Namuhla sizokhuluma ngezizathu zesizungu sabesifazane abahlukahlukene kakhulu. Okwenza lokhu kwenzeke nokuthi ungaziqeda kanjani lokhu, uma-ke, wena ngokwakho uyayifuna.
Abaningi, abesifazane abaningi bazothola izinzuzo eziningi ngokuqondene nesimo sabo sozungu. Abantu abaningi bayothi ngokwabo: "Ngimnandi futhi ngedwa " noma "Ngiyaziqhenya futhi nginesizungu," futhi lokhu kuzokhulunywa ngempela ngokujabula nokuziqhenya. Kodwa, kholwa mina, bonke baphupha ezinhliziyweni zabo ukuba nabathandekayo abazobasiza bazizwe bebalulekile futhi bathandwa.
Izizathu nezizathu.
1. Inkululeko yesenzo. Akukho mthwalo wemfanelo. Akudingeki ulungiselele noma ubani, lungisa ukudla bese ubeka izinto ngendlela efanele. Awudingi ukuphuma nokuhlela izinto ngendlela abayithandayo. Ukugqoka nokusebenza kungenziwa ngendlela oyifunayo ngaphandle kokubuka umuntu, futhi ngokujwayelekile - yenza okufunayo.
2. Ungahlala uncike ekunakekeleni futhi uzwela ngabangane, ngoba unesizungu futhi ulahlekelwa yindoda.
3. Usuvele udlule ubuhlungu bobuhlobo obungaphumelelanga obuphula inhliziyo yakho, futhi awufuni ukuphindaphinda kwesimo - uchungechunge olungapheli lungcono kakhulu.
5. Kungani uxhumana nomuntu oyedwa, uma kunabantu abaningi kangaka, bahlole futhi bakhethe usuku ngalunye olusha.
6. Awunayo isikhathi. Umatasa kakhulu futhi uhola impilo ematasa. Uma umuntu evela, uzophula zonke izinhlelo zakho. Uphumelele ngaphandle kwalo.
7. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - wena futhi akekho oyokuvimbela ukuba nithandane namanye amadoda, gqoka mini, uye kumaqembu futhi uhole indlela yokuphila njengoba uthanda futhi ifuna kuwe. Futhi namanje ungakhathazeki, bheka ekhaya kahle, akudingeki ucabange ukuthi yini ongamnika yona, akudingeki ukuba upheke ngokumnandi futhi uphawule ngokuthi ungaphatha kanjani impilo yezocansi. Noma kunjalo - ngeke kube khona ukukhonjwa, ngenkathi uwedwa, futhi ngenxa yalokho, akukho ubuhlungu nokuhlupheka.
8. Futhi-ke, ungazisola njalo: empeleni ungobubi, unesiqhwithi esinyene nesifuba esincane, omdala, ompofu, ongathandeki futhi nezingane. Akuyona i-destiny. Futhi uma kungenjongo - kungani ushintsho bese uzama ukushintsha wena? Zihawukele - kulula kakhulu futhi mnandi kakhulu.
Nakhu izizathu ezinkulu nezizathu zokuzilandulela. Abaningi bazisiza ngokwabo ngosizo lwabo.
Ziyini izizathu zesizungu sabesifazane abahlukahlukene kakhulu?
1. Ukuziphatha. Bheka, yiyiphi yalezi zithombe ezifanelekayo, okudabukisayo njengoba kungase kubonakale, kuwe?
- i-Assol. Ungumfana ompofu, ohluphekayo, elinde isikhulu esiphezulu ngehhashi elimhlophe. Kulo mfanekiso, wenza amaphutha amabili ejwayelekile: ubhale ebunzini lakho: "Ngifuna indoda". Kusukela kulabo besifazane, amadoda agijima, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini. Futhi owesibili: lapho wena, ekugcineni, uzizwa-yilokho, injabulo, bese-ke: Nuu ... ngandlela-thile ayibheki kakhulu njengesiqingatha sesibili - unamaphutha, akukho ukuqonda okuhambisanayo nezwi lesigamu futhi ngokuvamile akaphatheli indodakazi yakhe. Ngokuvamile, akukho ukugunyazwa okuvela eceleni kwakho, futhi wena, uchaza ukuhlukanisa kwakho ngokuthi "aphinde abuyele" futhi abe nesizungu.
