Yilungele!
Njengoba wazi, ezweni lethu ekilasini lokuqala bathatha abantwana, baqala ngeminyaka eyisithupha. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uthumele ingane eneminyaka eyisithupha esikoleni, cabanga ngokucophelela: ingabe ingane yakho isilungele ukushintsha izinsuku zokusebenza ezingakhathazeki ukuze ziqeqeshwe isikole ngokuqinile? Futhi wenza okuthandwa yile ngane noma ufuna nje ukujabulisa izisusa zabazali bakho? Ngisho nekhono lokufunda, ukubhala nokubala lapha akusho lutho nhlobo. Ochwepheshe basho ukuthi isibonakaliso esiyinhloko sokulungela yisifiso esivuthayo somntwana ukuba ngokushesha unamathisele isitifiketi esisha ukuze sihambe ngokuziqhenya ngolwazi: lapha, bheka, sengivele ngakhulile kakade! Ngakho-ke, umsebenzi oyinhloko wabazali akufanele ungaphuthelwa umzuzu, futhi esikhathini esizayo ukwenza konke okusemandleni kulesi sifiso akulahlekile noma kuphi. "Kubalulekile ukuthi ingane inesithakazelo ekufundeni into entsha. Isibonelo, esikoleni sethu, kunakekelwa okukhulu ekudaluleni lokho okungenzeka kube khona emvelweni kubantwana, ubafundise ukuthi baqonde umhlaba ngokugcwele futhi babe umuntu ozimele. Lesi sifundo sakhiwe njengempendulo kwisithandwa esinikezwa uthisha, ngubani, kanye nabafundi, abafuna impendulo yombuzo. Ngakho izingane zifunda ukuhlola, ukuphikisana, ukuthola nokuqaphela izwe. "
Indawo yokuhlala
Ngaphandle kwesifiso esiqaphelayo sokuya esikoleni, ingxenye yesibili ebalulekile yemfundo ephumelelayo yisimo sengqondo esifanele nathisha. Emva kwakho konke, kuncike kumfundisi wokuqala, ukuthi ukuphumelelana kwengqondo komuntu osanda kuwenzelwa kuqala esimweni esingavamile kungaba yimpumelelo. Entwasahlobo, izikole eziningi zihlela izinsuku ezivulekile, lapho ungafundi khona kuphela ngezici zekharikhulamu ezisetshenziswe kulokhu kusungulwa, kodwa futhi ukuxhumana nabafundisi besikole samabanga aphansi. Bathi isimo esihle kakhulu lapho uthisha esebenzisa indlela efanayo kumuntu oqala ukuhamba njengabazali: uma ingane ijwayele ukukhwabanisa, iyobe ikhululekile ngothisha ofuna ukukwenza, kodwa uma indlu inesimo esihle, kufanelekile ukufuna umeluleki, eduze naye emoyeni. Ingane izoba lula uma umnika ithuba lokufunda ngangokunokwenzeka mayelana nemithetho yokuphila esikoleni futhi wazi kangcono nabalingane nabo esikoleni esizayo ngisho nangaphambi kokuqala konyaka wesikole. Esimweni esivamile, ukujwayela, njengokubusa, kudlulela ngobumnene nangobunzima. Izazi zengqondo ziqhuba izifundo izingane ezingakwazi ukuzifunda endaweni yazo entsha. Kukholelwa ukuthi ngokufunda ngokuphumelelayo kubalulekile ukuqala ukukwazi amandla omntwana. "Sibhekene nomsebenzi wokuthuthukisa amakhono wengane, kodwa lokhu kuyadingeka ukunquma ukuthi yiliphi izinga elitholakalayo. Lokhu kungenziwa ngosizo lwezivivinyo nokuxilongwa kwengqondo. " Umzali angasiza futhi ingane, axoxisane naye impilo yakhe yesikole esizayo futhi ahlele kahle isimiso esisha nsuku zonke lapho kunendawo yokuphumula nemidlalo esebenzayo emoyeni omusha. Ngaphandle kokubaluleke kakhulu - ukugqugquzelwa kwangaphakathi - ekuqaleni komnyaka wokuqala wezifundo ingane kufanele ibe namakhono amaningi: ikhono lokugxilisa ingqondo, ikhono lokwenza umsebenzi ongeyena othakazelisayo nokuqondisa ukuziphatha kwakhe emithethweni esekelwe esikoleni.
