Impilo yengane iyisici esiyinhloko sokukhula okugcwele, ukuthuthukiswa nokwakhiwa kobuntu besikhathi esizayo. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu kokubili ukulondoloza nokuqinisa impilo yabantu, kusukela ekuqaleni kwasebuntwaneni. Abazali abaningi, ikakhulukazi omama, baqonda lokhu futhi bathatha ngokungathí sina impilo yengane yabo. Noma kunjalo, kubalulekile ukugcina umqondo ozwakalayo kukho konke, ngoba kuningi, akusiqondanga. Kusho ukuthini lapha?
Omama abaningi banzima kakhulu ngempilo yomntanakho, ukuthi kancane kancane, impumulo egijima ibangela ukwesaba okukhulu. Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi isici esibalulekile sempilo yisimo sengqondo sengqondo esithinta ngokuqondile isimo sengqondo somama nokuthi yini umama anayo "emabhere" akhe aboniswa ngqo kumntanakhe. Lapha kukhulunywa nje ngokuthi "igolide elisho" ngokuqondene nempilo yengane, okubaluleke kakhulu ukunamathela. Cabanga ngemigomo eyinhloko yezempilo yengane, okudingayo ukwazi nokuthi yini ebalulekile ukuyikhumbula.
Impilo yengane ingahlukaniswa ngamaqembu amane amakhulu ngokusho kwezinqubo eziyisithupha ezisungulwe.
Isigaba sokuqala sicabangela ukuzalwa, okungukuthi, ukuguqula izakhi zofuzo kwesinye isifo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokusho kwalesi simo, inkambo yokukhulelwa ngokwayo, uhlobo lokubeletha, kanye nenyanga yokuqala yokuphila komntwana kulinganiselwa. Njengomthetho, isithombe sezobuciko sezempilo sibalwa yi-geneticist.
Isigaba sesibili ukuthuthukiswa kwengane yonyaka wokuqala wokuphila, lapho izinkomba eziyinhloko zokuthuthukiswa zihlaziywa, njengokuyisisindo, ukuphakama, ikhanda lekhanda nesifuba, nezinye.
Isigaba sesithathu sikhathalela impilo yengane yengane.
Ngokusho kwesigabeni sesine, ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono wengane, inkulumo nokuxhumana kuhlolwa. Njengomthetho, ukuthuthukiswa kwala makghono kuhlolwe ngokwetafula elithile. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ayikho imingcele ecacile nemigomo. Okusho ukuthi, wonke umntwana ungumuntu ohlukile okhulumayo ngokwendlela yakhe yokuthuthukisa, ngakho-ke ukwehluka komunye umkhawulo akuyona pathologies. Lapha wonke amakhono amakhono namakhono omntwana ahlaziywa.
Isigaba sesihlanu sicabangela ukuziphatha kwengane, ukuxhumana kwakhe nabanye, ukuzwelana, njengoba edla, imikhuba emibi.
Isimiso sesithupha ukuhlaziywa kwezifo ezingapheli ezinganeni, kanye nokukhubazeka nokukhubazeka kokuthuthukiswa kuthathwa ngokucabangela.
Ithimba lezempilo liyisibonakaliso esingashintsha kuyo yonke impilo, ngeshwa, njengomthetho, ngokubi nakakhulu.
Njengoba ubona, impilo yengane ixhomeke kokubili ezakhiweni zofuzo, nasesikhathini sokukhulelwa, uhlobo lokubeletha, ukuthuthukiswa okulungile kwengane yonyaka wokuqala wokuphila, kanye nezici zokunakekelwa okufanele, ukudla okunempilo, okungukuthi, izimo zemvelo.
Abazali abathandekayo okufanele baqaphele ngokucophelela zonke izinto eziphathelene nokuhlela ukukhulelwa, ukudla okunomsoco, nokunakekela ingane ngokwayo.
Ngeshwa, inqubo yokukhulelwa kokuzalwa ayizange ingene "kumkhuba" jikelele, noma kunjalo, kuvela ezinkomba zezempilo zabazali esikhathini esizayo sokuthi impilo yengane engakazalwa ixhomeke ngokuqondile. Ukuhlela okuhle kuhlanganisa:
- ukuxilongwa kwesimo sempilo yabazali besikhathi esizayo; uma kunesidingo, izifo ezithile kufanele ziqedwe;
- ukuvakashela udokotela wamazinyo,
- ukuphumula okugcwele ngaphambi kokukhulelwa emvelo,
- Ukukhipha imikhuba emibi kakhulu (iziphuzo ezishisayo, ukubhema, ukubukela i-TV, ukuvinjelwa kokuxhumana ngomakhalekhukhwini),
- umkhawulo omkhulu ekusetshenzisweni kwama-pharmacy agents kanye namakhemikhali asekhaya,
- ukuvinjelwa okuyingxenye yomsebenzi wezocansi.
Ukuvela kwamalungu omndeni omusha kuyisigaba esibaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni kwabazali abasha. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukulungiselela kahle ukuzalwa kwengane, ulwazi lwemithetho yokunakekelwa, ukudla okunomsoco, ukuqina, isisekelo sempilo yengane. Kungashiwo ukuthi lena isayensi yonke, okufanele iqondiswe abazali abahlakaniphile. Kubalulekile ukuhlanganisa imiqondo emibili njengempilo nokuqonda. Ingane kufanele iqondane nempilo ngokulungiselela abazali, lapho indima ebalulekile idlala khona isimo sengqondo esinquma ngokuqondile izimo ezithile zempilo yengane.