Ungakwazi. Futhi uhlala. Angikwazi ukusho ukuthi ngijwayele, kunalokho, ngizikhululile. Wafihla futhi walinda, wasebenza, futhi wahudulela ingane kwenye indawo ekupheleni kwedolobha esikoleni esihle. Futhi-ke ... Lezi zikhathi seziphelile: izikweleti ziye zasakaza, eduze kwesakhiwo esisha kwakukhona isikole esihle kakhulu, emsebenzini wonke wahamba kalula, ngisho nomamazala womqondo washintsha. Ujabule nomndeni wakho ongcono, futhi ukukhwabanisa komyeni wakho futhi "akuzange kunuke."
Ubani i-bell itholakala kuyo? Ukushintsha umyeni wakhe, njengokungathi, "akazange anuke," kepha kwenzeka okuthile. Awukwazi ngisho ukukhumbula lapho iqalile. Kodwa kwakukhona "ezinye izingcezu", ngokuqinisekile, azikwazanga. Umyeni wami wayevame ukuhamba ngebhizinisi. Awukwazanga ukuzijwayeza. Futhi akukhona ukuthi awuzange uthembele kuye, wamlahleka nje. Awubonanga njalo: ekuseni ekuseni, kusihlwa amahora ambalwa ngaphambi kokulala - yilokho konke. Kodwa-ke, ngempelasonto uhlale uhlala ndawonye, uhlelwe kusengaphambili. Kodwa ngempelasonto ngakho wadlula ngokushesha. Futhi kwafika ezinsukwini zamasonto onke, kusasa kakhulu, kusihlwa okukhathele - nonke nithande umsebenzi wenu, wanikeza amandla amaningi nesikhathi. Umndeni onjalo ophelele. Ngelinye igama, awuzange umthande kuphela uma ehamba. Futhi-ke ukuhamba kwebhizinisi kwanda, wena-ke, awuzange ujabule. Indoda iduduza, yathi yesikhashana, ukuthi yena ngokwakhe akayithandi lezindiza ezingapheli, amasiko, amahhotela. Ushintshe i-SMS, i-imeyili, kodwa ayiqabukeli ukubizwa. Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala kuwe ukuthi imihlangano yakho, evame ukuba yamukelekile njalo, ayifuni njengenjabulo ngaphambili, kodwa waqonda ukuthi konke akukwazi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukufana - ukukhathala, izinkinga, nendodana isanda kufuna ukunakwa okungaphezulu - kusuka waqala iminyaka yesikhashana. Ngokuvamile, awuzange uyinake, waziphawula futhi wanquma "ukucabanga ngakho kusasa."
Uma usungumndeni omuhle, futhi ngokuzumayo ukukhashelwa komyeni wakhe kwakufana ne-bolt evela eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Umyeni kakhulu ngokuthula, ngokucacile futhi ngaphandle kwemizwa eningi utshele ukuthi uthandana nomunye owesifazane. Futhi, cishe, lokhu akuyona into encane, kodwa ubuhlobo obunzima. Lapho ebuzwa ukuthi kungani ekutshela lokho, umyeni wathi uyakuthanda, naye, futhi ukuthi unembeza wakhe uhlupha. Kodwa lapha kakade "ayiphunga" umndeni ongcono, lapho uqiniseka khona. Umyeni waba ngandlela-thile ethule, enecala futhi elahlekile. Uyabhala ukuthi i-bastard futhi ayifanele wena. Lapho ebuzwa ukuthi uzoya kuleso wesifazane, wathi konke kuncike kuwe. Kumele uthathe isinqumo, kodwa uzobuyisana nesinqumo sakho. Futhi uhlala kanjani, kanjani ukuvumelanisa nokukhashelwa komyeni wakhe? Ungakhohlwa kanjani, uthethelele, uxoxe?
Ukuguquka kwesigwebo - umbango. Uma unembeza womuntu uphapheme, umuntu kufanele amnike ithuba. Kungcono ukungenzi ukunyakaza okungazelelwe. Menze abe nomuzwa wokuthi uzame ukumqonda, amadoda abheka lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu - ukuthi bayakuqonda. Kuyinto engavamile ukuthi ngesikhathi esifanayo abajwayele ukuzama ukusiqonda, lokhu kuyimpendulo. Mhlawumbe umyeni wakho usanda kukhubeka. Ngazithola ngisesimweni esingadingekile ngesikhathi esingadingekile. Futhi-ke-yahamba-yahamba. Uthando umuzwa oqinile kunokuba uthandane. Zama ukumthethelela, ingane yakho idinga ubaba, futhi udinga umndeni. Ngisho noma ungambiza ngokuthi umndeni ongcono.
Indlela yokusinda ukukhashelwa komyeni wakhe nendlela yokuphila? Njengesifo. Lesi sifo siqala ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokungalindelekile, kodwa kuphelile. Ekuqaleni, isimo sezempilo siyabulala, khona-ke kuvela inhlekelele nokuvuselela. Into esemqoka akuyona ukuphikisana. Ngeke kube khona imithi, ngeke kube nezinkinga. Ngingayithethelela kanjani? Kumele sikhumbule iqiniso elilula: asizange size kuleli zwe ukuhlangabezana nokulindela kwabanye abantu. Futhi akekho osikweleta noma yini. Futhi uma kunjalo, akukho lutho lokuthethelela umyeni wakhe. Ungakhohlwa kanjani? Kuyinto engavamile ukushiya lokho okuhlangenwe nakho okuzuzile, ngoba kuzovumela ukuhlola okucabangelayo kwezimo zansuku zonke esikhathini esizayo. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Vumela indoda yakhe ukuba ikhethe ngokwayo. Amadoda angenakulinganisela, njengombuso, angamaqhinga, okusho ukuthi unenzuzo ngaphezu komphikisi wakho.