Ingabe ibhalwe phansi? Ukuthanda kwethu i-kgadets kunamandla kunalokho esikucabangayo. Ngokusho kocwaningo oluqhutshwa yi-Nokia, abasebenzisi be "mobile" bahlole ifoni yabo yonke imizuzu eyisithupha nesigamu. Futhi kwatholakala ukuthi amaphesenti angu-70 wabasebenzisi abakhuthele bamadivaysi eselula abhekana nokudlidliza kwe-syndromantom. Labo abahlukunyezwa yi-syndrome bazizwa bekhukhumezeka, ngisho nalapho ucingo lusesinye ikamelo, noma bayithatha ngokuqiniseka okuphelele ukuthi idlidliza ku-call, kodwa itholakala ukuthi ayizange ivule nhlobo.
Ngesikhathi sesidlo esinomusa sithinta isithombe se-Instagram, sizinaki ngokuphelele abangane abahlezi eduze komunye nomunye. Kufika eqinisweni lokuthi ezindiza sisula amafoni ethu ngokulindela imibiko yokuwa kwethu emhlabathini. Lokhu kuziphatha okuzimele kithi kuba okubalulekile ezenzweni zethu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyazi noma cha. UProfesa weYunivesithi yaseCalifornia, isazi sezengqondo uLarry Rosen uthi izikhungo zethu zokulawula izinzwa zisesimweni sokuhlaselwa njalo emcabangweni wokuthi sidinga ukubuka nokuhlola i-Facebook yethu, Twitter, Instagram, Reddit, futhi uma singenjalo, singaphuthelwa into ebalulekile. UDkt. Rosen ubheka lokhu kuthandana njengento eqinile, ngoba emva kokuhlola amadivayisi akhe eselula, sikwenza ukuze singathokozi ezindabeni ezintsha nemilayezo efundwayo, kodwa siqondiswa yisifiso sokuzizwa singakhathazeki. Ukwenqaba ukuhlola nokubuyekeza amakhasi kumanethiwekhi omphakathi kunzima kakhudlwana kunokuzilibazisa ngotshwala noma ugwayi.
Ungazivivinya uma umlutha wakho ungahambanga. Zibuze phambi komqapha: "Kungani ngihlola? Ngabe kufanele ngikhokhele umuntu? Futhi uma ngingaboni, ngizolahlekelwa okuthile okubalulekile? Ingabe kufanele ukwethuke ngenxa yalokhu noma uhambe ngobuqili? ". Uma iziphetho zingekho, khona-ke kuyadingeka ukuba ukhululeke kulokhu kuncike. Izazi zengqondo ziphakamisa ukuhlela isikhathi somsebenzi ngendlela yokuthi uhlale ulayisha ubuchopho noma ngezikhathi ezithile noma umnike ukuphumula okugcwele. Ukuze uphumule ubuchopho ngemva kwehora nengxenye, thatha ikhefu - phuma esibukweni bese uhamba imizuzu emihlanu. Uma usuqiniseka ukuthi ungaphila ngaphandle kwedivayisi yakho imizuzu eminingana njalo ngehora nengxenye, uhlose isinyathelo esilandelayo - funda ukushintsha iziteshi zobuchopho bakho bese ugxila ngesikhathi esifanele.
Okokuqala, thatha imizuzu embalwa ukuhlola amanethiwekhi omphakathi njalo ngemizuzu engu-15. Emva kokukhululekile kuwe, welula ngokulandelana izikhathi ezingu-20, bese ufika emaminithini angu-25-30. Uma uqonda isikhathi esingaphansi kwamaminithi amathathu futhi uzobona ukuthi akukho lutho oluyinkimbinkimbi olwenzekayo, ungakwazi ukucindezela umuzwa wokucindezela wokucindezela ukufaka amanethiwekhi omphakathi, ukhohlwe ukukhathazeka okuhambisana nakho. Ikhwalithi yomsebenzi wakho izothuthukisa kuphela. Ngendlela, ngokwezibalo, ukuthuthukiswa kwabafundi besikole nabafundi, ukuhlala "ikhompuyutha" amahora, kuncane kakhulu kunalokho okuvuselela abafundi esikanye nabo ngenkuthalo.
Uma umzabalazo wakho usuphelile, cela izihlobo zakho, ozakwabo nabangane ukuthi basekele imizamo yakho futhi hhayi njalo bakuthumele imiyalezo. Uma ungafuni ukuhlala engxoxweni ende nomngani wakho omkhulu, uxwayisa ukuthi usethe imingcele efonini, isibonelo, imizuzu engu-20 noma ngaphezulu. Lokhu kuzokuvimbela ingxoxo engacabangi futhi umngane wakho uzokujabulela kakhulu. Uzoba nesikhathi esengeziwe sokuxhumana nabantu, okungcono kakhulu kunezinto ezibonakalayo "ze-intanethi".
Uma unomkhuba ojwayelekile wokuxhumana usebenzisa izindlela zobuchwepheshe, ngeke ufune i-iPhone esiqhingini sakho, kodwa ufuna ukubona i-VIPs yokuphila kwakho iphile.