Kudingekile, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuba yisibonelo esihle kumntwana, futhi hhayi ukuqala ukukhwabanisa okungadingekile. Kodwa ungabona kanjani lokhu?
Kulula kunalokho ucabanga. Uhamba ngezithuthi zomphakathi, ukhathele emsebenzini, futhi ubone indawo engekho, kepha njengenhlanhla ngabe ngabe kukhona umuntu odakiwe eceleni kwakho. Uzokwenzenjani? Ungakwazi ukuthukuthela ngokushesha, kodwa yini ezoba umphumela? Amazwi akho kuye, njengodonga lwe-peas, nesizathu sokungqubuzana komuntu ophuzile angacasulwa kalula. Wena nomntanakho nizohlupheka.
Ngakho-ke, susa emagama owudinga ukuqhubekela phambili bese uya phambili salon. Kwenzeka ukuthi usuvele uthatha indawo, kanti umakhelwane ophuzile uhlezi eceleni kwakho, unomntwana ezandleni zakho, kungcono ukuwufakelwa ukuze uvimbele umzimba wakho noma ushintshe indawo, kodwa hhayi endaweni, kodwa kude.
Futhi, hhayi kuphela umuntu ophuzile ebhasini noma iqembu lezingane ezinomkhuhlane kungase kube yingozi, kodwa futhi imoto eyehliwe ngengozi noma abantu "abafuna" omunye umgwaqo noma umlingisi ngendima esemqoka. Ingane yakho kufanele yazi ukuthi ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo kufanele ijoyine noma ubani engxoxweni, akeke uhambe nabo.
Ngokuvamile abahlaseli basebenzisa kuphela ukungenalwazi nokuthembela kwezingane. Banikeza ukubuyela ekhaya noma ukubheka amantombazane, ukudlala imidlalo ezithakazelisayo, njll. Ingane, ithathwe ngokukhohlisa, ikhohlwa ngezixwayiso zabazali. U-maniac owaziwa kakhulu, u-Ashotyan, wayefuna isisulu ngosizo lendodakazi yakhe eyamukelwe. Wayefuna intombazane egqoke kahle phakathi kwesixuku futhi embuza ukuthi ngabe unguMuscovite noma cha. Uma ethola impendulo: UMuscovite, wabuza ukuthi angathola kanjani lokhu noma lowo mgwaqo, futhi uma kungenjalo, wamenywa ukuba ahlanganyele ekuvivinyweni kwesikrini. Futhi esitholile imvume, wamholela kumama wakhe omncane, owazenza sengathi ungumqondisi.
Bese benza ngokuvumelana nesiteleka sokusebenza esilungisiwe. Le ntombazane yalethwa ekhaya, yanikwa ikhofi ngemithi yengqondo, futhi ngokushesha nje lapho ilahlekelwa, u-Asrotyan wadlwengula, wathatha izinto zakhe, nesisulu, egqoke izigqoko, waphonswa ehlane. Kamuva, i-maniac yaqala ukubulala izisulu zakhe.
Izingane zikhona ngokwemvelo nazo zithemba. Abaqapheli ukuthi isigebengu singenza sengathi sibe nomusa ngaphandle uma sisemzingeni, bese siphenduka sibe yisilo esinonya.
Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuchazela ngokucacile ingane ukuthi zonke izimemo zokuya endaweni ethile, ubukele i-movie noma udlale ithoyizi entsha, ingane kufanele inqabe ngokuphelele. Ungabhekisela kuwe, abazali bakhe, noma ukuthi akanandaba nesipho somfokazi. Futhi ngokwayo utshela abazali ngento engaziwayo eyamnika okuthile. Okuningi kuleso simo kuncike kuwe, ukuthi usabela kanjani ngokujulile kulokho okuye kwashiwo, khuluma nabanye abazali, mhlawumbe izingane zabo zinikezwa into enjalo, bese ubheka isimo lapho izingane zakho zidlala egcekeni.
