Ngokwezengqondo zengqondo, ithimba labesifazane abalingani lihlale lingenangqondo: ngokuvamile livame ukondla ukuzwelana kulabo abangahlonishwayo, kodwa bahloniphe labo abangakufanelekeli. Yingakho abaphathi abaningi besilisa, abafuna ukuhola iqembu elinjalo, ngokuzikhethela bahlale bekhetha indawo ekhethekile yokudlala indima yokuvikela umuntu wabo. Ngakho-ke, abaqashi besilisa: izinzuzo nezingozi zokuziphatha kwabo nokuthi baziphathe kanjani nabo?
"Madodakazi, masihlale ndawonye! "
Ngesinye isikhathi kwakukhona umfana omncane owayenakekelwa kakhulu ngumama wakhe, futhi ngubani owayengabangane nabafana ababi, kodwa amantombazane akhethiwe. Ngakho wakhula, waba yinhloko yeqembu labesifazane. Ekuqaleni, umuntu onjalo uziphatha nabo bonke abantu ngokulingana, kodwa emva kwesikhathi angakwazi ukuqala ukwakha konke, nakuba, ngesikhathi esifanayo, njalo uya "namantombazane" akhe.
Kungani ulinde? Okumangalisa ukuthi, kodwa owesilisa ophakeme kakhulu uhamba nabesifazane, ngokushesha uthola ulimi oluvamile nabo, uyaziqonda futhi uhlala ekulungele ukunikeza iseluleko. Ngendlela, kubomakhelwane bakhe, yena, empeleni, akabonisi abameleli bobulili obuhlukile, ngoba kuye eqenjini lonke lilingana. Kodwa noma yiziphi izinzuzo, kuyohlale kukhona ezinye izinto ezimbi. Isibonelo, umculi onjalo uvame ukufaniswa nama-mumble. Zonke izinkinga ezingaxazululwa, kulula ukunciphisa ukungathandabuzi okungenasisekelo, akuthinteki engozini, kuvimbela emisha futhi ukukhululeka kakhulu kuphakamisa inkokhelo.
Indlela yokuziphatha ngokufanele? Khumbula, lo mphathi uyesaba umthwalo wemfanelo, njengomlilo ngokwawo. Yingakho njalo ekhetha umuntu onamandla kuwo wonke umqondo nomuntu onamandla. Njengomthetho, phakathi "kwabesifazane bezilwane zenkampani". Yingakho yonke imibuzo ejabulisayo okufanele uyixazulule kuphela naye. Kuphela kudingekile ukuthi ucabange ukuthi lelo phephisi lihlale limatasa kakhulu futhi likhishwa futhi ngenxa yecala lokunganaki komphathi.
"Ngikugxilisa amantongomane lapha! "
Ukuqinisa isiyalo jikelele kuyinjongo enkulu yomphathi onjalo. "Ngizokulethela lapha!" "- Ngala mazwi indoda enjalo inhloko iqala ukwakha ithimba labesifazane. Futhi ngokuqhubekayo, njengoba kusetshenziswe umthetho, kwahamba: ukukhokhela isikhathi sokuphumula, ithuba lokuthatha isikhathi emsebenzini ngaphandle kwephepha eliqinisekisiwe ezimweni ezintathu, ukuthola iphepha lehhovisi ngaphansi kokuthola isimiso esiqinile ... Ngamafuphi, umphathi onjalo enkundleni yempi unesethi yonke yezindlela, ukuletha ukwesaba ekuhlanganyeleni .
Kodwa, hhayi ukubuka yonke imiyalo esondayo yomphathi onjalo, ngokuvamile uvame ukuzethemba, njengenhloko. Ngelinye igama, ungumkhankaso omkhulu, kodwa akakwazi ukuziqhenya ngethalenta nhlobo. Eqenjini lala madoda akakhanyisi izintaba, kodwa ehamba nesifazane uyaphatha, eqhubeka ekhuluma: "Owesifazane uyisidalwa esibuthakathaka! ".
Kungani ulinde? Indoda enjalo kaningi isisebenzi esithembisayo kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwakho konke akuthandayo, lapho amantombazane abasha nabamahloni besebenza eqenjini, mhlawumbe, ababheki kahle nomsebenzi wabo, kodwa benza ngokwethembeka imiyalo yakhe.
