Indlela yokufundisa ingane ukulala ngokwehlukana

Ukulala, ukulala, izinqubo zokubeka ingane ngayinye ngayinye. Konke kuncike eminyakeni yobudala, ubuntu, uhlamvu nobumnene bomntwana, isimo emndenini, impilo yengane kanye nesitayela sokubeletha.

Izingane eziningi ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-3 zidinga uxhumano oluningi ngokomzimba, zithula kuphela lapho zizwa ukufudumala komzimba kamama, ukuphefumula. Ngakho-ke, lezi zidingo zidinga ukufundiswa ukulala ngaphambi kweminyaka engama-3, okungukuthi, kusukela eminyakeni lapho umntwana edala ukuzethemba.

Isitayela sokukhuliswa emndenini sithinta nemikhuba yokulala. Isibonelo, uma umama egcizelela ukuthi ingane kumele ilele yedwa, kodwa ugogo akahambisani, ukuthuthumela, ukubeka ingane isikhathi eside, ukubeka naye, ingane izohlala icela ukuba iwele nonina futhi ilahle isikhala sayo.

Uma usenesiqiniseko sokuthi isikhathi sesifikile futhi ingane yakho ingalala ngokushesha, ulale yedwa futhi ulale isikhathi eside, udinga ukwenza izinto ezimbalwa eziyisisekelo:

1. Ngaphambi kokulala ngeke ukudlala imidlalo esebenzayo.
2. Ingane kufanele ikwazi ukuthi uzimisele futhi uma utshele ukuthi uzolala yedwa, khona-ke kumelwe ufeze lesi sithembiso.
3. Ngaphambi kokulala, landela ngokuqinile izinyathelo ezifanayo (okubizwa ngokuthi umkhuba ngaphambi kokulala) - isibonelo, siyahamba ukugeza, ukugqoka ama-pajamas, ukuzwakalisa ukuzitholela amathoyizi, ukubeka eceleni kwedoli lakho ozithandayo, funda inganekwane eyodwa encane, uvale emgqonyeni, vula amehlo ethu.
4. Hlala embhedeni ngesikhathi esifanayo.
5. Isimo sengqondo esifanele esibuyeni njengendawo yokulala kubaluleke kakhulu kumntwana, ikakhulukazi uma nonke nithenga izitsha zelineni ngokudweba kwezingane, nibuthana ndawonye.
6. Hlala kancane, uhlangothi, ubambe isibambo.

Isikhathi sokuqala kuyoba nzima, kodwa uma uzohlanganisa zonke izenzo futhi wenze ngokucacile, emva kwesikhathi (amasonto amabili ngokuvamile) ingane iqala ukulala yedwa.

Omunye umgomo wukuthi wonke umuntu emndenini usethe ngendlela efanayo nawe, bonke balandela imithetho yokulala nokubusa okunzima. Endlini kukhona umoya ozolile futhi onobungane.

Kuthiwani uma ingane iphethe amaphupho amabi?

Izizathu zalokhu ukuziphatha kwengane zingase zibe eziningana. Lesi simo emndenini (izingxabano, ukuhlukanisa, ukuhlukunyezwa phakathi kwabantu abashade, ukugula noma ukufa kwezihlobo), kanye nesimo somlingiswa, ubuntu bomntwana, ukuhlanganiswa kwezimo zokuphila ezingathandeki. Ingane ingase ibhekane nokucindezeleka okuningi, ingesabisa okuthile, futhi ungase ungayiqapheli. Ukulala okungapheli, ukuphumula kungase kube umphumela we-neurosis.

Hlola isimo emndenini - mhlawumbe kukhona okwenzekayo okuletha ulwazi lomntwana, ukuthi ingqondo yakhe ayikwazi ukuvuselelwa futhi ivikeleke. Thola ukuthi impela ingane kanye nomlingisi noma isimo kungadingeka sikutshele lokho ingane ehlangabezana nakho emini.

Ngaphambi kokuba ushaye i-alamu, zama ukuzithulisa, ngoba ingane ingapheli ukuziphatha ephusheni, ukukhathazeka okuba ngokwengeziwe kuba umama walokho okwenzeka kumntanakhe. Ngokushesha nje lapho ingane ivukela ebusuku, yifinyelele kuye ngokuthula, uhlasele phezu kwekhanda, uhlabe amazwi amnandi, thatha izandla zakho bese uthumela. Kubafana, kubalulekile ukuvikela ubaba, ngakho-ke khuluma nobaba wakho ukuze anake kakhulu ingane. Nika ingane ithuba lokudlala kakhulu ntambama, njengoba umsebenzi wokudlala onganele ungase ube esinye sezizathu zokukhathazeka.

Indlela yokuqeqesha omkhulu ukulala

Kunenkinga enjalo: abazali abaningi bakhononda ngokuthi ingane iya esikoleni maduze, futhi isebenza ekamelweni labazali bayo. Ngokujwayelekile lokhu sekuvele kuyinkinga ngokwemvelo yabazali ngokwabo. Ingane ijabulela ububele bakho nokuntuleka kokubekezela, ikakhulukazi lapho ukwesaba nokukhathazeka kwengane kungabonwa.

Ngakho-ke, ukuze ufundise ingane ukuba ilele yedwa, futhi ngisho nasendlini yakhe, udinga:

1. Bonisa ukuphikelela futhi uthi "intombazane (umfana) usuvele unomningi kakhulu (oh) futhi udinga ukuziphatha njengomuntu omdala, ngakho sizoqala ngokuthi uzolala yedwa (futhi) kuphela ekamelweni lakho."
2. Ukuze wenze lokhu, yiqiniso, udinga kancane kancane, kodwa ngokuqhubekayo, ukucacisa ukuthi uzimisele ngokuqinile. Thembisa ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi, ngokwesibonelo, ngoMgqibelo, ingane izolala nawe. Kusukela, mhlawumbe, ingane ayinakho ukuxhumana ngokwanele nabazali bayo emini, futhi uzama ukukhokhela lokhu ngale ndlela.
3. Kwezinye izindawo zomsebenzi wengane, omunye kufanele futhi akhuthaze ukuzimela kanye nokubonakaliswa kwabantu abadala, umsebenzi. Qinisekisa ukudumisa ngakho.

Cabanga ukuthi awunaki iminyaka yengane, ucabanga ukuthi ingaphansi kweminyaka engamanje. Phela, izingane zivame ukuzizwa zihambisana nesikhathi abazali abagcizelela ngaso.

Shiya isibani sasebusuku, sinike ithoyizi. Uma ingane ifika kuwe ebusuku, imyise emgodleni, uhlale kancane, kodwa naye akufanele ushiye.

Uma wenza konke kancane kancane, kahle futhi ubonise ukubekezela, khona-ke iphupho elihle embhedeni wakho lizoguqulwa.

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