Wena uthanda ukulala uvumelane nencwadi, futhi umyeni uyakunqikaza ukuphumula ebusweni bebhola ukuze akusize ubusuku ... Yini edingekayo ukuthi ishintshwe ebuhlotsheni ukuze othandekayo angagqila embhedeni?
Khumbula konke
Okudlule akukhona nje kuphela umthombo wendabuko, kodwa futhi nomcebo wokubonakala okucacile, okubili wena nomthandi wakho ongakwenqaba ukuphinde nibone.
Mhlawumbe, ku-wardrobe yakho kukhona izingubo ezifanayo "ezithakazelisayo", lapho uphendule khona ikhanda lakho namanje kumlingani ozayo. Noma wena nomyeni wakho ninomculo ozithandayo, owadansa ngosuku. Ngokuvamile, zama ukwenza okuthile okuzosiza othandekayo wakho ukuba abe nomuzwa wemihlangano yakho yokuqala futhi.
Ukwenza izinkumbulo zakusihlwa zibe yimpumelelo, sebenzisa amasu alandelayo, ukuvumela ukuba uvumelane ngendlela efanele: mema umyeni wakhe ukuba abuke ezithombeni ezindala noma amavidiyo omshado ukuze aphile imicimbi ejabulisayo; Zama ukukhumbula ndawonye lokho okwenzile ngalolo suku (noma okungenani inyanga) eminyakeni emihlanu edlule; khuluma ngamacala afisa ukwazi ukuthi kwenzekani kuwe.
Ngolimi lokuthakazelisa
Njengesifiso ngesikhathi sokudla, isifiso sivame ukuzalwa ngesikhathi socansi. Ngokuvame ukukhombisa isinyathelo sokuthola injabulo ebulili besilisa nabesifazane, uvuselela ubuhlobo obuseduze bese ubabuza isigqi esisha. Ngokwenza umyeni wakhe "iziphakamiso ezingcolile" izikhathi eziningana ngosuku, noma nje ebonisa ukukhangwa komuntu, uzoziqhayisa futhi akhuthaze ukuba usabele. Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa zokubonisa isifiso sakho.
Ukuncoma kwengqondo, ukubukeka, amandla nokuqina komyeni wakhe.
Ukuthinta kaningi, kisses kanye ukukhukhumeza. Amanye amadoda athokozwa ngabesifazane bawo, abonakala kubantu.
Sebenzisa ulimi oluseduze lokuveza uthando nokuthokozisa ubulili besilisa nabesifazane. I-pair ngayinye inayo eyakhe, futhi ngezinye izikhathi i-fact of use izinkulumo ezithile ikhuthaza umcabango.
Ukuvuselela ubudlelwano bobulili, ngezinye izikhathi kwanele nje ukushintsha isikhathi sobudlelwane obuseduze. Masibe ekuseni noma emini ngosuku lokuvala. Khona-ke ubulili buzophela ukuba yisimiso esivamile, ukwenza umsebenzi wokulala amaphilisi.
Veza i-vector
Ubani owakusho ukuthi owesifazane oshayayo uyingqayizivele enekhanda elinamafutha emasitheni amnyama? Mhlawumbe umyeni wakho uthola ukukhohlisa ikakhulu lapho udlala amabiliyade. Noma mhlawumbe iqala ngemuva komkhankaso ohlangene wokufanisa noma ikhonsathi. Zama ukwakha izithakazelo nokulutha kwamadoda, ngisho noma kubonakala sengathi awuthandi kakhulu.
Ngokuqinisekile empilweni yakho kaningi kwaba nezimo lapho wena nganoma yisiphi isizathu wenqabela "ukufinyelela" komyeni wakhe emzimbeni. Khokha ngokukhethekile kulawo mahlakalo ahlobene nokungavumelani mayelana nezindlela zokuchitha isikhathi samahhala. Vumelana, ekugcineni, ukuba uhambe nomyeni ekudoba noma ukubheka ukuhlukumeza okuthandayo. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi isenzo sakho esibanzi sizohamba singaboni. Ngokuqinisekile uyovuzwa ngokushesha uma uhlala nomuntu othandekayo wedwa.
Ukwaneliseka ngocansi kuvame ukuhlotshaniswa nendlela othandana ngayo. Emva kwakho konke, kunezimbhangqwana ezivame ukunganeliseki ngoba zingathandani, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile zihlala ndawonye futhi zikhulele izingane zabo.
Ukwaneliseka ngocansi ngokuvamile kuxhomeke ekuphileni kwabantu abasha ndawonye. Phela, empilweni kunezimo ezihlukene ezingagcini nje kuphela ukugqugquzela ucansi, kodwa futhi akufanelanga ukunakekelwa kwabashadile.