Uthando lokuphila

Ukuthanda ukuphila ngaphandle kokuqaphela ukuthi lokhu akuyona umsebenzi olula futhi ongajabuli. Lena inqubo enzima neyesikhathi eside yokucwaninga umphefumulo nomzwelo wakho. Futhi indlela yokuphila ngayinye izoba yinto ekhethekile futhi eyedwa.

Ngamunye wethu uvela engaziwa futhi uya engaziwa, umsebenzi wethu uzokwenza ukuthi lolu hambo olufushane lube lubala futhi lugcwele uthando. Into esemqoka akumele ukwesabe futhi uqiniseke ngamakhono akho, uphonsa ukwesaba, ukhule imibala ekhanyayo, ungahlali endaweni encane yokuzihlukanisa nokuphulukisa. Uzibuza ukuthi kungani izinto zihamba kahle, imali ayinakwanele kunoma yini, umkhuhlane uyashintshwa yinhloko, okungeyona emfushane, inikeza indlela yezilonda noma i-colitis? Uchungechunge lwehluleka, kubonakala sengathi ngeke luphele. Uqinisile. Kodwa kungani kufanele kuphele uma ungenzi lutho ngalutho? Ngisho into elula ukuzithanda wena nokuphila kwakho njengoba kunjalo.

Ake sicabange mayelana nokuhlangana kwamaphuzu amaningana okuzokusiza uqonde ukuthi akukho lutho oluyinkimbinkimbi futhi olwesabekayo ekuziqondeni wena.


Mayelana nokuphila nokufa

Cabanga kaningi ngokufa. Ukuze uqale impilo evamile, yebo, futhi ungaziphonseli ekucindezelekeni. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuhlala hhayi njengoba bephila ngaphambili, futhi netak, njengoba wonke umuntu enza. Ukuze uphile ngokoqobo, ukusebenzisa amathuba akho angu-100%.

Yeka ukuthi kulungile kanjani ukuthi impilo ayikho ngaphandle komngane othembekile wokufa. Kubonakala ngathi singenakwenzeka, ukuhlanya okungenakubekezelelwa, akukho ukufa. Kungaba yini okushiwo ukuthi kwakungeyona yokufa? Ngokuvumelana ngokuhambisana ngokuhambisana, zihlukile kakhulu, zifanelana kahle. Cabanga ngeso lengqondo ukuthi i-onikak ingemaphethelo amabili noma amabhange olasha, ekubeni yiyona nto eyosho ukuthi uthole ukuthokoza okuphakade.

Kuyini kulokhu kwalasha, nokuthi ungazitholi kanjani kwezinye izidakamizwa? Abantu abaningi bangaphakathi, nakuba bebukeka bejwayelekile. Amehlo ahlaselayo, amehlo angenalutho nobuso obungenakuqhathaniswa bufakazi obuqondile. Kuzo, ukuphila kwaqedwa, umoya ovuthayo ongazibuyisela lemiphefumulo awukwazi ukungena kwigobolondo lensimbi. Uma umoya wezothando ungakwazi ukukufinyelela, ngakho konke okuphilayo nokuhle kuqala ukufa.

Njengoba nje kukhona ubudlelwane obuqinile phakathi kokuphila nokufa, futhi hhayi ukuhlukaniswa, kukhona njalo uthando nokuphila njalo. Ukuze siphile futhi singazi ukuthi uthando luni - selufile kakade, lokhu yisimo lapho umuntu engafuni ukuphuma embhedeni ekuseni futhi engafuni ukulala emini, ukuhlangabezana ne-sunrises nokubona ilanga.

Ngomzuzwana onjalo kukhona ukungabi nhlobo kokuchitha konke futhi isikhathi sokufa kwangempela siza, lapho ukufa kwangokwenyama kuyingozi kakhulu.

Ubuhlungu budala impilo nothando ngaye.

Ukuphila kuyisimo esihle. Uma sizalwa, kuyabuhlungu lapho sifa, futhi sibuhlungu kakhulu, asifuni ukuthanda, ngoba sesaba ukuzwa ubuhlungu. Ngezenzo ezinjalo sabe sesaba ukuhlala. Kancane kancane wagqugquzela i-cocoon ezinkingeni zokuhlupheka, ukudweba ngezifo, ukwehluleka, izinsizi nokudabuka.

Akufanele senze i-sootvosprinimat nxazonke, kumele sifunde ukuhlala okwamanje futhi sithathe okwenzekayo ngenhliziyo evaliwe futhi ngaphandle kokwesaba kokwesaba. Omunye kufanele afunde ukuthi angesabi ukuzwa. Ukuphila konke imizwa, konke ukuphila kuyisiyingi sokuhleka, ukudabuka, ukudabuka, izinyembezi, ukudumazeka nokujabula. Uhleka, ngakho uhlala, uyakhala - usaphila, ungazizwa, futhi lokhu kuyigugu kunanoma yini enye. Yamukela konke okwenzekayo ngenhloko ephakanyisiwe, thatha impilo ngezandla ezivulekile futhi ubone ukuthi umkhuba wokuguqula impilo ube yinkinga eqhubekayo izokushiya kuze kube phakade. Futhi kuyoba nezinkulungwane eziningi zezinsuku ezigcwele injabulo ekupheleni.

