Funda uhlobo lomuntu

Bonke abantu bahlukile. Siyaziwa ngokubukeka, ukuphakama, umbala nokusika kwamehlo, indlela yokugqoka nokukhuluma. Konke lokhu kusinika abantu ngabanye futhi kusivumela ukuthi sihluke. Omunye umzuzu ohlukile uyisimo sethu. Kuzo, kuvela, ungafunda uhlobo lomuntu.

Indlela umuntu ahamba ngayo izokwenza kube lula ukuqonda hhayi kuphela izici zakhe zangaphakathi, kodwa futhi nokuthandwa kocansi. Ucwaningo lwesosayensi lufakazela ukuthi lapho umzimba womuntu ukhululekile, ungavinjelwa, khona-ke kusiza ukukhulisa isimo sengqondo, isimo sengqondo esifanele, futhi, ekugcineni, kuholela empumelelweni.

Iseluleko esiwusizo kakhulu sanikezwa i-heroine ye-"Novel Service" Verochka: "Ikhanda liphakanyiswa kancane, ukubukeka kunciphisa kancane, konke kukhululekile esifubeni, amahlombe abuyele emuva, umlenze ulula kusuka emlonyeni ..." Lokho kuyisihluthulelo sempumelelo!

Ziningi kangakanani emigwaqweni esihlangana nabesifazane abathandekayo, abanobuhlungu nababanjwe. Ukuziqhenya kwabo kunzima futhi kunzima. Owesifazane othembekile futhi ophumelelayo, ngokuphambene nalokho, uzohamba (ngisho esitolo!) Nge-easy and flying gait, njenge-model on the podium.

Uma uhlangana nendoda enomdanso wokudansa, uyazi, phambi kwakho uyindoda ephazamiseke futhi ekhohlwa (owesifazane). Akakhumbuli izithembiso zakhe, ukhohlwa lokho owatshele khona, futhi, ngokujwayelekile, akakhumbuli okuningi, ngoba akanandaba. Indoda ene-dancing gait ifana kakhulu nenundu ehamba ngembali eyodwa kuya komunye, ingazi izinhlungu nokudabuka.

Indoda ehamba ngokuthula futhi ephansi, incike ezandleni zayo, itholakala kulabo abathanda ukuhlala emthunzini hhayi ukuheha abantu. Yena, cishe, uvaliwe kuye, akaxoxiswanga futhi akhathazekile. Kodwa-ke, naphezu kwesithombe esinjalo, umuntu onomkhondo ongaqiniseki angaba yinto ekhangayo ngokobulili.

Uma uzwa ukukhwehlela okukhulu kwezithende nokuhamba okukhulu, usuke uhlangene nomuntu osebenzayo, onenhloso, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, umuntu ongavinjelwe. Ngaphandle kwesibindi saphandle "sokuzithemba" kungasifihla isimo se-boor ne-villain. Thatha lula ukuqala ubuhlobo bobulili, kodwa isikhathi eside lo mbambano ngeke uhlale.

Ingabe uzwa ukuthuthumela, ukhathele futhi kunzima? Uyabona izandla zakho phansi bese ikhanda lakho ligobile? Uhlangabezane nendoda eyayikhathele impilo yakhe, yondliwa yizenzakalo nemicabango, futhi akukho lutho olumkhanga futhi aluyithandi. Umlingisi onjalo uyathukuthela embhedeni, odelelekile futhi ecindezelekile.

I-gait esheshayo neyindiza ihlukanisa labo abashisayo, abacindezelayo nabangokomzwelo. Umuntu onjalo unquma konke manje futhi lapha, akalokothi ahlehlise noma yini kamuva. Lo ngumuntu ophumelelayo ochitha isikhathi esiningi emsebenzini, kodwa futhi akakhohlwa ngokuhlala okunethezeka nokuhle. Ezocansini, umuntu onjalo uyogxila ngokwengeziwe ekujabuliseni kwakhe, futhi ophuthumayo futhi oshisayo.

I-slow, "crane" gait izokutshela ukuthi umuntu uyazikhukhumeza kakhulu, noma awunandaba, noma yi-snob noma eyodwa ebandayo. Futhi mhlawumbe konke lokhu ndawonye. Abantu abanjalo banokuzidla, bezigovu. Bacasuliwe nxazonke. Embhedeni nomlingani onjalo ngeke ukwazi ukuthola ubulili obuqhakazile futhi obukhulu. Bathukuthele futhi bangathintana nabo, bazicabangela ukuthi bangabahlakaniphile kakhulu.

Imfucuza engaqiniseki, engaqiniseki akuyona nje kuphela ugogo nomama onobuhlungu, kodwa futhi kumuntu onenkinga eminingi ekuphileni, ikakhulukazi ngemali. Isifiso sakhe esikhulu sokuthi "angene kubantu" simqhubezela ukuzithoba futhi aguqe ngokuthanda "izwe eliphakeme laleli zwe." Ukuphila okuzenzekelayo, okudabukisayo nokudabukisayo ku-grey impilo yansuku zonke kwabulala konke ukuphila nokukhanya kumuntu. Embhedeni, umuntu onjalo, njengomthetho, akakwazi ukulala ocansini.

Ukungahlonishwa nokulinganiswa kwehlukanisa phakathi kwabantu abazethembayo nabazolile. Umuntu onjalo unengqondo futhi akalokothi enze izinqumo ngokusekelwe kwesibindi sesibili. Ziyinkimbinkimbi, eqondakalayo futhi ejwayelekile. Naphezu kobuchule obuningi ngokweqile, umlingani onjalo angaba mnandi kokubili embhedeni nasempilweni.

Uma ubona ukuthi umuntu ubeka izithende zakhe, wazi, ngaphambi kokuba ufunde owazi konke, ubona konke futhi uzwe konke. Unesithakazelo esikhulu emhlabeni wonke nakuwo wonke umuntu ngokukhethekile. Abantu abanjalo, njengombuso, bathanda ukukhuluma "ngalutho", bayakwazi yonke inhlebo, bayathandana nabo, futhi, ngezinye izikhathi, bayathandeka.

Umuntu, lapho ehamba, egoqa izingalo zakhe, unomlingiswa oqondile. Umuntu onjalo uhlukaniswa nemvelo yakhe yokucabanga, umcabango omuhle kanye nenqolobane enkulu yamandla. Ngokuvamile, yonke imizamo yakhe iyohluleka, kodwa akaphelelwa ithemba futhi "uyadala". Imvelo ekhanyekayo nengokomzwelo yomuntu enjalo iyakhanga kumuntu ohlukile ocansini. Konke okulindelekile embhedeni kuzogcwaliseka ngempela, ngoba, phambi kwakho, umculi weqiniso!

Ngokusekelwe kolwazi olulula, emhlanganweni wokuqala ungakha imibono ngomuntu, bheka emphefumulweni wakhe ufunde umlingiswa.