Iningi labantu liqala impilo entsha ngoMsombuluko. Noma kusukela oNyaka Omusha. Futhi umama wesikhathi esizayo unesizathu esihle kakhulu sokwenza lokhu, lapho ezwa ngokukhulelwa kwakhe, vumelani, ukuthi kuhle kangakanani manje ukuthi siphila ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa sekuphelile ukubhekwa njengesifo. Eqinisweni, lokhu kungenye yezikhathi ezinhle kakhulu owesifazane okufanele azijabulele ngokugcwele, njengamamama amaningi anamuhla anomcimbi onjalo wenziwa yedwa, kusukela emandleni kuze kube kabili empilweni. Futhi kuyadabukisa kakhulu uma loluhambo olufushane kakhulu lwezinyanga ezingu-9 lushiywa enkumbulo yabazali kuphela njengesikhathi sokuhamba, ukukhathazeka nokuxazulula zonke izinhlobo zezinkinga. Ngakho-ke, yiziphi izinguquko ezingenzeka futhi ezifiselekayo ngenkathi zilinde umntwana?
Emzimbeni onempilo, umoya onempilo.
Kodwa hhayi ngokuhambela okungapheli kudokotela nokubeka zonke izinhlobo zokuhlolwa. Cishe abaningi bethu bacabanga ngendlela yokwenza indlela yakho yokuphila ibe nenempilo, kodwa ngokuvamile abantu abanamandla amakhulu basebenzayo. Noma kunjalo, kulokhu kubalulekile: ukuzimela nokugqugquzela. Isisusa somama esizayo sibi kakhulu: kusukela eqinisweni lokuthi owesifazane udla futhi uphuze, ukuthi uphefumula kanjani, yiziphi izinhlobo zomzimba ezisekelayo, impilo engokwenyama nengokwengqondo yomntwana esiswini ixhomeke ngqo. Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi kuyingozi kangakanani, isibonelo, ukubhema. Kodwa akuwona wonke owesifazane onamandla okwanele okushiya lesi simkhuba esiyingozi. Kodwa ukuqaphela ukuthi indoda encane encane isisombululile esiswini, inika amandla amaningi ukuyeka ukubhema. Akuwona wonke umuntu olungele ukuhlala ezidlweni futhi aziphike zonke izinhlobo zezinto ezingenampilo, kodwa ukubukeka kwengane kubeka imithetho emisha. Izingane ezinjengokuthi ziqondisa umama ukulungisa izinqumo ezingeni lezingqondo. Akunzima kakhulu owesifazane okhulelwe ukuba athathe ikhofi yekhofi, itiye we-herbal noma ingilazi yamanzi ahlanzekile, ubhake inyama esikhundleni sokuwucwilisa epanini lokuthosizela, ukudla okunezithelo noma amantongomane esikhundleni se-chips. Kuyafana nokusebenza ngokomzimba. Yiqiniso, akekho olindele amarekhodi e-Olympic avela kuwe, thola umthwalo owuthandayo, ngokuvamile ukubhukuda, uthandwa kakhulu ngabomama abalindele futhi ubheka imidlalo engcono kunazo zonke ochwepheshe abaningi. Noma i-yoga yabesifazane abakhulelwe, abathandekayo kakhulu, abanandaba kakhulu ngisho nabangakulungele. Futhi ukuhamba njalo ngesivinini esisheshayo, mhlawumbe epaki, kuzobe sekuvele kube nemiphumela emihle kakhulu. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuzama ukwenza konke ngokuthakazelisayo, hhayi ukuziphoqa, kodwa, ngokuphambene nalokho, njengokuthi ukhuthaza, ngoba konke lokhu kuyisilwane esimangalisayo kunazo zonke esilinde isikhathi eside, esivele sincike kuwe.
Ake sizenzele.
Mhlawumbe ushintshe isithombe, isitayela, ikhabethe. Abesifazane abaningi bayavuma ukuthi bafuna ukuba ngabafazi besifazane, bakhangwa imibala enesibindi, izindwangu ezihambayo ezikhanyayo, i-jeans engokwesiko idonsela ukushintsha izingubo nezingubo. Okokuthi, isisusa somama, isimo semvelo sisinikeza izinkomba okufanele zisetshenziswe. Manje unesizathu esihle kakhulu sokuzikhandla. Futhi izihlobo, izihlobo nabangane, ngokubambisana, ngokuziphatha ngokweqile ukuphatha abesifazane "ukuphonsa" ngalesi sikhathi. Njengoba umyeni ohlakaniphile womunye wabangane bami eqinisile wathi, ngubani oshesha ngokuzithenga ukuthenga izingubo zakhe (ekuphileni okuvamile yena engathandi ukuwagqoka): "Yebo, uthenge. Ngokungazelelwe lokhu kungukukhulelwa kwakho kokugcina, singakwazi ukuthola izifiso zakho, kufanele uzizwe njengomama omuhle kunabo bonke emhlabeni! "