Njalo ngonyaka sizama ukuzibekela imigomo emincane, okuyiyo, njengemithetho, engashukumisi kakhulu. Isibonelo, "ngena ezemidlalo", "qala ukudla kahle", "ukhokhe zonke izikweletu."
Futhi kuthiwani uma sizibeka emgomweni wezwe lomhlaba wonke ozobeka 100%? Sitshela ukuthi singabeka kanjani futhi sengeze imigomo evelele, kusukela ezincwadini ezinhle kunazo zonke ekuzithuthukiseni.
Yenza umgomo
Abalobi be-bestseller abanolwazi olude "I-Whole Life" bakha umgomo wabo jikelele: "Shintsha umhlaba." Bathi ukuthi abanomsebenzi onjalo, bahamba ngokushesha kakhulu endleleni yabo. "Kunjengokungathi leli zwe lisiza," kubhala.
Ngakho, ekuchazeni umgomo wakho womhlaba jikelele, udinga ukucabangela amaphuzu amathathu ayisihluthulelo. Okokuqala, udinga umgomo ukufanisa amakhono akho wemvelo. Uma ucabanga ukuthi awunawo amakhono, sekuyisikhathi sokwenza konke ukuwabona. Ingxenye impumelelo ekufinyeleleni umgomo ukukwenza lokho okunikezwa kalula, kodwa kwenze ngawo wonke amandla akho. Okwesibili, qiniseka. Ukuze ufeze umgomo omkhulu ngempela, udinga ukuqeqesha nsuku zonke. Lungiselela ukuthi impumelelo akusiyona i-sprint, kodwa i-marathon. Kuzodingeka uzikhuthaze iminyaka eminingi. Nsuku zonke. Okwesithathu, thobekile. Ungavumeli i-ego engeyona impilo ingaphezu kwamanani akho. UMahatma Gandhi, uMama Teresa kanye nezinkulungwane zabanye abantu abaye bakhumbula umhlaba njengabantu abakhulu kunazo zonke, abazange bacabange ngomvuzo, kodwa bavele benza umsebenzi wabo.
Isikhumbuzi phambi kwamehlo
U-Igor Mann encwadini yakhe ethi "Indlela Yokuba Inombolo 1 kulokho okwenzayo" ubhala ukuthi umgomo omuhle kufanele ube nezimfanelo ezintathu. Okokuqala, kufanele kube nesibindi. Khumbula inkulumo enhle kakhulu: "I-Target e-Sun - vele ufike enyangeni. Futhi uzobe uhlose enyangeni - awukwazi ukuhamba. " Okwesibili, kufinyeleleka. Futhi okwesithathu, njalo phambi kwamehlo akho. Abanye bafaka amakhadibhodi ngencazelo yenhloso esikhwameni. Omunye ubhala futhi ulenga phambi kwedeski. "Ngithanda ukusetha umgomo njengesikrini se-iPhone. Njalo phambi kwakho, futhi ubona okungenani izikhathi ezingu-100 ngosuku. Ukungazinaki akunakwenzeka, "- futhi lena indlela oyithandayo yokukhumbuza injongo kaMan ngokwakhe. Vumela wonke umuntu wazi ngomgomo wakho. Ekugcineni, abantu abaningi bazi ngalokhu, amathuba amancane okumele uphume kuwo.
Namathisela ukwedlulela
U-Dan Waldschmidt ubhala encwadini yakhe ethi, "YIBA IMIBONO YOKUPHAKATHI YAMI", lokho kuyodingeka ukuthi kutholakale imigomo evelele. Ukhuluma ngaleyo nto ngokuthi "ukunqoba". Kubantu bezemidlalo, isikhathi sokuthi "overcompensation" sifike ngokuqondile ngesikhathi sokugcina, lapho imvelo inika okungaphezulu kwalokho okungakwenza, ngisho nangaphezulu. Le yiyona okuthiwa "izindlela ezingezansi" lapho kuqhuma i-micro-fiber break, bese imvelo iqala inqubo "ye-overcompensation" futhi imisipha iba namandla. Ngamabomu ngendlela efanayo - singakwazi ukufeza imigomo evelele kuphela ngokusebenzisa umzamo we-100% nokuyibeka ngaphezulu.
Amakaki kanye nezitatimende zokukhulisa
Ukuqagela ukuthi ubani oyidemotivator ebaluleke kakhulu endleleni eya emgomweni? Yebo, kunjalo - kungukuthi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngaphezu kwakho konke sizibheka ngenkulumo engalungile yangaphakathi. Isibonelo, njalo sizitshela ukuthi "Ngeke ngikuthole," "Angikwazi," "Ngihlale ngiphuthuma noma ngiphule isikhathi sokuthi ngifake isikhathi." Zonke lezi zinto zidinga ukushintshwa ngokukhulisa izitatimende. Isibonelo, "Ngizophumelela", "Ngingowomuntu oyedwa!", "Nginamandla!". Lokhu kubhaliwe encwadini yakhe ethi "Ngaphandle kokuzihawukela", umqeqeshi odumile waseCorway, ongokwengqondo, kanye namabutho akhethekile ase-Eric Larssen. Ukwazisa njalo ukuthi uzibuza imibuzo imibuzo. Futhi ngiya kuphi? Ingabe ngingu-100% obekwe namuhla? Ngingaba kanjani ngempumelelo kakhulu ukuze ngifeze umgomo ngokushesha?
Izixazululo zasendlini
UBarbara Sher - uMqeqeshi wePhila owaziwayo, owake wakuthola imigomo yakhe yomhlaba wonke, ekubeni ngumama ongashadile onabantwana ababili ezandleni zakhe, encwadini yakhe ethi "Ukunqabela ukukhetha" inikeza izixazululo eziningi "zansuku zonke". Isibonelo, nganciphisa ngesibindi uhlu lwamacala. Akukho lutho olubi oluzokwenzeka uma namuhla ungenawo isikhathi, uthi, ukuya esitolo bese uthengwa ukudla. Kusadingeka sikhumbule njalo ukuthi ukuhlakanipha okukhulu kugcwaliswa ngamazwi avela emiyalweni yokuphepha ezindiza, ethi: "Okokuqala faka imaski phezu kwakho, bese usengumntwana." Khumbula ukuthi empilweni futhi. Uma singenaso isikhathi sokwenza okubaluleke kakhulu kithi, khona-ke siyajabula. Futhi laba bazali abadingi izingane. Okokuqala, uma ufika ekhaya uvela emsebenzini, unakekele izindaba zakho, bese kuthi kubo bonke abanye. Ngaphansi kwebhizinisi, akuhlosiwe ukukhuluma ngamanethiwekhi omphakathi nabangani noma ukubukela i-TV, kodwa lezo zinto ezenza ukuba usondelane nomgomo wakho.