Indlela yokusekela indoda esimweni esinzima?

Amadoda angamadoda amancane futhi asengozini. Bavele bakhuliswe ngokuhlukile kunabesifazane. Kusukela ebuntwaneni, bathi ukukhala nokukhononda - akulungile ukuthi udinga ukulwa futhi ungayeki. Nakuba amadoda adinga ukwesekwa okunjengebafazi. Uyakhumbula ukuthi kunjani emlandweni waseRussia? U-Vasilisa wasekela - ohlakaniphile womthandi wakhe, wathola inkosi-indoda. Ngakho kanjani ukusekela indoda esimweni esinzima? Uyakhumbula ukuthi wathola kanjani uthando nokuhlonipha umyeni wakhe?
Isigaba esisodwa: ungesabi!
Isimo esinzima singahlangana empilweni yomuntu wonke. Kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi amadoda amaningi kulezi zimo aziphathe ngokuzithoba futhi avinjelwe kunabesifazane. Kungenzeka ukuthi bazitholele ngokwengeziwe kunokuba bakhononde ngokuphila komngane wezomnotho osuvele ucindezelekile - izingane - ngomsebenzi. Kwabesifazane abaningi, lokhu kuziphatha komlingani kubonakala sengathi yizindaba zokuqala ukuthi indoda noma umngane unenkosikazi .... Ungenzi amahlaya angathandeki nezigcawu ezimbi kakhulu zomhawu. I-Vasilisa - Ukuhlakanipha kwezinganekwane akuhambisani nama-hysterics nezigcawu. Ngokuphambene nalokho, wamkhathaza othandekayo wakhe wabuza ngokuthula. Nakhu, ucabanga ukuthi ungamsekela kanjani esimweni esinzima? Ungathukutheli futhi ungethuki, kodwa esikhundleni salokho, zama ukunikeza ukunakekelwa okuthandayo nokunakekelwa, ungafuni ukuthola ukuthi kwenzekani kuye, nokuthi ngabe awukwazi yini ukumsiza noma yini.
Imithetho emibili: yakha ubuhle
Bonke abafana abafana noVasilisa uMnumzane ohlakaniphile owokuqala e-bathhouse wakhuphuka futhi wadla ukudla okuphelele, wabe esebuza imibuzo. Ngakho usekela othandekayo uma enenkinga emsebenzini. Msize abe nomuzwa wokuthi ubaba nomyeni othandekayo. Lungiselela okuthile okumnandi, isibonelo, i-patties ayithandayo neklabishi. Ukucindezeleka okubangelwa isimo esinzima, kuzosiza ukususa umculo omnandi namakhandlela ukudla. Amaconsi ambalwa amafutha a-lavender aphunga, afakwe usawoti wokugeza, kanye nokugeza okufudumele ekugcineni kuzophumula umuntu wakho. Umndeni uhamba epaki elikude nekhaya uzokwazi futhi ukususa isimo, ngendlela, ngokukhululekile! Nangu oshade naye futhi uphazamiseke emicabangweni edabukisayo. Isixazululo esisha esingakwazi ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga sizovela ngokuqinisekile! Ukuze banikeze ukuzithemba ngokuzethemba ngamakhono abo, umshaye ngehembe lakhe eliyintandokazi ngaphambi komsebenzi noma usize ukuthayipha kukhompyutha umbiko obaluleke kakhulu kuye. Ngemuva kwalokho, usuzuza ngokushesha kunalokho?
Isimiso sesithathu: sibheka izixazululo ezingajwayelekile
Ingabe isimo esinzima sihlobene nomngane? Indlela yokusekela indoda kulokhu? Into eyinhloko ukuthi uqaphele ukuphawula. Zama ukulimaza umyeni wakho, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ungamvikeli ngaphezu komngane wakhe. Uma indoda yakho ibanda, mnikeze inketho yomshuwalense nomngane wakhe - ngokwesibonelo, iya kwibha yezemidlalo nemindeni. Umdlalo ophawulekayo uzohlanganisa abalingisi kanye nokusiza ukususa ingxabano ephakama phakathi kwabo. Khumbula, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele futhi ungawudluli. Ukuzama ngokweqile ukubuyisana nabangane kungabangela umhawu ngomuntu wakho.

Kodwa-ke, esimweni ngasinye esiyinkimbinkimbi kukhona iresiphi yokuziphatha exhomeke esimweni ngokwawo, izimfanelo zomyeni wakho noma umngane wakho. Kodwa kukhona izinto okufanele zigcinwe kunoma yisiphi isimo esinzima. Okokuqala, hlala uphile. Lokhu kuzosiza ukuthi kungabangela ukuxabana, futhi kuyoba lula kumngane wakho, umyeni noma umthandi ukuzola. Okwesibili, funda ukunikeza umuntu wakho ukunakekelwa ngokwanele. Lokhu kuzosiza ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukuqaphela isimo esinzima, ukusekela othandekayo wakho, kumsize aqalane nesimo. Khumbula - ama-serials, amaforamu kanye nentombi, uma kunjalo, ingalinda.