Idolobha lasekhaya, kwakuphi umuzwa wendlu?

Umuzi wendabuko, lapho ukuzwa kwekhaya kulahlekile khona, ngoba kusukela ebuntwaneni uzibheka, cishe "i-patriot esemqoka" yedolobha lakho lakubo. Uma othile engawuthandi lapha, ngase ngilungele ukuphikisana ngokuqinile, ukuvikela idolobha lakithi. "Kodwa awuzange ube nesikhathi sokukubona kahle! Hamba emigwaqweni endala phakathi nendawo - sinomoya othule kangaka! Ikheli kulabo abangabazi ngombuzo - nonke nizochaza ngakho ngomusa! »Ube mnandi lapha, njengokungathi kukhona izingubo zendlu ezikhululekile. Unendawo enezintandokazi - amagceke athule nezivande zomphakathi, lapho ungena khona emizweni ekhungathekile. Futhi kwakukhona umuzwa wendlu lapho uzizwa ungcono futhi ungaqonda imizwa yakho. Ngokuvamile, njengoba bethi, "izindonga zasiza" ... Futhi wawuthandeka kakhulu emzini wakho wendawo kanye nomuzwa wendlu kuwo.

Futhi manje idolobha lomdabu , lapho wakhulela khona, seliba kude ngokuphelele kuwe. Ngempela eminyakeni embalwa! Njengokuthi umuntu oseduze ushintshile kakhulu kangangokuthi awusamtholi, futhi esikhundleni sokumsekela nokumvikela, uhlaselwa ngenye indlela engalungile. Awuyena omunye walabo ababeka icala labo abasanda kufika kuzo zonke izinsizi, becabanga ukuthi bangabantu bokuqala. Kodwa ungachaza kanjani okwenzekayo? Uhamba edolobheni lakho lakubo, lapho ulahlekelwe khona umuzwa wendlu - awukwazi ukukuqonda wena. Manje kukhona inqwaba yezimoto, izixuku, ukuxubana, abantu ... Ngaphambi kwalokho, wayazi omakhelwane ngabanye nangegama. Abantu bavakashele, babelane ngenjabulo nezinsizi. Futhi manje "ikhandlela" eliphakeme liye lahlanganiswa endlini yakho - kanti igceke seliphenduke uhlobo oluthile lwe "pandemonium yaseBabiloni". Akekho obingelela noma ubani, athatha ifenisha endala ngqo emibhedeni yembali ... Abantu bazizwa belahlekile ekhaya. Kubo, lokhu kuyindlu ehostela enkulu, lapho konke kungokwesikhathi futhi kungabikho muntu.

Uhambe edolobheni lakubo , wangena kwenye yezindawo "eziyimfihlo", lapho ungazange ube khona isikhathi eside. Futhi wayethukile! Lapho kwakukhona ama-lindens amadala namabhentshi, manje kukhona "ibhokisi" elibi kakhulu, futhi emgwaqweni omncane, lapho kwakukude kakhulu ukuzulazula, ungafaki kakade eceleni komgwaqo ... Futhi lena okokuqala ucabanga ukuthi kufanele ushiye kusukela emzini wakubo, lapho inzwa yendlu yalahleka khona. Luhlobo luni lokuphila lokhu, lapho usuku lonke luphenduka ukucindezeleka? Ukuqala ukusebenza kungumdlali wangempela. Kufika kathathu, izikhathi ezinhlanu uxabana ... Esikhundleni sokuhlala njalo nokucabangela - i-clock-clock iphikisana. Njengokungathi uzungeze umncintiswano lapho wonke umuntu egijimela khona - futhi angakhathaleli labo abaseduze. Ugcwele amandla. Uqonda ukuthi izinkinga zibaluleke kakhulu, kodwa kuwe, okwenzekayo nxazonke kufaniswa nokulahlekelwa umuntu onenjongo kuwe.

Abangani bakho bathuthele emzaneni bese bakubiza. Kodwa uyesaba ithemba lokushintsha ngokuphawulekayo indlela yokuphila, umsebenzi, imikhuba, umbuthano womphakathi ... Noma kunjalo, ungumntwana wedolobha elikhulu. Ujwayele ukududuza, ufuna ukuya embukisweni namakhonsathi. Unomama nabangani abasondelene nabo lapha. Ungumlingisi oqaphele. Kunzima kuwe "ukuhoxisa endaweni yodlame". Ngamafuphi, uzizwa unjengezihlalo ezimbili - futhi empilweni yakudala awunamathele, futhi isiqalo esisha sesabekayo ... Indlela yokuphinde uzwele umuzwa ekhaya?
Konke lokhu kungikhumbuza ihlaya elidala lapho ukunganeliseki kubuza i-agent yezokuvakasha: "Unayo yini enye i-globe?" Uma ubalekela izinkinga zendawo manje, endaweni entsha, cishe uzothola abanye. Kubonakala sengathi awunaso isikhathi esihle kakhulu sokuphila kwakho.

Ngakho-ke ukukhathazeka , ukuthukuthela nesifiso sokubalekela endaweni ethile. Ukubuyisa umuzwa wendlu kuyinkqubo ende futhi enzima. Udinga ukuqala ngokuxazulula izinkinga eziqoqiwe. Uma uletha umyalo empilweni yakho yomuntu siqu, ukuphazamiseka kwedolobha kuzophela kakhulu ukucasula, nokulahlekelwa kwezindawo zakho ozithandayo ngeke kutholakale ukubaluleka kwendawo yonke. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukuqonda kuzofika ukuthi umuntu akufanele abalekele, kodwa kuze kube yilapho engakwazi ukuvikela indlu yakhe.