Ngokushesha nje lapho ingane iyeka ukujwayelana nezwe ngokunciphisa izandla zakhe ngendlala futhi kuyoba ngumdlalo noma kumnandi, umuntu kufanele aqale ngemisebenzi yemfundo ngesihloko: indlela yokuziphatha etafuleni.
Eminyakeni emibili noma emithathu, ulalela iqiniso lokuthi ngaphambi kokuba udle udinga ukugeza izandla zakho. Etafuleni, chaza ingane ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani imfoloko, i-spoon, lapho ubamba khona. Kamuva - khuluma ngokuqondile nesihloko sokuziphatha. Qaphela ukuthi ingane ayishintshi isinkwa, ayizange idlale naye, ihlolwe ngomlomo wayo ivaliwe, ayikhulumi ngenkathi idla ngomlomo wayo igcwele.
Kusukela ebuntwaneni sikhumbula lesi sisho: "Uma ngidla, ngisithulu futhi ngisithulu." Kodwa ukudla akufanele kuphenduke umdlalo ngokuthula: ungakhuluma, kodwa kuphela ngezikhathi phakathi kokumuncwa kokudla. Uma ingane ingalaleli, chaza ukuthi ngeke ilalele umlomo wabo. Isihloko sengxoxo kufanele sinikezwe ukunakwa okukhethekile. Ungakhulumi kokubili nengane kanye nomunye emndenini mayelana nezifo etafuleni, yeka ukucaciswa kobudlelwano phakathi kwamalungu omndeni, ungakhumbuli izinto "ezimbi" ezingenakonakalisa ukudla komntwana, kodwa kusobala ukuthi ngeke zizuze inzuzo yakhe ukukhuliswa. Gxilisa ukunakekelwa kwengane yakho ezicikisweni zokunambitheka kwalokhu noma lowo mkhiqizo, ukuze akwazi ukubona okuthandayo ngokuqinisekile futhi wazi: kanjani usawoti, omnandi, omuncu, njll. Ungaphendukela ekufundeni umdlalo "Kuyini lokhu kunambitha? ".
Ngokuvamile izingane zingenasisekelo etafuleni, phuma. Iqiniso liwukuthi banesabelo esiphansi, abakwazi ukugxila kwisifundo esisodwa imizuzu engaphezu kwengu-15. Ngakho-ke, bangakwazi nje ukukhathaza inqubo ngokwayo, noma ingane ingadla kakade (emva kwakho konke, ngokuvamile ngaphambi kokuba abazali abadla ngokudla "banikeze" ukudla, ngakho-ke ingane ingase ingalali ngokwanele).
Kusukela eneminyaka emine ubudala, imisebenzi yezemfundo ingase ifake imfundo yokugcina imidwebo efanele, ukuthatha ukudla ngesikhathi. Njengoba ufunde ukugcina ukusika, kuyadingeka ukuthi ushintshe ekuzondleni. Ngemva kwalokho, abazali abahambisani namalungiselelo "Ngondle! ", Njengoba ingane isivele isikhulile futhi ingakwazi yena. Masinyane udinga ukukhombisa indlela yokuziphathisa ngayo ukusika: indlela yokubeka i-spoon emlonyeni wakho, ukukhipha (ukuze ingane ingakhulumi, ayihambisani, ayithinti umshini emazinyo akhe). Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ungabonisa ukuthi ungadla kanjani ngomese nomfoloko. Kulokhu, cabanga ngokuphepha.
Uma ingane isiya esikoleni, kufanele ivele iphathe ngokuthula, ikwazi ukulandela ukuma lapho udla, udla ngokuthula, ungabeki izibhebhe etafuleni. Imisindo akumele ihlale phansi kwetafula, iwele (lokhu kuphazamisa ukuhleleka).
Amazwi kufanele abikwe, aqiniswe nezibonelo eziphilayo, izithombe zamaqhawe ezinto zezingane (uPinocchio, Winnie the Pooh). Ungayifundisi ingane ukuba ikhohlise ukholo "ngakho kuyadingeka", "ngakho-ke yamukelwa" - ngelinye ilanga ingaba nehlaya elinonya nawe. Ngisho noma ukukhala kuphukile, thola futhi uchaze incazelo yesenzo.
Imisebenzi yezemfundo enesihloko sokwethenjelwa etafuleni ayigcini emkhakheni wokuziphatha ngesikhathi sokudla. Ukuthi esikhathini esizayo azikho izinkinga, zibandakanya ingane ukuba ihlale etafuleni, ihlanzekile emva kwayo ngemva kokudla. Ekuqaleni mvumele ukuletha ipuleti ku-washstand, eneminyaka emihlanu nesithupha, ungafundisa ingane ukuba igeze izitsha. Makangayitholi ngokushesha, kufanele ahlanze emva kwakhe, kodwa ngokucophelela aveze amaphutha, ngakho esikhathini esizayo wazama kangcono.
Uma edinga okuthize, ungamvumeli ukuba alulale, kodwa acele ngokuzithoba (esebenzisa "imilingo" igama elithi "sicela"). Etafuleni, futhi, akufanele uthathe ukudla kusuka epulazini eliseduze, ugijimele ukuthatha isiqephu esikhulu. Futhi uma into ethile ingazange isebenze, noma iqhume (isikhwama noma ibhande), ngicela uxolise. Emva kokudla, fundisa ingane ukuba ibonge.
Abazali kudingeka futhi bathuthukise imizwa yokuzijabulisa emntwaneni. Ukudla kukhonjiswa kahle, faka isipuni ezitsha zokudla (ukuze ungangeni kulowo nalowo kusebenza). Ungadli ezimbizeni noma emapanini, emi, ekuhambeni. Uma ungafuni ukuthi ingane idle ekamelweni, ungabeki isibonelo futhi ungalokothi uyidle lapho. Ungadli nge-TV! Etafuleni, ukunakwa kwengane kufanele kugxile ekudleni. Uma engenangqondo, engafuni ukudla, ungammangazi, kodwa nje ubeke eceleni ipuleti. Kubonakala kuwe ukuthi akazange adle - ukudla okulandelayo kuqale ekuqaleni. Ungahambi ngesikhathi lapho ingane ihamba ngokukhululekile ngokudla. Kudingeka udle konke okukhonzwayo, futhi ukupheka ngokweqile ukukhukhumeza kubangele noma yini enhle ngeke.
Ngokungangabazeki, yonke imisebenzi yezemfundo kufanele iqinisekiswe ngesibonelo sabo. Buka imikhuba yakho yokuziphatha, ngoba izindaba eziyinkimbinkimbi ayikho into eqhathaniswa nesithombe "," ngoba izingane zikopisha ukuziphatha kwabazali emininingwaneni encane kakhulu. Kudingeka uziphathe etafuleni ngendlela ongathanda ngayo ukuthi ingane iphathe ngayo, nokuqhuba imisebenzi yemfundo kancane kancane, ngothando nokubekezela okungapheli.