Shintsha kusisiza ukuba sihlale sihlehlisiwe, senze impilo ibe ngcono futhi siyithokozele. Kodwa ungashukunyiswa kanjani kubo, uma amandla emikhuba nokwesaba kudlula? Udinga ukuqeqeshwa!
Isinyathelo 1. Qala usuku ngokudala
Ngaphambi kokuvuka ekuseni, ucabange ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi uzizwe noma wenze ngendlela ehlukile, njengalokhu njalo: "Namuhla ngizogeza ngoma umculo ngiye ngisebenze ngenye indlela" noma "Ngizogqoka i-blouse entsha nebhoti ku-hairpin - ake wonke umuntu aqagele ukuthi yini lokhu ". Zama ukuphila futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, kujabulisa ukucabanga izinguquko ezilula futhi ezilula esimisweni somsebenzi nsuku zonke noma ukubukeka: ungadli kanjani ukudla kwasekuseni ekhaya, kodwa ku-cafe; uya emsebenzini hhayi nge-subway, kodwa ngetekisi; Thenga izimbali endleleni bese uvela ehhovisi nge-bouquet. Iphupho futhi ... hamba! Noma yikuphi ukucabangela kusiza ukwandisa ama-horizons bese ubeka ukugoba okuthakazelisayo.
Isinyathelo sesibili. Sifuna isibonelo esisha
Hlola indlela okhuluma ngayo, ugqoke, udle, uphendule ezimweni ezahlukene, uchithe isikhathi sakho samahhala. Khumbula, ukulingisa ukuthi ungubani lokhu. Umngane? Abaphikisi? Abazali? Uyavuma yini le mikhuba? Umama wakho wathatha umthetho weSabatha ukuze azinikezele ukuhlanza, futhi waqhubeka nesiko. Kodwa uyayidinga? Mhlawumbe kufanelekile ukuchitha lolo suku kulokho okujabulisa kakhulu kuwe? Akunjalo ngomqondo wokukhipha ngokuphelele, futhi uyeke ukuhlanganisa usuku oluqhakazile kakhulu lwesonto kumuntu ohlanza umshini wokugcoba nomgqa. Futhi ukuhlala ngokuhlukile. Izinguquko ku-destiny ziqala ngeziqu ezinjalo.
Isinyathelo 3: Ukuguqula Izenzo
Ukwenza lokhu kumele uqale wenze uhlu lwazo: ukuthi ungabingelela kanjani, wenze ukuhlanza, upheke i-borscht, wenze uthando ... Futhi manje bhala phansi imikhuba efanayo, kodwa ngendlela eguquliwe: borscht upheke iresiphi entsha, ungahlanzekile ku-jeans, nasendlini yokugeza, ubulili abahlanganyeli hhayi kusihlwa, kodwa ekuseni ... I-psyche yethu iyamaqhinga, kulula ukuhlala ngephethini, ngisho nezinguquko ezingenakuzithoba kanye nezinyathelo ezincane zinganikezwa nobunzima. Kodwa nje ungakhathazeki! Phatha konke njengomdlalo. Ungakwazi, isibonelo, ukuzama ukubingelela emisebenzini. Esikhundleni sezinto ezithandekayo "Sawubona!" ithi: "Sawubona wonke umuntu!", "Ngiyajabula ukubona wonke umuntu!", "Sawubona, ozakwabo!" Ngamafuphi, sidinga ukuthola izinketho ezamukelekayo thina futhi sicabange ngalokho okulandelayo. Ingabe ukuhlanza kuyoba ngempumelelo, futhi ubulili buqine? Ingabe uzothola ukuvuka ngokomzwelo kokungenzeka kokunqoba nokuhlukahluka? Uma u-yebo, sebenzisa amaphuzu angu-1-2 avela ohlwini olusha ukuze uqiniseke: kumnandi, kumnandi futhi kusebenziseke nakancane kuleso cala.
Isinyathelo 4. Gcina idayari
Idayari ye-intanethi (ibhulogi noma i-LiveJournal) manje iyaziwa. Kodwa ungenza ngendlela endala, ephepheni, ulungise konke okwenzekile emini. Ngemuva kwezinyanga ezingu-3, kufanele ufunde kabusha okufakiwe. Uma umcimbi okhanga kakhulu ngalesi sikhathi kwaba ukuphazamiseka kwesitimela esikhwameni, futhi okubaluleke kunazo zonke ukufika kuka-anti waseRyazan, khona-ke singasho ukuthi: ukuphila kuphazamisa! Amanothi edayari enza lokhu kuvelele. Ukuchaza ngokuqhubekayo ukuxubha kwempilo yansuku zonke akusizi ngalutho, kodwa ukuthatha izinguquko zokuhlela ngokubhaliwe kuyasiza kakhulu. Ukuqhuba idayari elinjalo lekusasa. Ake sithi, kuyo yonke imininingwane, chaza usuku lwephupho lakho, into ofuna ukuyithenga, nendawo ongathanda ukuya kuyo. Ungakwazi ngisho nokufanekisa emasimini amasu kanye nethemba lekusasa. Uma ushintsho olufisayo luba nomumo futhi ludwetshwe ngemibala, lusondela ekuqinisweni. Futhi ngolunye usuku awukwazi ukuphika noma yena noma wena.
