Ungabi nesineke.
Cha, ungakwazi-ke ukuthethelela konke kuze kube sekupheleni. Khumbula nje: ukugwinya zonke izikhalazo nokunganeliseki, usengozini ngelinye ilanga ukuze uphule futhi uphonsa konke kumthande wakho. Lapho kushisa, uyamkhumbula ngisho nangaleso sikhathi eminyakeni emibili eyedlule waphuma emsila wezinyane, futhi inkatho yahamba idabukile izinsuku ezimbili. Bambalwa abafana kulezi zimo bazohlala bathule - futhi kule nothi ubuhlobo bakho buzophela. Ukumxolela konke emhlabeni, wena ngokwakho uyamcasula ngesitayela: "Yini eyokwenzeka uma ngenza lokhu?" - ke ungamangali ukuthi usula izinyawo zakho. Kufanele kube neminye imikhawulo. Futhi into engcono kakhulu ukubalula kusengaphambili: yini ngempela ongayithetheleli? Izazi zengqondo zithi ziphikisana nobuhlobo. Ngoba uma umuntu ehlupheka (okuhlupheka), okwesibili futhi akufanele kube mnandi. Futhi kungani uqhubeka ubuhlobo?
Ungathethelela:
Not romantic. Akakunikezi izimbali. Ungahlangani emkhakheni wezinyawo ngemuva kwekilasi. Ungenzi sengathi uyintombi yakho. Futhi ngempela, ukuncoma okuvela kuye akunakulinda. Uma uwedwa, ayikho ngothando nangaphezulu ku-orbit yakho. Futhi uma usendaweni emgwaqweni, akalokothi uthathe isandla sakho. Lokhu akunakunakuthethelelwa, uma udinga uthando ukuze abanye bangeneke. Uma uthanda ukuphonsa uthuli emehlweni akho. Kuyoba khona kuphela? Noma ukuthi, okwamanje, usenayo kakade futhi ungakwazi ukuthethelela ukungapheleli okuthile?
Amanga noma into enjalo. Wakubiza ngokuthi ihora ngemva kwesikhathi esethembisiwe, wathi uzoya ejimini, futhi wayelele nxazonke ekhaya phambi kwe-TV. Futhi ucabanga ukuthi umfana akagcini izwi lakhe, ukuthi awukwazi ukuthembela kuye, futhi ngokuvamile isimo esinjalo asikwazi ukuthethelelwa. Kubonakala sengathi uzama "ukwakha" othandekayo wakho. Ehlisa phansi, khona-ke uzoba ngowokuqala ukukhala futhi uthi ukhathele ngokuba isitimela nokudonsa emahlombe akho.
Ubuhlobo obubi bungabuye buxolelwe. Uhlale uphikisana naye ngezicathulo, futhi ngokuvamile ukuphikisana kuphenduka ingxabano, okubonakala kuwe, awukwazi ukuthethelela. Into eyinhloko ukufunda kungenalutho. Emva kwakho konke, uma ehlala ephethe isandla sakho ngaso sonke isikhathi, ekhungathekisa amehlo akho futhi ewanga izinyawo zakho, kungenzeka ukuthi uzokhathala kuqala.