Iseluleko somuntu wonke ukuthi ungenza kanjani iholidi lijabulise futhi likhunjulwe kunoma yimuphi umuntu osekhulile, alas, ayikho. Emva kwakho konke, umuntu omdala omdala, unamandla ngokwakhe. Ngakho-ke, ukugubha komndeni kufanele kuhlelwe, kugxile esimweni somsunguli womkhosi. Okubalulekile kuyakuba izipho ezibizayo netafula elicebile - "ukuze konke kufane nabantu." Futhi enye ngenxa yezipho ezibizayo iyocasuka kuphela: "O, kungani beyichitha, kodwa angiyidingi lutho ..." Omunye ugogo uzokuphuza utshwala futhi ahlabelele ngaphansi kwe karaoke, futhi omunye owesifazane osekhulile uyojabula uma endlini yakhe umnakekeli wezinwele uzofika futhi amenze abe nekhanda elihle kakhulu eholidini elifanele kubantu asebekhulile.
Lapho uhlela umkhosi womndeni , cabanga ngeminyaka yabantu asebekhulile. Kunzima ngathi ukwamukela iqiniso lokuthi abazali baqala ukudala - bayakhohlwa, basheshe bakhathele, bangathandi izinto ezintsha nezinkathazo, bakhubekele izintambo noma ngokuzumayo baqala ukuba abangenangqondo, njengabantwana. Ungakhubeki ngalokhu. Ukuzijabulisa ngaphambi kweholidi akuzange kubangele ukuthula kwengqondo, kungcono ukuxwayisa kusengaphambili mayelana nomkhosi ohleliwe.
Ngokuvamile abazukulu bayazi kangako ukuthi ugogo nomkhulu babo bahlala kanjani ngaphambi kokuthatha umhlalaphansi. Ngakho-ke, ukulungiswa kweholide kufanele kuqale ngokuqoqwa kolwazi. Kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka, thola ngezidalwa zezihlobo zakho ezikhulile: lapho ugogo wazalelwa khona futhi wakhula, lokho abazali bakhe abakwenzayo. Wathini futhi kuphi lapho ehlangana nomyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo. Wasebenza njengomkhulu, lapho akhonza khona. Funda ukuthi izenzakalo ezithinta izwe lonke zithinte kanjani isiphetho sabathandekayo bakho. Bheka izithombe zakudala ndawonye, usize ukuzincisha unyaka nesezihloko, uma kungakenziwa kakade. Yiba nomcabango futhi ucebile. Wonke umuntu empilweni uye waba nezenzakalo ezibuhlungu noma ezingathandeki kuye ukuba azikhumbule. Kodwa wonke umuntu unento eyaziqhenya ngayo: isibonelo, waphumelela esikoleni ngezindondo, wayesebenza ngokudubula, wabamba iqhaza kwi-KVN yokuqala. Izitifiketi, ama-gratitude, ama-diploma, imiklomelo kanye nemindeni kaningi zihlala endlini, kungabikhohliwe. Buza izihlobo zakho ukuthi yiziphi izingoma abazilalelayo, yiziphi ama-movie abaya kuzo izikhathi eziningi abafaka ngazo itafula ngesikhathi sobusha. Kuphela ngale ndlela uzokwazi ukuthi yini okumjabulisayo othandekayo!
Amathiphu upheke nodokotela
Lapho uhlela iholidi, qiniseka ukuthi ucabangela isimo sempilo yomuntu osekhulile. Nikeza ukulungiselela kwengqondo yomkhosi. Xoxa nogogo nomkhulu isimo ohlelayo, imenyu nobude bomcimbi. Abantu bakho asebekhulile kufanele bakwazi ukuzilungiselela ngokuziphatha, babuthele amandla. Akunakwenzeka ukuvumela lokho injabulo ejabulisayo, ebangelwa ukunakekelwa okuvamile, iphelile enkingeni ye-hypertensive. Lapha, ngisho nokumangala okungase kube yingozi kungaba yingozi, futhi izinyembezi zokubonga nezothando ziphenduka ukulele noma, ngisho nakakhulu, ukucindezeleka. Abantu asebekhulile basheshe bakhathele, kodwa bavame ukujabha ukukubonisa. Ungazibeka esimweni esihlazo: qedela iholidi ngaphambi kokuba umkhosi womkhosi uphume amandla. Uma kukho okungaphezu kwezingu-70, kubalulekile ukubonisana nodokotela ozokwenza ukuthi usebenze kanjani ukulayisha ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo.
Kubalulekile ukwenza imenyu efanele
Umuntu osebekhulile, owamisela ukudla okuqinile, kuyoba ukuhlambalaza ukuhlala etafuleni lokugubha, ungakwazi ukunambitha kakhulu izitsha. Futhi uma utshwala kungavunyelwe, kungcono ukuba mncane, ubhekisele enhlalakahleni yakho siqu, ukuba neqembu letiye. Ingabe umphumela wesigameko unesifo sikashukela? Vala itafula usebenzisa imikhiqizo yokudla kuphela. Namuhla, abantu abanesifo sikashukela bakhiqiza amaqebelengwane amnandi, amakhukhi namaswidi wonke umuntu angathanda.
Iholidi ngokusho kweskripthi
Futhi manje sinikeza izimo eziningana zamaholide afanele kubantu asebekhulile, okungaba yisiqalo somcabango wakho.