- Owesifazane omkhulu. Kuhle kakhulu, usebenza, uqiniseka, unelisekile ngokugcwele emsebenzini wakho nesimo sakho sezezimali. Ukubukeka ngokuphelele nokuzimela, ngempela njengamadoda kanye ... kuphela. Futhi konke ngenxa yokuthi owesilisa wesaba ukulahlekelwa ngemuva kwesiqinisekiso esinjalo nokuzimela, uyesaba ukuthi ngeke afane nezinga le "nkanyezi" enjalo. Uma uqhubeka nokuncintisana namadoda ngobuningi, njll. - Ubungozi bokushiywa yedwa kuze kube phakade.
- Isiguli. Ube nomshado noma umshado owaphula inhliziyo yakho. Akukho okungcono ukulinda futhi impilo yakho iyaphela. Uzihlupha ngezinkumbulo, ubheka izithombe zakho zakudala. Cabanga ukuthi manje unomunye nokuthi uyamkhathaza kanjani. Hmm ... Amadoda amasha angeke abe khona, ngoba angeke aqhathaniswe naso ngaphambili. Ngokuvamile, ungazisola ngokwengeziwe, udle usizi nesizungu nge chocolate.
2. Isizathu sesibili sokuba nesizungu kuyisimo sokungabikho. Ukwesaba ukukhashelwa, ukukhohliswa, futhi uqiniseke kusengaphambili ukuthi lokhu kuzokwenzekani nakanjani kuwe. Ukwesaba impilo yomndeni - kodwa ngokuzumayo awukwazi, ngoba lokhu kuwumthwalo wemfanelo, futhi ngokuzumayo ngeke ulungise amathemba nezifiso zomyeni kwezinye izinto ezifuywayo noma zobulili.
3. Abafuni ukujwayelana nami. Futhi eqinisweni naseqinisweni - akukho muntu oye wafika futhi unikeza isandla nenhliziyo. Ikakhulukazi kahle. Futhi uhamba ngendlela efanayo: indlu-umsebenzi wendlu. Ngempela, umqondo wokuya endaweni ethile, ikakhulukazi emaphathini amaqembu, njll. akekho umuntu owazi kahle, ikakhulukazi emyuziyamu.
4. Ubuvila. Yebo. Kulungile. Abesifazane abaningi banamavila endaweni ethile encane ukuphuma noma ukuhlangabezana nabangane. Kungcono ukulala embhedeni ekhaya.
Ngamafuphi, imbangela yesizungu kuwe ikhanda lakho. Bonke abafana bezimbuzi? Lokho uzothola. Ingabe uthanda ukuzihawukela futhi ucabange ukuthi usuvele ungaphezu kuka-30, futhi awunaso isikhulu? Ngakho, futhi ngeke. Yebo, uthanda ukucabanga ngakho esikhundleni sokusebenza - uhlale wedwa.
Indlela yokunqoba isizungu?
Ngaphandle kwe-intanethi yakho ye-intanethi kanye ne-TV. Khetha abantu. Noma kuphi. Khumbula ukuthi uke ungakapheli kangakanani kumamyuziyamu, ku-inset, isethulo, yaseshashalazini, ikhonsathi, i-movie, njll? Eqinisweni, kudabukisayo kakhulu. Futhi nakanjani unayo inkampani - abangane, ozakwabo noma abangane abancane.
Bhalisela izifundo: ulimi, ukushayela, ukudansa, kodwa okungenani ukukhuphuka! Yiya ehhotela futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthatha intombi enesizungu - kuyoba lula ngawe ukuba wazi kangcono uma uwedwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngandlela-thile, kuzodingeka uqhubekele ukuzimisela edolobheni elingavamile noma ehhotela, ukuze ungahlali kusihlwa ehhotela. Ngokuvamile, e-resort uyazuza! Ungangabazi. Ungesabi ukukhombisa intshisekelo kwinkhulumomphendvulwano nendoda, kepha ungadluli ekugqibeleni. Yiba nesimo esihle futhi umomotheka.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, zihlolisise. Yini ekushayayo ngaphandle kwama-cavaliers angaba khona? Bheka ngokucophelela konke: ukubukeka, ukuziphatha, indlela yokugqoka, imikhuba, njll. Kungenzeka ukuthi udinga ukushintsha into kuwe - futhi konke kuzokwenza kube mnandi kakhulu.