Asiyena muntu kuze kube yilapho sifunda ukuthanda impilo

Yebo, sinokuhlushwa kancane ngemibuzo ebuhlungu, futhi sizokwenza iziphetho ezinengqondo ndawonye futhi sizuze ngokuthanda thina nokuphila. Kubantu abanobuthakathaka kunazo zonke nabantu ababuthakathaka, ake sizame ukukhombisa izibonelo zezinzuzo zalolu thando hhayi thina kuphela, kodwa ngomuntu wonke.

Ake sikhumbule ukuthi bangaki abanomqondo omama onawo, ukuthi bangaki babo phakathi kwethu manje, bangaki abangaphezulu abazozalwa. Ukuphila kwabo kuyimishini. Umgomo ukusisiza ezikhathini ezinzima ngemiphefumulo yethu. Physicists, amakhemikhali, izazi zezinto eziphilayo, abaculi, odokotela, onjiniyela, othisha, abahloli nabaqambi. Bonke babethanda impilo ngokuqondile, futhi baqonda kahle ukuthi abanye babengathandi kanjani, ngoba okuningi kuwo wonke okuhle kwalethwa kuwo ukuze kuwukhanyise abaphikisayo kakhulu. Odokotela bebelokhu beqhubeka befuna imithi yokucindezeleka kanye nokuphazamiseka kwemizwa, esiyithola ngokungafuni ukuphila. Abasunguli bakhela i-new futhi bakhuthaze ukuthi yini etholakalayo ukuze sijabule okungenani izinto ezincane ezinjalo, ngoba asiqondi ukuthi sinikezwe okuningi kusukela ngesikhathi esibona kuqala umhlaba.

Uthando enhliziyweni

Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi isibambiso esikhulu sokuvumelana nezwe sibonakaliso sayo esifanele enhliziyweni yakho. Umfanekiso wasendulo, kulesi sibonelo, uzokusiza ukuqonda amagama.

Lapho edlula i-oasis encane ehlane, le nsizwa yazinqumela ukuyobona lapho iphinde iphuze amanzi. Indoda endala yayihlezi emgodleni wamanzi, futhi, ngemva kokudakwa, lo mfana waqala ukubuza ukuthi yikuphi abantu abahlala khona. Lapho ebuzwa le nsizwa, lo mdala waphendula lo mbuzo: "Yiziphi abantu abahlala lapho uhlala khona ngaphambili?". Ngaphandle kokucabanga, lo mfana utshele konke ngo-tehlyudyah, okushiwo kamuva. Bachaza abalingiswa babo ababi futhi abesabekayo, babatshela ukuthi baqamba amanga futhi babe nomona. Khona-ke le ndoda endala yamqinisekisa ukuthi uzothola abantu abanjalo kule-oasis. Ngosuku olufanayo, enye insizwa edlula i-oasis yambingelela futhi yaphendukela kumuntu omdala ngombuzo ofanayo, lapho, njengoba esikhathini esidlule, le ndoda endala yathi: "Futhi hlobo luni lwabantu abahlala lapho uhlala khona?" Le nsizwa edabukisayo nosizi emehlweni akhe yatshela indlela abantu ababephila ngayo ngaphambili, ukuthi babenomusa kanjani wonke umuntu nokuthi banobuhlobo kanjani. Ukumomotheka, le ndoda endala yaqinisekisa ukuthi izothola abantu abafanayo lapha.

Insizwa ethile, eyayiphuza amanzi usuku lonke, lapho izwa izingxoxo ezimbili, yamangala ngokubuza ukuthi inganikeza izimpendulo ezihluke ngokuphelele kumbuzo ofanayo. Ngemva kokucabanga, endala-inhliziyo yethu iyindalo emangalisayo, sibona kuphela lokho esikuthwalayo. Umuntu akakwazi ukuthola lutho olungcono kuphi, uma engakwazi ukuthola indawo enjalo kuzo zonke izindawo azivakashele.

Sivame ukuzwa ukuvezwa kokuphela kwezwe. Abantu abasabalalisa lokhu, babona kuphela ubumnyama lapho bona ngokwabo baya khona. Kodwa uma ukholwa enye ingcweti, i-Einstein eyaziwa kakhulu - akukho ubumnyama nhlobo, ubumnyama buyinto engekho ukukhanya. Kithina, lokhu kukhanya kuwuthando. Ukudla konke, okungenamkhawulo, onomusa nokuhloniphekile.

Uthando kuphela emhlabeni luwukuphela kokuphela kokungafi. Futhi ngenkathi iphakathi kwethu, uma nje ikhona, kukhona ukuphila.