Kwenzeka ukuthi umuntu omdala noma ubudala obunjengomntwana uqinisa kakhulu lapho ezama ukuphazamisa ukuziqhenya komfana, njengokungathi ngicabanga ukuthi usuvele ungumdala, kodwa abazali bakho abakuvumeli. Kulesi simo, ingane kufanele ithi udinga ukuxwayisa umama nobaba wakho kuphi nokuthi uzohamba nobani, futhi ubheka le barker. Uma efikile ekukhulumisaneni ngempela nengane futhi engenazo izinhloso ezimbi, uyojabula ngisho nokukhuluma nawe. Futhi uma kungenjalo, awunakwenzeka ukukuthola.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi abahlaseli bangasebenzisa umshini, ngakho-ke ingane kufanele iqaphele lapho imoto engaziwa eduze kwayo, kufanele ihlale ikude nayo, futhi uma ebuzwa ukuthi angayithola kanjani umgwaqo noma indlu, kufanele athi angazi , futhi kufanele akhumbule ukuthi uma umuntu ongezihambi ephuma emotweni, udinga ukugijima masinyane ohlangothini lwendlu futhi uma ungena kunoma yiliphi igceke ungamemeza ngokuthi "Mama!" noma "Baba!" futhi uguqume sengathi uhlangane nabazali bakhe. Akunandaba ukuthi akekho ophendula ucingo lwakhe. Umenzi wesiphambeko akunakwenzeka ukuhlola wonke amawindi ukuze athole ukunakwa.
Ithuba lokusindiswa esimweni esinjalo lihlale likhona, sidinga ukuhlola isimo ngendlela efanele futhi senze isinqumo esifanele.
Iziphetho:
- Ungalokothi ube nokungqubuzana ezokuthutha zomphakathi noma ukuxubana kwabantu.
- Uma umuntu ophuzile ehamba eceleni kwakho, kungcono ukuhamba naye, futhi ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo ungaqali ingxoxo naye.
- Uma ubona inkampani engazijwayele, kungcono ukuba ubalekele kubo, ushintshe isiqondiso, uye ngaphesheya komgwaqo.
- Uma ingane yakho ibuzwa ukuthi ungayithola kanjani umgwaqo, ake iphendule ukuthi ungafika kanjani, udwebe uhlelo, kodwa ungayithathi ekhanda ukuze ubone abantu abangabazi.
- Lapho ingane ishukunyiswa isenzo esingenasisindo kuye, emnxusa ukuthi usemncane, udinga ukungena endlini futhi axwayise abazali bakhe ukuthi uya kuphi nokuthi uya kuphi.
- Umuntu ongakajwayele usikisela ingane ukuthi idlale umdlalo noma ibukele izilwane, kufanele inqabe ngokuqinile.
- Umntwana wamenywa esiteji noma ukulungiselela umncintiswano wokuhle, makangazeze ukubuza ukuthi kufanele afikephi nabazali bakhe nokuthi ngasiphi isikhathi.
- Lapho nje ingane isitshele mayelana nokuxhumana nabantu abangabazi abangazinikele okuthile, khuluma nomakhelwane - abazali, bekani ukubukela lapho izingane zihamba emgwaqweni. Uma othile esolisayo ebalalweni lokudlala, nikeza incazelo eningiliziwe yalomuntu kwisiphathimandla sakhe sesifunda.
- Uma ingane imenywa ukuba ihlale emotweni engajwayelekile ukuze ibonise indlela, kudingeka ihlale kude nayo ngangokunokwenzeka futhi ngaphansi kwezimo lapho ungahlala khona, ngisho noma isendleleni.
- Uma umfokazi ephikelela ikakhulukazi, ingane kumele isondele kunoma yimuphi indlu, sengathi sengathi uhlala lapha, ivule isandla bese imbiza unina noma ubaba, "abone."
Futhi khumbula ukuthi ezimweni eziningi, isisulu ngokwayo senza isigebengu sezenzo zobugebengu. Ngakho-ke, gcina imithetho futhi ugcine othandekayo bakho.