Isinyathelo 5. Hlela usuku oluphelele
Okokuqala, kwanele ukuhlala ezingeni eliphakeme okungenani i-fragment yalo. Isibonelo, ukuhlela isidlo sakusihlwa seSonto esiyisibonelo esihlokweni sezihlobo. Cabanga kusengaphambili nangemininingwane encane kunazo zonke: yiziphi izinsimbi, indwangu yokugqoka, izimbali ezizokhetha ukuthi kuzoba yini kwimenyu, kungakhathaliseki ukubeka ukukhanya okungeziwe nokuhambisana komsindo, indlela yokuhlela izivakashi, ukuthi yini okumelwe uzimangaze, ukuthi yini ongayikhetha etafuleni. Ukusebenza ngokugcwele ngale mibuzo, uzohamba ngaphezu kohlaka olujwayelekile, futhi umdlandla wezivakashi uzokukhuthaza. Kodwa-ke, ngezinye izikhathi isifo esisodwa esisodwa nje sanele. Isibonelo, imenyu ijwayele, kodwa uvala isidlo ngesidlo sephansi esithuthukisiwe ngendlela yasempumalanga. Ngokuqondene nosuku oluphelele, kungcono ukuguqula usuku lwakho lokuzalwa ngalo. Hlela konke njengokungathi kwakuwumkhosi wokugcina empilweni yakho. Buyela emva kwakhe esimweni sokuphila kwansuku zonke asisayifuni. Mhlawumbe, kusukela manje kuze kube manje, isiphetho sizolandela umkhondo ohlukile ngokuphelele!
Isinyathelo 6. Siwela ebuntwaneni
Kulowo nalowo kithi uhlala nengane eqondile, efana nengane. Cabanga ngakho lapho uzwa ukuthi usukhulile ngendlela engumuntu omdala onengqondo, ohlakaniphile, ongenakulinganiswa futhi othakazelisayo. Indlela elula yokuguqula ingane emphakathini wezingane, abangane bakhe: iqhwa egcekeni, ugibele nabo kusukela entabeni, udlale ufihle futhi ufune, ukwakha ubuso phambi kwesibuko. Futhi uma izifiso ezinjalo zivele zodwa? Qinisekisa ukuwalandela. Ukuze ugijimise ukujula, ngokukhipha inja yakho eqhweni, ugibele phezu kocingo ukuze ugweme ukuhamba, uhlele ukudansa kwangaphandle phambi kwesibuko ... Ukubuyela okunjalo ebuntwaneni kunika injabulo ngokomzwelo nangokwenyama nokukhululeka, ukukhululeka, ukulahleka kokuzidela, inkululeko yangaphakathi kwandisa ukuzimisela ukushintsha.
Isinyathelo 7. Ake sibe ngabenzi bethu befilimu
Cabanga ukuthi usemidlalo yaseshashalazini, ungumqondisi. Ngaphambi kwakho esiteji, umlingisi, ikhophi yakho eqondile (ukuziphatha komuntu, njengoba izazi zakhe zengqondo zibiza). Umi emgwaqeni bese ulinda izikhombisi-ndlela zakho. Ugxile ngokuphelele kulokho okubonayo ... Yazisa ukuziphatha kwakho ngeso lengqondo lomqondisi obalulekile, yini ongayithandi ngokubukeka kwakhe, indlela yakhe yokukhuluma, yokuhamba? Mtshele ukuthi udinga ukushintsha ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zakho eziqinile. Cabanga ngalokho okulindele kuye kuye njengomdlali we-actress, ukuthi ukuziphatha kwakhe kuzokuvumela wena, umqondisi, ukudala ukusebenza kahle. Mhlawumbe unamandla kakhulu, futhi unamandla-ulambile, unamahloni? Beka phambi kwakhe umsebenzi womdlali ohlukile, ngitshele ukuthi yimiphi imibala ongayifaka esithombeni. Nika isincomo: sigqoke ngokocansi ngokweqile, kaningi noma kaningi udlala ngothando, qhubeka uhlehlisa noma ukwandisa isilulumagama. Futhi manje buyela empeleni futhi uqale ukushintsha ngaphansi kwesigungu somqondisi wakho wangaphakathi. Uma ungesabi ukushintsha indima, uzoba nempumelelo nokuphila okusha.
Isinyathelo 8. Siyaphupha mayelana nokungenakwenzeka
Kuyinto eyodwa ukuphupha uhambo oluya e-Anapa, kanti elinye - ngamabhishi amhlophe aseMaldives noma ... mayelana nokushayela enyangeni. Izifiso namaphupho ezidangayo nazo zinelungelo lokuba khona. Futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, benza umsebenzi obalulekile wokuhlinzeka: bayasivumela ukuba sandise ukuqonda kwethu, siphumelele ubuso obungenakwenzeka. Futhi ubonise uma uqhathanisa ukuthi kulula kangakanani ukwenza konke okunye: ushintshe indawo yokuhlala, ubhalisele iqembu le-aerobics bese uvula i-beauty salon encane. Uma kuqhathaniswa nokulungiswa kohambo lwawo lwenyanga, lezi ziyizinto ezimbi!