Yivume, nawe ngezinye izikhathi ufuna ukukhala kumuntu osesithombeni. Futhi ukuze uvuse isihawu kwabanye, ukhetha indlela elula: ukwedlulisa ukuhluleka kwakho nezinkinga ezihlangane nazo. Eqinisweni, wena ngokwakho uqonda ukuthi izinkinga azikho kakhulu. Kodwa udinga ukunakwa, ngezinye izikhathi ulahlekile. Futhi kulokhu, ngokujwayelekile, akukho lutho olwesabekayo, uma kungenalo ngaphezulu ...
Enye into, uma udlala futhi udala i-phraseology ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngokungenjalo nangaphandle, ukuzibulala impilo yakho nabanye. Ungakufunda kanjani ukuthi ungayithathi isicabha?
Shiya lo mqondo!
Ngokuvamile wenza i-molehill yezindlovu ngoba nje uyesaba imiphumela engacabangi engakaze ivele, noma ingase ifike, kodwa fantasy yakho isivele ibadonsele.
Cabanga, mhlawumbe, unikeza lo mcimbi ukubaluleka okukhulu, ukudala i-phraseology, okwenza indlovu iphume ngendiza noma ukuyibeka kabi. Umphathi ucela ukuba uye kuye, futhi ngokushesha uqale ukuqagela, ukuthi uzojeziswa noma uphonyiwe nobani? Noma mhlawumbe ufuna ukukunika ikhomishini noma ukubonga? Zibeke esimweni esihle senhliziyo, ungenzi iziphetho zishesha futhi ungapheli ukuphela kokufa.
Ngakusasa ngangena emgwaqeni wezimoto, ntambama ngathola amazwana avela kumphathi, kusihlwa ngangixabana nomyeni wami futhi nganquma ukuthi ukuphila akuphumelelanga? Yeka ukukhiqiza! Kwakungewona usuku oluphumelele kakhulu, kodwa hhayi ukuqala komnxeba omnyama nombi omubi.
Shintshela imicabango yakho into enhle, ngaphandle kwe-phraseology. Bheka i-comedy, iya ezitolo. Futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, thola isifundo esithakazelisayo sokuphazamisa - ukuqoqa iphazili, ukuxazulula iphazili ye-crossword, ukulanda izingoma ezizithandayo kuwebhu.
Iqiniso esweni
Kodwa kuthiwani uma wenza iphutha ngempela bese wenza i-phraseology ngesikhathi esifanayo? Ososayensi baye basungula ukuthi sikhumbula amaphutha ethu isikhathi eside izikhathi ezingu-10 kunqoba. Ukuphenya ekhanda lokuhluleka, uhlangabezana nokuzwa okungajabulisi okusha, ukwandisa izinga lemicimbi. Shiya okwedlule ngemuva! Ungethuki futhi ubambe ikhanda ekhanda ngemisindo: "Konke kulahlekile!" Zibuze: "Futhi empeleni kwenzekani?" Khuluma lesi simo kuwe njengokungathi utshela umuntu ongaziwa ngakho. Ngendlela, ungenza lokhu phambi kwesibuko, ubheke amehlo akho futhi ubheke inkulumo ebusweni bakho.
Akunakwenzeka ukubhekana nokukhathazeka yedwa ngesikhathi se-phraseology-chaza inkinga kumngane noma kumyeni, ngokucacile ukubeka izenzakalo ze-phraseology kusuka endizeni ukuze wenze indlovu. Ukukhuluma ngenye indlela yokuzola, futhi ukuvala kuzosiza ukucabangela izici ezinhle.
Ungazikhohlisi ngama-phraseology. Ake ucabange ukuthi umile entabeni noma ibhalansi yesitezi leshumi nanhlanu futhi ubheka inkinga yakho "esabekayo" kusukela ekuphakameni. Ingabe kuhle kakhulu?
Ungahlukanisi imicimbi yaba abamnyama nabamhlophe. Funda ukubona okuhle ngisho nakalungile. Awutholanga umklomelo? Yebo, unomsebenzi, ngokungafani nabanye. Ngezinye izikhathi ukufaniswa kuyasiza kakhulu.
Futhi khumbula, izinkinga kufanele zixazululwe njengoba zingena, hhayi ngosizo lwezinhlamvu. Futhi kungcono ukubala imiphumela engalungile kusengaphambili futhi ulungele kubo, khona-ke ngeke kube yinto enesabekayo kakhulu.
Siyazi ukuthi singaziveza kanjani kahle
Uma othile ephinda ephangazelela ukubaluleka kwezehlakalo, sithi: "Uyenza indlovu iphume ngendiza." Futhi uyazi ukuthi leli zwi elidumile livela eGrisi lasendulo futhi likhulunywe okokuqala ngekhulu lesibili leminyaka emsebenzini we-Lucian (kakade ngaleso sikhathi le nkulumo yayisendleleni)? Kodwa abaseBrithani ezimweni ezinjalo, bathi: "Ukwenza intaba evela eqenjini le-molecule."
Ngedonsa lokungabi nalutho
Ngokusho kwabacwaningi baseMelika uManj Puri noDavid Robinson, abanethemba labo baphumelela kakhulu ebhizinisini kunezingcindezi zokwenza i-phraseology. Impumelelo ichazwa ikhono lomuntu wokuqala ukwenza izinqumo, kufaka phakathi izimali, ngendlela elinganiselayo nangengqondo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ososayensi baqaphele ukuthi ukuzethemba ngokweqile kuyingozi futhi: kuvimbela umuntu ukuba ahlole ngokucophelela isimo futhi ngokuvamile aqhube izenzo ezingozi. Kuzo zonke izinhlamvu zegolide ziyadingeka! Ngendlela, ngoba imizwelo emihle nokucindezeleka iyinxenye efanayo yobuchopho ...