I-pikapery, okungukuthi, amadoda asebeke ubuhlobo nabesifazane ngenhloso yokukopela okusheshayo, bebelokhu bekhona. Ngaphambilini, babizwa ngokuthi "izibalo zokungathembeki" futhi babulawa ngama-duels. Namuhla, leli phepha liphenduke ibhizinisi lonke lebhizinisi, kule ndaba ibhalwe izincwadi eziningi namabhayisikobho. Ama-seminar kanye nokuqeqesha kuqhutshwa, lapho abantu abasha befundiswa ukuthi kulula kangakanani ukujwayele futhi ukudukisa intombazane. Amantombazane abeka imali ukuze aqeqeshe futhi abe ngamehlo wangempela, lapho abantu bobulili bobulili obuhlukile bebona khona futhi bebambelela ... kuye embhedeni.
Ngisho noma ngabe uyintombazane yesimanje ekhululekile, hhayi ophikisana nocansi ngobusuku obulodwa, ubudlelwane ngaphandle kwezibopho, njll, ngokuqinisekile ungamelene nemininingwane yezocansi zakho zokuqala nezokugcina kuyo yonke imininingwane yemifino exoxwa kwizingqungquthela zezingqikithi ekukhethweni. Futhi izithombe zakho ngesitayela se "nude" zihamba nge-Runet. Hhayi, kwabanye, i-optical macho ayiyona nje inhlobonhlobo yesondo ngomqondo wabalingani besikhathi esisodwa, kodwa umdlalo omkhulu ngemiklomelo, abalandeli kanye nezincwadi zephephandaba.
Futhi uma uzimisele ukuba nobuhlobo obude futhi obukhulu, futhi ungahlose ukuba "enye inkanyezi ku-fuselage" yomngane omusha, hlolisise futhi uhlaziye ngokucophelela indlela umqhubi wakho aziziphatha ngayo.
Isisekelo sokwakheka - ukujwayelana nokuthakazelisa. Umfana ovamile uzosondela intombazane ayithandayo futhi, ehlwitha futhi ehlabayo, ebuza "ngingakuthola yini?" I-Pikaper ihlela embukisweni wokuzijwayeza bese ikushaya lapho. Isibonelo, kuzodlula phambi kwakho emadolweni bese ubeka imbali. Noma uzokushaya ngamabomu, bese ekuhudula waya e-cafe ukuze "ulungiselele". Ayikho imishwana ejwayelekile, akukho ukuncoma okujwayelekile ngeke. Ngisho noma wenqaba ngokuphindaphindiwe, uzoqhubeka ehlaya futhi ephikelela ekuqhubekeleni ubudlelwane. Kulokho, noma umthanda kakhulu, noma ungumculi we-pick-up.
Yajwayele omaziyo omusha: ama-pickups alungiswa ku-non-standard futhi afana nokubonisa isithunzi sabo. I-Pikaper-professional ihluke kakhulu kubantu abavamile abazungezile. Usegqoke ngendlela ephathekayo, efakwe ngendlela enhle, engesabi izesekeli ezibheka amehlo. Futhi uma une-torso ehlanjululweyo nama-umunyu ayisishiyagalombili we-press, ngakho-ke, qiniseka ukuthi uzozama ukuyikhombisa kusihlwa kusihlwa.
Enye "i-alar bell", ememezela ukuthi fan wakho pikaper - umnotho wayo. Kulula kakhulu: unamantombazane amaningi, kuso sonke isikhathi ukuchitha imali. Izazi zengqondo zithi uma umuntu enesithakazelo esikhulu entombazaneni, "uzotsha imali imali ebuhlotsheni." Akukhona ngokulinda noma ukufuna izipho ezibizayo ezivela kumuntu. Kodwa uma insizwa ikunika i-chrysanthemum esikhundleni se-bouquet enhle, akazange akhokhele e-cafe, wazimemezela ukuvakashela futhi wafika engenalutho, engabuyeli ekhaya futhi enganikanga imali itekisi, lesi isizathu sokucabanga ngokujulile. Noma uyisimo sokuthatha, noma isisulu somzimba. Kokubili lokho, nokunye - okukhethwa kukho akufanelekile.
Kusukela emizwa yangempela iphothi ayinalutho, konke ukuziphatha kwesoka lakho kuzokwakhiwa ekusebenziseni ukuhlukumeza. Uzozama ukuguqula ikhanda lakho futhi akuqinisekise ngokungahambi kahle kwakho. Indodakazi encane, iyosho ukuthi une-chic figure, umnini wesifuba esincane uzokholelwa ukuthi "ubukhulu abukhathali," intombazane eyisiwula izobiza ngokuthi iyabukeka kahle futhi iqondile. Kodwa la mazwi nezenzo zindlela nje zokuthi "zenzeke" futhi zimenze acabange ngakho ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kungani? Isinyathelo esilandelayo se-manipulator yisimo: uma nginendaba ngawe, yenza lokho engikufunayo. Okusho ukuthi, ukuthatha ucansi nami, akunandaba ukuthi awukavuthi.
Ngokuvamile, njengoba inhloso yomculi we-pick-up ingobulili besikhathi esisodwa, uzothambekela kakhulu ekuthambekeni kuye. Ukufeza kwakhe, uzosebenzisa uhlelo olugcwele ukusebenzisa amasu angokwengqondo, ukucindezela amaphuzu abuthakathaka namaphuzu okuphuza. Khumbula ukuthi indoda evamile ukuphoqa futhi ukwenza ngokwezifiso intombazane yakhe ethandekayo ngeke.
Ngakho-ke, kanjani ukuthi ungaba omunye "umkhawulo ohlwini" lekhasi? Isikhali sethu esiyinhloko sihlanzekile futhi sinokuqonda. Ngamunye wethu uthatha ubuwula ngomqondo wesithupha. Lokhu akusilo ukusola noma i-paranoia. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi umngane wakho uqamba amanga kuwe, akaxoxisani, "ukuzaliswa" - cishe, kunjalo. Futhi kufanele nje uhambe kahle, ake u-Juan afune esinye isisulu.