ungabi nobuvila
Njengoba ujwayele ukuhlukunyezwa kusukela ebuntwaneni ukuba uhlanganyele ekuxazululeni izinkinga zezomnotho, uzokwenza umzukulu wakho abe nomusa omkhulu. Umkhuba wokuhlanzeka nokuhlelwa kwehlelwa iminyaka emithathu, sebenzisa lesi sikhathi ukuze ungamane uphoqele ingane ukuba ihlanze amathoyizi abo, kodwa ukuze ifundise ukujabulela ukulungiswa kwendlu. Uma ukhona, okubizwa ngokuthi, imvelo yokudala enekhono lokuthakazelisa ukudala ukuzungezile uzungeze wena nezixuku, zisebenze ngokwakho! Kungenzeka ukuthi uzofunda izinto eziyisisekelo ze-Feng Shui - ubuciko bokudala baseShayina benkampani yokuhlala isikhala. Abaphathi be-Feng Shui baphikisana ngokuthi uma indlu ingcolile, khona-ke enhloko nasezinhliziyweni zalabo abahlala kuyo, futhi, konke akuhambisani. Ngesikhathi sokuqala ingane kufanele iqonde ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuthi iqondile futhi iphoqelelwe ezenzweni zakhe. Ngakho-ke, ungamthembisi ukuthi ungenzani, kodwa uma kukhona okungazelelwe, ucele uxolo, uchaze ingane ukuthi kungani ehlulekile ukufeza isithembiso, bese uzama ukukhokhela okungenakwenzeka ukuhluleka kwakho.
Ukuthuthukisa
Mhlawumbe, bonke abazali abanakekelayo baphupha ukutshala imali enganeni kanye nolwazi oluningi, ukuze bahlakulele ngumuntu ofundisiwe nowe-erudite. Isihloko sokuthuthukiswa kwentsha kanye nokulandelwa kwezingane kungenye yezingqungquthela ezishisa kakhulu kumaforamu omzali. Kodwa omama benza iphutha elikhulu lapho behlanganyela nezingane ngentshiseko nangenkuthalo, baholele emibuthanweni naseklasini ohlelweni lweMontessori, futhi abafundi lutho ngaphandle kohlelo lwethelevishini ne-cookbook. Uma ungahle uhlele ukuba ngumama wendlu, thatha ikhefu lokubeletha ukuze uhlale usesikhathini nezindaba ensimini yakho yobuchwepheshe. Ngokusekelwa komndeni, abaningi baphatha ukuhlanganisa ukukhuliswa kwezingane nokubhalwa kwenkampani. Ukuhamba nengane elele, lalela amabhuku alalelwayo. Qaphela izinhlelo zomlobi zabantu abadumile, lapho babelana ngemicabango yabo engeyona ejwayelekile mayelana nakho konke okusemhlabeni. Ungalulazi umhlaba kumaJalimane amane "K": omusa, kyuhe, kleide, kirche (izingane, ikhishi, izingubo, isonto) .Uzoba nezithakazelo zakho siqu, ozozijwayeza ngokushesha futhi nendlalifa yakho!
Okuhle kakhulu
Ingabe ucasuliwe yizikhwama zezingane futhi ugoqa? Ingabe umntwana wakho akajabuli njalo ngakho konke? Ingabe uvame ukuhleka usulu futhi uhlabelele izingoma ezihlekisayo? Awukho yini okwethenayo ukukhononda ukuthi impilo ikuphathe ngokungalungile? Ungahambi nesimo "esibuhlungu"? Sithemba ukuthi lokhu akukona ngawe.
Abantu abanobuhle nabathembayo kulula ukuhlala kuleli zwe. Uma une-streak emnyama empilweni yakho futhi izandla zakho sezivele seziwa, uma usuke ukhathele kakhulu futhi isifiso sakho kuphela ukubalekela ekupheleni kwezwe lapho kungekho muntu ozokuthola khona, vele uye esibukweni, umomotheka lapho ucabanga futhi uthi: "Ngiyena ojabula kakhulu! Konke okwenzeka kimi kuyinkinga yesikhashana. Kusasa ilanga liyovuka, usuku olusha luzofika, luzoletha izindaba ezinhle kuphela. Ngizobe nginenhlanhla. "Futhi konke ngokuqinisekile kuyoba njalo.