Izithombe zomlando womndeni
Iholidi lisekelwe ezikhathini ezibalulekile empilweni yomsunguli womkhosi futhi kuhilela ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe. Umkhosi kufanele wenziwe emndenini omncane omndeni, kodwa ngokubamba iqhaza kuzo zonke izizukulwane zomndeni namalungu ayo amasha - umalokazana, umalokazana. Phakathi nendawo yokubheka kubaluleke kakhulu emlandweni wegogo noma umkhulu, okuvezwe ngezithombe nemibhalo. Izobukeka iphrofayli enkulu yekhompyutha, iboniswe kusikrini se-TV. Kulokhu, izithombe nemibhalo kuzodingeka zikhishwe kuqala ngaphambi kokusebenza futhi zicutshungulwe ukuze kuthuthukiswe ikhwalithi yesithombe. Izinsizakalo ezinjalo manje zinikezwa ama-studio amaningi wesithombe. Omunye kumele aqiniseke ukuthi umuntu osekhulile, ebuka lezi zithombe ezindala, uzothola imizwelo emihle kuphela. Kodwa akufanele babe ngokweqile! Vumela indaba iholwa omunye wabadala, indodana noma indodakazi yomsunguli womkhosi.
Isethulo akufanele kuthathe amaminithi angaphezu kuka-10-20. Abantu asebekhulile bavame "ukunamathela" ezinkumbulo, lapho bona ngokwabo bakhathele futhi bekhungathekile.
Mhlawumbe umuntu osekhulile uyojabula ukukhumbula izingoma zobusha bakhe. Futhi futhi, qiniseka ukuthi abanazo izinkumbulo ezinzima! Amalungu omndeni omncane, abangabangani nekhompiyutha, ukulanda kalula amathrekhi amadala enetha. Umculo kusukela eminyakeni edlule kuyoba yi-soundtrack ehle kakhulu yokudla noma ukudlala izithombe ezindala. Abantu abadala bayokujabulela ukuzwa amazwi kaLydia Ruslanova, uLeonid Utyosov, uClaudia Shulzhenko nalabo abenza ukuthi abantu abasha bangakaze bazizwe!
I-Carpet-indiza
Kuyo yonke impilo, abantu abaningi baye bashintsha indawo yabo yokuhlala okungaphezu kwesisodwa. Ngezinye izikhathi amaphupho okubona izifunda lapho intsha idlulile khona ayengenakwenzeka kubantu asebekhulile ... Ukuvakashela izindawo ezincane zomhlaba lapho umuntu akhula khona noma afundela kungaba umcimbi omuhle futhi ongasoze wawulibaleka. Yiqiniso, uma nje ukudluliselwa kuzovumela impilo. Ukuhamba kufanele kuhlelwe ngokucophelela. Ukuze usayine nezihlobo nabangane abadala, omunye wabo, mhlawumbe, uzokwazi ukuthola "Ofunda nabo". Ukubhuka ihhotela. Ngaphambi kokunakekela amathikithi enkundleni yaseshashalazini, i-premiere lapho ugogo ezama khona ukungaphuthelwa eminyakeni yakhe encane. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthatha ikhamera nawe: lolu hambo kufanele luthunyelwe! Injabulo enkulu izonikezwa "kubahambi njengabasha" nokuvuselelwa koxhumana nabangane abadala.
Ukuhlangana nabangani
Uhambo olude oluya kubantu bakudala lukhulu kakhulu? Bathi, njengabangane babo bakudala-abangani, abahambanga ngaphezu kwesitolo esitolo esiseduze? Ungayisebenzisi imali ngesidlo esicebile esingamjabulisi umuntu osekhulile - "lapha kumaqebelengwane ethu (isoseji, i-champagne, njll) zenziwe kangcono, ungaqhathanisi nanamuhla!" Unganikeli inqubo yesimanje - abantu abaningi asebekhulile bese bethuli ekhoneni, ehlanganiswe ne-napcy napkin. Kungcono ukukhokha itekisi endlini yakho bese ubuyela ezintombi zikagogo noma osebenza nabo. Baze babone-mhlawumbe lokhu kungumhlangano wokugcina wabantu abaye baba abangane iminyaka eminingi. Futhi mhlawumbe othile angabuya kwelinye idolobha? Isitimela esikhokhelwayo, ukwamukelwa okufudumele esiteshini sesitimela, ikamelo elilungiselelwe ngokucophelela lizosiza lo muntu osekhulile ukuba abuthane ngomoya futhi ahlobise ngokufika kwakhe kweJubane. Ngenkampani yabangane abadala kanye nekhekhe, futhi i-champagne iphinda ibe yiphunga elihle, futhi amehlo omkhulu-omncane.
Izizukulwane ezintathu
Imikhosi yemindeni yamaqhawe asebekhulile, ekulungiseleleni umndeni wonke ukuhlanganyela? Sicela! Lawa ngamaphephandaba amadonga asezingane, abazukulu nabazukulu. Lona umncintiswano wamahlaya: ngubani ozothola umkhulu esithombeni esisheshayo ngokushesha. Lo mncintiswano: ngubani ozokulungisa kangcono ukudla okuthandayo kwamaqhawe. Khuluma ama-toasts ngokuhlonipha abantu bakudala. Nikeza izipho eziwusizo - ezenziwe ngcono ngezandla zomuntu siqu. Yenza isithombe somndeni etafuleni lokugubha, okuyoba kuhle ukufaka ifreyimu bese ubonisa umakhelwane. Ugogo nomkhulu bethu badinga amavithamini amaningi: B - ukubonga, B - ukunakwa futhi Yebo L - lena uthando lwethu. Leli holide, ukuhlanganisa abantu bezizukulwane ezahlukene, kuyadingeka kokubili kubantu abadala kanye nathi.