Kungani abahlengikazi abazange baphendule ngalokhu noma lowo muntu. Ngisho nezintandokazi zokudla zabesifazane azizange zikhishwe.
Imikhuba yokudla yabesifazane
Ake siqale ngenyama. Ukuphila kwabesifazane abenyama-inyama kukhona uhlobo oluthile lwezinsizakalo. Ngokuvamile bafeze impumelelo, kodwa kukhona nokuhluleka ekusebenziseni izinhlelo zabo. Ukuze ulawule impilo yabantu abadla inyama, kuyadingeka ukuthi babuyekeze imibono ngokugxeka okubhekiswe kubo ukuze kwanele futhi kulunge nakakhulu.
Kodwa ijubane nokuqina kukhona abathandi abahlukahlukene bamafutha. Futhi nakuba iningi lemisebenzi yabo yezobuchwepheshe lingabonwa yizimpisi zodwa, kodwa, noma kunjalo, zifinyelela ezindaweni eziphakeme emisebenzini yazo. Ngokuqondene nemibuzo yokudlala ngothando nokukhohlisa, laba besifazane bayinkimbinkimbi futhi banemakhono, ukudlala ngothando kuyinto eyintandokazi futhi evamile kubo. Abathandi 'bamanoni' banikezwa i-charm enkulu. Ukungaphumeleli kwalaba besifazane kuhlanganisa ukuvuleka, ukuhlakanipha, okuyinto kubo umqondo ohambisanayo, ngenxa yalokho abangakwazi ukuzibamba ngokungahambisani nomphakathi wabo.
Labo abakhetha inhlanzi bahlukaniswa ngokuqhubekayo, ukukhuthazela, ukuzola. Lezi zimfanelo ezibalwe zibiza inhlonipho ngezihlobo, ozakwabo, abangani. Abesifazane abakhetha inhlanzi bamelela ukusekelwa okuthembekile kubantu abakuzungezile nezihlobo, bakhombisa ukwethembeka kwabo emndenini. Kuphela ukuvuleka okwanele kokufunda umbono nesimo sengqondo ngabo ngabanye abantu. Ngenxa yalokho, umthandi wezinhlanzi walahlekelwa isithakazelo kumuntu wabo.
Abathandayo izitsha ezishisayo banomoya ovuthayo, ngoba into evamile ukwenza izenzo ngegama. Ngokuqondene nomkhakha wezemisebenzi womsebenzi, bakhangwa ingozi ethile, umsebenzi owandisiwe, ongasusa enye ingxenye ye-adrenaline. Ukungahleleki kufaka phakathi i-egoism, ngoba bane-"explosive" futhi "ebukhali" abalingiswa, abakubekezeli noma yikuphi ukuphikisana.
Abathandi bemifino bangabantu abanamandla, baphumelela emsebenzini wabo. Bahlukaniswa ukufisa, ukukhuthelela, ukukhonza, isifiso sokwazi. Izici ezinjalo zomlingiswa wesifazane azibonakali futhi zivuzwa. Ezempilo yabo, abathandi bemifino bahlonipha kakhulu. Ngabantu abanjalo nje, ngokuthula, ngokunethezeka, bangabantu abangewona abaphikisanayo.
Abathandi bezithelo banabantu abathandekayo nabanomusa, banabangane abaningi. Laba besifazane abafuni umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa, bakhangwa kulezo zisebenzi ezingabonisa amakhono abo kanye namathalenta okudala. Abajwayele ukungazi lutho, bavame ukubhekwa njengabantu abangenandaba.
Abesifazane abanenhliziyo enhle bajabule, bavulekile futhi banobungane. Bazungeza wonke umuntu onakekelayo, abacasuli, kodwa bawanelise. Ngokuvamile laba besifazane banenkinga yokucindezeleka ngokomzwelo, abakwazi ukuwanelisa.
Ngemuva kwalokho kungenzeka ukudweba ukuthi ngabe umbono wezazi ze-psychologist uhambelana neqiniso.