Indlela yokuziphatha ngokufanele? Kudingekile ukuthi ufunde zonke izinkinga ngokusebenzisa izindlela ze "chancellery". Okuthi: nganoma yisiphi isizathu, bhala umbiko ngokuningiliziwe, okungeziwe ngemagrafu eningiliziwe kumanani. Ikhophi yalesi sicelo kumele ifakwe kusefolda - njengaleyo, uma kwenzeka. Ngendlela, wonke ama-pluses we-boss anjalo ukuthi ungumuntu ophethe kahle futhi uma athembisile okuthile, uzokwenza nakanjani.
"Iqhawe elicabange kakhulu! "
Njengomthetho, umphathi onjalo uhluke kakhulu, ucabange futhi akafuni ukukhuluma ngokungenalutho. Umsebenzi wakhe uqondiswa ngenhloso, ngokuphelele ngaphandle kokulalela abantu bangaphandle. Uyazi kahle umsebenzi wakhe, kodwa wesaba owesifazane.
Umphathi onjalo unesihluthulelo "sempisi eyodwa", ngakho eqenjini labesifazane ukhanya ngempumelelo nangothando lwayo yonke indawo.
Indlela yokuziphatha ngokufanele? Uma ufuna ukushiya umbono ohloniphekile ngawe, zama ukuveza imicabango yakho kancane futhi uvikele ngokuqinile, ungazivumeli ukuphazamisa. Ngaso sonke isikhathi hlolisisa umphathi ebusweni. Lezi izinzuzo zakho eziyinhloko, okudingeka futhi zibandakanye ukubukeka kwakho: thola i-suti eqinile yesilisa ubone ukuthi yimaphi izimangaliso akwazi ukuzenza. Futhi ngokuqinisekile uzolinda ukukhuthazwa.
"Ngihlala esihlalweni sobukhosi - ngibheke kude! "
Umusa, kodwa ulungile, njalo ongenakulinganiswa futhi awunandaba. Umphathi onjalo uyangena kalula eqenjini labesifazane, kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi kukhona "ukuhlushwa" okhethekile maqondana nazo zonke izinkinga kanye nezingxabano.
Kungani ulinde? Enkampanini ngaphansi kokubusa kwakhe umoya wokubambisana nomndeni uzwakala ngokucacile. Ngakho-ke, ungalokothi uphuphe ngenkulumo yentando yeningi yemibono nemigomo yakho. Inzuzo yalowo mqashi ukuthi uthanda ukulalela inhlebo yabesifazane, ngoba kubonga kubo, ufunda ukuthi ngubani ongemva kwakhe kunokuphefumula. Futhi uma edumisa umuntu, akusilo neze ukuthi omunye umsebenzi owengeziwe uzofakwa emahlombe yalesi sisebenzi.
Indlela yokuziphatha ngokufanele? Umphathi onjalo uhlonipha ukuvuma konke nokuthanda umsebenzi. Ukuze uthole umsebenzi ophelele futhi okhuthele, kanye nokuzihlonipha, ngokuqinisekile uyobe ulindele umvuzo.
"Into esemqoka ku-anthill! "
Lokhu akusikho umphathi, kodwa i-robot yangempela. Uhlala futhi usebenza ngokulandela iziyalezo ezakhelwe ngokuzimela, okuyiqiniso ukuthi usebenzisa empilweni. Ngendlela, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ithimba labesifazane livumelana nazo zonke izibuko zakhe zomhlaba. Futhi iphuzu liwukuthi umholi onjalo unomusa kakhulu futhi "akanalutho" ngokuphelele!
Kungani ulinde? Ububi benduna yale nketho yukuthi uqondiswe kakhulu ukusebenza futhi udonsa wonke umuntu emva kwakhe! Kodwa, noma kunjalo, eqenjini lapho alawula khona, ngaso sonke isikhathi kunomusa nobungane. Futhi konke ngenxa yendlela yakhe "yokuncoma okulula."
Indlela yokuziphatha ngokufanele? Lo mholi uhlolisisa kahle ukuthuthukiswa kwazo zonke izimo zokukhiqiza. Uhlale ekhuthaza wonke umuntu ongazihlukanisa ngesikhathi. Ngendlela, kumphathi onjalo kungcono ukusebenzisa ngaphakathi kwemingcele yesikhathi esimisiwe futhi ulandela imiyalelo yakhe.
Futhi okokugcina, ngokuvumelana nazo zonke izazi ze-psychology, isilinganiso esiphezulu kakhulu sokugcina indawo yokusebenza eqenjini cishe cishe isilinganiso esifanayo sabesifazane nabesilisa. Kule thimba ukuthi izinzuzo eziningi zikhona, kahle, uma ngabe uhlangene, lapho umuntu oyedwa kanye no-boss, thola ama-pluses kuwo! Inhlanhla!