Imidlalo ngemithetho emisha
Lapho uneminyaka engama-6-7, ukujwayela imvelo entsha akulula njengoba kungase kubonakale ekuqaleni. Emva kwakho konke, ngokuqala konyaka wesikole, yonke isigqi sempilo evamile iyashintsha. Uma enkundleni yezinkulisa izikhathi ezimfushane zihambisana nemidlalo, esikoleni udinga ukufunda ukuhlala unomphela imizuzu engama-35, kuze kube yilapho ibell elilinde isikhathi eside. Ungabheki ngaphandle kwefasitela, kodwa lalela ngokucophelela lokho uthisha akushoyo. Kuze kube manje, imisebenzi enzima leyo ingane ayingadingeki ukuyixazulula, ngakho ukuhambisana nemithetho yesikole kuyodinga ukuba akhulise ukucindezeleka kwazo zonke izinsiza zangaphakathi. Abazali kufanele bakhumbule ukuthi ingane ikwazi ukugxilisa ingqondo nje imizuzu engu-10-15 kuphela, ngakho-ke ngesikhathi somsebenzi wesikole sokuqala kule nkathi yesikhathi kubalulekile ukunikeza ingane ukuba ihambe. Enye inkinga engase ivele kuma-first-graders esanda kuwenzelwa yinkinga yokuthola imininingwane. Ezikoleni zomphakathi, inani eliphakathi labantwana eklasini liyi-25 abantu, futhi ukuchaza isikhathi ngasinye esingenakuqondakala. "Uma ingane ingayiqondi into ethile, ilahlekelwa yithakazelo kule ndaba futhi iqhubekela phambili. Kungani izingane zivame ukungaphumelelanga ezikoleni ezijwayelekile, ezingaba ngu-7% kuphela ezifundiswa kulaba abane nabahlanu? Yebo, ngoba isihloko esingacacisiswanga sivimbela ukuthuthukiswa kwengane - uvila futhi akafuni ukuya esikoleni. " Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane iyaqonda konke okushiwo kwisifundo, ungasebenzisa umkhuba osetshenziswa esikoleni saseMontessori. "Ingane ngayinye emva kwesifundo igcwalisa idayari, echaza ngokuningiliziwe lokho akufundile, ukuyiqonda, okuyibona nokuyenza ngalesi sikhathi. Ngomsebenzi wakhe, ubeka amaphuzu, uma uthisha evuma ukuhlolwa, bese efaka isignesha. Ekupheleni kwekota, amaphuzu afingqa, bese izingane zikhetha imiklomelo yazo esitolo ngenani elinikeziwe lamaphuzu. "
Emthonjeni wokuhlola ngokuzihlonipha
Ezikoleni eziningi zamabanga aphezulu, amamaki akhanselwa ukuze angalimazi ingane esesethukile kakade. Iqiniso lokuthi isigaba sokuqala, ngokwezazi ze-psychologists, kuyisikhathi esibalulekile sokwakheka kwesibindi, futhi noma yiliphi izwi elingenandaba likwazi ukuhlala phakade emphefumulweni wendoda encane engaqiniseki ngamakhono akhe. Ngakho-ke, abazali kufanele bahlehlise izimangalo zabo ngokuphumelela kwezingane ezisencane kuze kube izikhathi ezingcono - ukuhlambalaza kuzoba nemiphumela emibi kuphela. Ungaqhathanisi ukuhluleka kwengane ngempumelelo yezingane ezifundela nabo - ngokuqinisekile kuyoholela ekubunjweni kokungaqiniseki ngamakhono abo. Kuyasiza kakhulu lapho uhlangana nengane emva kwamakilasi, ukuze ujabulele naye noma yikuphi, ngisho nokubaluleka kokuqala ukunqoba komuntu siqu. Ungadonsa udumo - ngoba umlingisi wokuqala akubalulekile nakakhulu kunamazwi asekela. "Umkhathi wothando nokuqonda, ukwethembela nobungane kuyisihluthulelo esiyinhloko empumelelweni. Uma ingane inethuba lokuvula nokujabulela isikole, konke kulula ngaye. " Ngakho-ke imicabango emihle mayelana nesikole izobe iboniswe ngabazali be-graders yokuqala, kuzoba lula ukuvumelanisa ingane. Futhi esikhundleni sejwayelekile "Angifuni ukufunda!" Ungase uzwe "Hooray! Buyela esikoleni! "