Yini okufanele nginike umamazala wami ngosuku lwami lokuzalwa? Kunoma yikuphi, ukukhetha kwesipho kuyoletha izinkinga ezithile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uninazala "uyindoda yegolide" engafundisi njalo ukuphila nokunye, noma ngabe ungumshiqela wangempela okhathalelayo ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene, kunzima ukukhetha isipho kumamazala wakhe. Ngisho noma wazi zonke izinhlangothi zalo ezimbi nezinhle, kunzima kakhulu ukujabulisa isipho esifanele. Ukuze usize amadoda akhethe isipho esingcono kakhulu kuninazala, emva kwalokho uzogculiseka futhi angase anciphise isimo sengqondo kumfazi wendodakazi yakhe ethandekayo, futhi lesi sihloko sibhaliwe.
Kunombono ophakanyisiwe wokuthi abamele isigamu esihle somuntu akufanele banikele izipho, ngandlela-thile ehlobene nokugcinwa kwezindlu. Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi lokhu kuyinto enobungqayizivele yokuthi indawo yowesifazane ekhishini. Kodwa lapha kukhona okunye okuphawulekayo, ukuthi iningi elikhulu kakhulu lobulili obuhle kakhulu empeleni lichitha isikhathi esiningi ekhishini futhi libhekene nokugcinwa endlini, ngakho-ke bayosizwa izipho ezinjalo ukwenza lula futhi kukhanyise isiphetho sabo. Cabanga ukuthi umamazala wakho wayene-oven microwave, i-grinder yenyama kagesi noma inqubo yokudla enemisebenzi eminingi ngesikhathi sobusha bayo. Ngokuqinisekile, wayengenalo izinto ezinjalo, futhi akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzobe esechithe ezintweni ezinjalo ekugugeni, ekhetha ukwenza konke ngendlela endala.
Namuhla, cishe zonke izitolo zinezinhlobo ezihlukahlukene eziwusizo zokusiza ngemisebenzi yasendlini, imishini yasendlini kanye nekhishini nokunye okuningi. Njengomthetho, abesifazane abanaso isikhathi sokuthenga okunjalo, kuyisihawu sezinto, enye into. Futhi akudingeki ucabange okuningi ngalokho ongayinika umamazala wakho ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa. Kwanele ukupakisha uphinde uye esitolo, futhi kunokuningi ongakhetha kukho.
Ngakho-ke, siza ngokuqondile ekutadisheni okukhethwa kukho okungenzeka okunikezwa umama ukungena ngosuku lokuzalwa.
Okokuqala imishini yokukhishi, uninazala uzothokozeka ngokugcwele, esamukele njengesipho kumkhwenyana othandekayo oyisinkwa, i-microwave, i-processor yokudla, i-mixer, i-toaster, i-juicer, i-aerogrill namanye amadivayisi awusizo ekhishini. Ngisho noma ekuqaleni ngeke kusetshenziselwe ubuchwepheshe obusha (namanje), maduzane uzobaqonda futhi ahambisane nabasizi bazo ngeke bakwazi.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uninazala uzobe eshaqile ngezimbiza zezingilazi ezinezikhumba ezivaliwe zokudla ezihlukahlukene kanye nemikhiqizo ekhishiwe, izikhwama ze-pepper, i-kitchen timer noma i-teapot.
Ungaphinde ujabulele umkhwekazi wakho othandekayo ngamathawula ekhishini, indwangu enhle yetafula, izindandatho zezinwele noma ijaji lembuzi.
Isipho esihle kakhulu sizoba ngumenzi wekhofi, ithrekhi enhle, ibhalela lewayini, isitsha sezithelo, itafula lokukhonza nezinye izinto ezifanayo ezingahlobisa ikhishi futhi zinikeze izinsiza ezengeziwe.
Ukuze uqedele lolu hlu ungasebenzisa izitsha ezahlukene, amaethi wetiyi, izibani zokukhanyisa ezikhazimulayo, izikali, ibhokisi lesinkwa, ukudla okushisa noma amafomu okuhlukanisa okwehlukile okubhaka.
Ungakhohlwa mayelana nezimbali nezimbali zenjabulo ebusweni bakho uma unikeza isipho sakho. Ibhodlela lewayini noma le-champagne, ukubamba esihlathini kanye nesifiso somusa nesifiso esiqotho kuzohambisana nomqondo jikelele. "Umama wakho wesibili" uyojabula ngokuthi unomkhwenyana onjalo obala.
Njengoba ungabona, umbuzo awuyinkimbinkimbi, ukuthi yini ongayinika umamazala wakho ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa.