Le nkinga ayiyona entsha, kodwa ngisho nokuphambene kudala kakhulu. Kodwa kubonakala sengathi esikhathini sethu akubhekwa njengenkinga, abhale phansi, bakhulume cishe, abakhulumi noma abalahla. Ngikhuluma ngani? Anginakho okumele ngikwenze, ngikhuluma ngakho? Mayelana nomfazi noma intombazane engakatshelanga umama ebusheni bakhe: "Ndodakazi, ngiyanincenga, ungalokothi uthintane namadoda ashadile, ikakhulukazi nalabo abanezingane, awukwazi ukwakha injabulo yakho emanzini omunye!"
Futhi la maantombazane ajwayele ukujwayelana namadoda ashadile, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, akunandaba ukuthi ungubani, uvele nje ethandana ubuso bakhe, nokuthi uyamkhathalela, ngoba uyazi enye i-aphorism: "Umfazi akulona udonga, ungakwazi ukuhambisa, futhi nezingane zenzani? Akukho lutho, ungumntwana, uyisiphukuphuku, awunangqondo, uyadutshulwa, ugovu. Futhi abantu basebenzise, bayathinta ukuthi intombazanyana iyamthanda, futhi amadoda kulawa ma-quadrangles asekhulile isikhathi eside. Asikhulumi ngo "daddies", abavame ukuhlala emndenini, kanti izingane zabo sezilokhu zikhulile.
Kubonakala sengathi konke lokhu kulula. Imibhangqwana esemisha ibonisa uthando emishadweni, futhi lapho impilo iqala, ngaso sonke isikhathi umuntu angathandi into ethile, futhi into embi kakhulu ukuthi umbhangqwana oshadile awukwazi ukuhlala phansi futhi uxoxe ngenkinga. Ngamunye walabo ababili abazicabangayo noma bacabanga, uzama ukubalekela inkinga nokuthi isikhathi sibonisa kanjani - yedwa.
Lapha uqala ukungafuni ukuya ekhaya - akekho olinde, angajabuli, baqala ukuthola ubuhlobo, futhi amadoda angama-sex weak, afuna ukuthola ubuhlobo, ukuthwala umthwalo wemfanelo. Ngakho-ke, lapho kwenzeka ukujwayela intombazane ethile, akayicabangi. Okokuqala, wayengacabangi ukuphindiselela umkakhe ovumelekile - wayesekhathazeka, ngakho wayengakhathazeki - kwakungenzeka ukuphumula kwesinye isakhiwo, kwenye inkampani, wabe eseyeka ukuza ekhaya futhi ngeke aziphendulele.
Umkami, ngempela, uye wakuqonda konke isikhathi eside, futhi abantu abalungile bayothola - bayositshela, kodwa kunjengokuthi uyilungele, unelisekile, ungowesifazane okhululwa, ngezinye izikhathi uthola okuningi kunomyeni wakhe izikhathi eziningana, okwenza kube lula ngaye, ingane sekuyisikhathi eside sekuyisikhathi sokubeletha ... Kodwa empeleni, owesifazane olahliwe angazwa ubuhlungu obukhulu, ngoba naye wayemthanda. Ekujuleni komphefumulo wakhe, uyamzonda umhlukumezi wakhe, uyamthanda konke okubi kakhulu, ufisa ukuthi ngelinye ilanga leli razluchnitsa lalizoba endaweni yakhe, njll. Futhi konke lokhu ekuphileni kuvame ukwenzeka, kodwa umjikelezo namadoda ashadile akayeki, ngani?
Kuyisihawu kulo mbuthano kuphela izingane. Le ndoda nomkayo bangabantu abangaziwa, ngisho noma behlala ndawonye kuze kube ngumshado wesiliva noma wegolide, bahlala bengabazi. Futhi kuphela abantwana abahlanganyela nabo, ngoba ngamunye womshado waba umama nobaba kumntwana, owaba yisihlobo segazi kubo bobabili babo. Manje lo mntwana uhlangabezana nakho konke, ufuna ukuhlala nomama wakhe nobaba, uyabathanda bobabili, kodwa akekho owambuza. Futhi kuhle, uma abazali benokuhlakanipha okwanele ukuba bangahlukanisi ingane, hhayi ukugxila esimweni, ikakhulukazi njengoba izingane ezingeni lethu zingathiwa "zithuthukile", ngezinye izikhathi azidingeki ukuthi zichaze noma yini, ziqonda konke, futhi bathande abazali babo ngendlela efanayo, futhi ngokulinganayo zama ukuxhumana nabo bobabili. Upapa uletha ingane emndenini wakhe omusha, uma ngingasho njalo.
Ngokuvamile kaningi kubhalisi, amadoda avame ukugijimela, futhi mhlawumbe akwenzi. Le ntombazane ihambisana nesihloko esingcono kakhulu somfazi womphakathi, ezindaweni ezimbi kakhulu, futhi empeleni kwakuhle kakhulu - "inkosikazi"! Ngakho ngubani ophumelele ngemva kwakho konke? Ngifuna ngempela ukwazi impendulo yalombuzo kusuka kumhlanganyeli ngamunye walesi sigaba, noma kunalokho unxantathu. Sishiya ingane yedwa, yinkimbinkimbi kunabo bonke, kufanele iguqule, iphendule imibuzo yomama kamnandi, ngemuva kokuba ivela kumapapa.
Kodwa ngeke ngikholelwe le ntombazane-razluchnitsu, uma ethi ulungile. Akakwazi ukwenza okuhle, akwazi ngisho nokuhle nokubi, uma kusukela ekuqaleni wayekulungele isenzo esinjalo - ukushaya umndeni womunye umuntu. Manje usakhulile, isikhathi sokuzijabulisa sesidlulile, futhi manje naye unokuphila okuvamile kwansuku zonke nale ndoda, kodwa yena akavumelani, noma ngabe konke akulungile neze. Futhi lo muntu owake wahlala naye, ngokushesha noma kamuva, lapho beqala ukuxabana, okungenani kanye, kodwa ngokuqinisekile uzomhlambalaza: "Uphule umndeni wami!" Ngoba engqondweni yakhe lo mndeni wokuqala uzoba njalo umuzwa kuye usalondolozwa ngumntwana amthandayo.
Bantombazane, ake sibuyele ezikhathini zikagogo nogogo, lapho izenzo ezinjalo zingenakwenzeka. Lapho abesifazane abanjalo bedelela ngisho nezihlobo zakhe, lapho ukukhulisa ekupheleni akuzange kuvumele ukuba kwenziwe kanjalo! Kuye kuphi? Uma uNkulunkulu ekunika indodakazi, ungakhohlwa ukumtshela ukuthi angeke abe nobuhlobo namadoda ashadile, uke wakuqonda lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho, kepha akukho okungahle kulungiswe.
Yenza amadodakazi akho ajabule, athande, futhi akekho onesizathu sokuwalandela ukusho into embi, okubi nokuhlukumeza! Qaphela uthando!