Siphakamisa ngempumelelo izinga lokuzethemba kwethu

Uyini ukuzethemba kwakho, kubalulekile - ngekhwalithi yokuphila kwethu? Ukuziqhenya kuyisilinganiso sethu sokubaluleka kobuntu bethu, kokubili ngokujwayelekile kanye nezimfanelo zethu zangaphandle nezangaphakathi, futhi, njengomthetho, kuncike ekutheni isimo sethu sinobubele. Ngakho-ke, ukuzethemba kwegazi kanye ne-phlegmatic ngokuqinile, abantu base-choleric bavame ukuguquka, futhi ukuhlukumezeka, njengombuso, banganaki inani labo emphakathini emehlweni abo. Ngosizo lokuzihlonipha, sinquma indawo yethu emphakathini. Le nzuzo ayiyona into ehlala njalo, ihlukahluka kuye ngezimbangela zangaphandle nezinqubo ezenzeka ekujuleni kokuqonda kwethu.
Uma izinga lakho lokuzethemba lihlehlisiwe, izinkinga zokukhulumisana, ekwakhiweni komsebenzi akunakugwemeka, kutuswa ukuthi uthuthukise ngempumelelo ukuzethemba kwakho. Isivivinyo esilula: Hlaziya ukuphendula kwakho ekunconyweni, noma udumise ngomsebenzi owenziwe ngenkolo. Wena, uhlazekile futhi uphazamisekile, ukuthungatha kabi: akukho lutho lokudumisa, angenzanga lutho olukhethekile - kunezinga eliphansi, udinga ukwandisa ukuzethemba.
Ake siqale ngokulula - umsebenzi ekubukeni kwakho: hamba ubuhle be-salon, shintsha izinwele, wenze-up, wenze isisindo somzimba, uzinike iseshini yokusikhipha. Kunconywa ukuthi ubuyekeze ikhabethe, ukukhetha imibala ekhanyayo izingubo. Yenza ukuhlanza okuvamile endlini, ukhiphe izinto ezingadingekile. Umphumela ngeke ube yisikhathi eside - isithombe sakho esibuyekeziwe sizosiza ukuphumelela ngempumelelo ukukala kwakho emehlweni akho! Hamba okulandelayo: xhuma endaweni evelele (isibuko, umnyango wekhabhinethi), noma ezintweni ezisetshenziswe njalo (isikhwama, ibhizinesi lebhizinisi), iqabunga elinombhalo. Kulo mbhalo, ifomula enhle kufanele isetshenziswe: Ngiphumelele, ngihlakaniphile, nginenhlanhla.
Kholelwa kuwe. Ngemva kokuzibhalela ngokwakho igama lefomu liphinda liphindiselele futhi maduze uzoqiniseka: kusebenza!
Siphakamisa ngempumelelo izinga lokuzethemba kwethu ngokufunda ukwamukela ngokufanele ukwamukelwa. Ingabe udunyiswe? Uthokoze izinguquko ekubukeni kwakho? Thuma ukumomotheka bese uthi ngobuqotho "ngiyabonga"! Ungazijwayeza ngaphambi kwesikrini, kuzobonisa umuntu ophumelelayo owazi ukubaluleka kwamakhono akhe. Usuvele wakwazi ukuzethemba, usendleleni efanele, kodwa kusencane kakhulu ukugubha ukunqoba, siqhubeka nendlela yokuzithuthukisa. Inqubo yokwandisa ukuzethemba kufanele ihambisane kahle, ngaphandle kobudlova ngokumelene nawe. Khumbula! Uma ucabanga njalo ukuthi zonke izenzo zakho zihlose ukwandisa ukuzethemba, ungathola umphumela ohlukile. Ungesabi ukuthatha ibhizinisi elisha.
Uma ukwesaba kusekhona, hlola izimbangela zayo, cishe uzofinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi uzobhekana ngokuphumelelayo nomsebenzi, futhi ukwesaba kungumphumela wokungabikho kokuphepha. Uma kwenzeka ukwehluleka, izizathu zibukeka sengathi ziyakhathazeka futhi zihlekisa, kuyoba okulungile kakhulu ukuchaza izimbangela zayo ngokuzithoba nangokugqugquzela. Uma umsebenzi omusha ungaqondi okuthile, ungangabazi ukucela usizo. Amandla okunqoba ukuhlazeka kuzosiza ekuthuthukiseni ukuzethemba kwakho ngokuphumelelayo.
Thatha umthetho ukuze uziqhathanise nabanye abantu. Uhlukile futhi uphila impilo yakho, yenza izinqumo ngokwakho. Ungazibophezeli ngokwehluleka, khumbula ukuthi sonke sinelungelo lokwenza iphutha, kuphela ohlala ngezandla zakhe akuphutha. Yenza uhlu lwempumelelo yakho (hhayi ukuthi yonke indawo). Ufunde ukushayela? Kuhle! Uke wazi kahle iphethini entsha ye-crochet? Kuyamangalisa! Yengeza nsuku zonke ohlwini lwempumelelo yakho.
Zenzele uhlu lwezimfanelo zakho ezinhle: Ngingumuntu onomusa, onobulungisa, onokwethenjelwa, onomqondo wesayensi, njll. Zama ukuya enkampanini yezemidlalo, noma okungenani wenze ama-gymnastics nsuku zonke, bese ubulala izinyoni ezimbili ngetshe elilodwa: thuthukisa isibalo ngesimo sokumiswa, futhi ungabhala ukunqoba okusha ohlwini lwempumelelo. Ngezindlela ezilula, sakwazi ukuthuthukisa ngempumelelo ukuzethemba kwethu. Ungayeki ezingeni elifinyelelekile, uzuze phambili, ufisa ulwazi olusha namakhono!