Ekuphileni komuntu siqu, ukubukeka kubaluleke kakhulu, okokuqala, ngesikhathi sokuzijwayeza. Uma ubona umuntu omuhle emgwaqeni, ufuna ukumbamba, ungahamba naye futhi ngomzuzu utshele konke ngawe, kodwa lokhu kungamethusa nje umuntu, akunakwenzeka ukuthi uyokujabulela ngokushesha ukuvelela kwezwe lakho elingaphakathi futhi abe nesithakazelo kumngane wakho wangethulo. Nikeza ukubukeka kwakho: izinwele ezibeke kahle, ukumamatheka kweqhwa-snow, izingubo ezihlezi kahle, izicathulo ezihlanzekile nezesekeli ezikhethiwe kahle.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlobo luni lokubukeka lunikezele, lonke iphuzu lokuthi uzokwenza kanjani: ubuhle bemvelo bungalahlekelwa isikhalazo, ukukhukhumezeka nokuhlakulela, akudingekile ukuthi ube nezici ezifanele ukuthakazelisa abanye. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukugxila okuqhubekayo ngenxa yokunganeliseki ngokubukeka kwakho, izinkimbinkimbi zizoxosha abantu nje, ngokungangabazeki ungathola izici ngaphakathi kwakho futhi uzigcizelele.
Cabanga ukuthi ubani okhululekile kakhulu naye? Kungacatshangwa ukuthi ngaphambi kwamehlo akho kwakukhona isithombe somuntu obukeka kahle, ogqoke kahle, ozethemba. Indoda ngayinye ifuna ukubona eduze kwentombazane ye-chic, futhi abesifazane bakhangwa kumadoda ahlezi kahle, azintandokazi. Kungokwemvelo, konke okusemvelo kuvame ukuvumelana, ukulinganisa, ubuhle.
Ingabe kubonakala sengathi umsebenzi? Kungenzeka ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi isisebenzi kufanele sihlolwe kuphela ngemiphumela yomsebenzi wakhe wezemfundo kanye nezinga lemfundo, hhayi ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esingakanani ekubukeni kwakhe, kodwa akunjalo. Ukuhlanzeka, indoda egqoke ngokugqoka idala ukuzethemba ngokwengeziwe enkampanini, ngokujwayelekile nakubo bonke abantu abavamile: ama-ragamay angcolile ayesabekayo, kanjalo sizama ukugwema. Uma umuntu ebukeka enhle, uzizwa eqiniseka kakhulu, futhi impumelelo yakhe iyabonakala kokubili kumakhasimende nabaqashi. Ngakho-ke, ngokuqala ngxoxo ngesikhala, imisebenzi enomsebenzi yenkampani, ephela ngezinsuku ezijwayelekile zesonto elisebenzayo - kufanele uhlale unika uphawu, ugcine isitayela senkampani futhi ugcizelele ubuntu bakho ngezinga elithile, ukukwazisa ukuthi uyilungu leqembu lonke futhi ungumsebenzi ofanelekayo ngokwakho .
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukucabanga ngemininingwane yasekuqaleni yesitayela somuntu kubantu abasebenza ngobuciko, ngaleyo ndlela kubonisa amandla abo okudala. Isithombe sidinga ukucatshangelwa ngemininingwane encane kunazo zonke: abaqashi namakhasimende bazobukeka ngokubukeka kokubheka, futhi ubuhle kanye nesithakazelo jikelele singashujiswa ngokuntuleka kwezandla noma izinto ezikhethiwe ezingakhethi.
Uma isikhathi esithile esidlule abaklami, abakhi, abalingisi kanye nezintatheli beza nemininingwane ekhanyayo, ecebile, izithombe eziphambene ukuheha ukunakekelwa kwamakhasimende futhi babonise ubuntu babo obukhulu obungavamile, manje kukhona ukuthambekela kokulula, ukucaca kwemigqa, ukuvimbela kanye ncamashi lokhu kuyinkomba yesitayela sangempela. Amakhono abadwebekayo abaculi, izinqumo ezihlakaniphile zokugqoka nezingubo zanikeza izingubo zokusika ezilula, izesekeli ezihle nembala enokuthula enemininingwane ehlukene ekhanyayo. Omunye umkhuba ukuphakama okuqhubekayo kokuvakashela ama-gyms, ukuqeqeshwa kanye namakilasi okudansa okwenza ukuba kube nomzimba onempilo futhi omuhle. Abantu abanempilo nabo bakhangayo kakhulu kuzo zonke izinzwa zabaqashi, futhi nje kwabanye, lokhu kuyimvelo.
Konke lokhu akusho ukuthi udinga ukugijima ngokuphuthumayo kudokotela ohlinzayo wasepulasitiki bese ulungisa yonke imisebenzi kusuka kukhathalogi yakhe! Ezweni lanamuhla, lapho ungathola khona izingubo nezicathulo zazo zonke izitayela, izinhlobonhlobo kanye nezinhlobonhlobo, ekukhethweni okuzokwenza khona ukuthi u-stylist noma umenzi wezithombe uzokusiza, ubuhle be-salon banikeza izinsizakalo ezihlukahlukene, kusukela ekuziqhenyweni nasezinwele, ukuya emisebenzini yemidlalo ezokusiza ukuguqula, ukudala isithombe esifanele futhi wenze umqondo kwabanye. Kulesi simo, zama ukungawudluli futhi ungakhathazeki nesifiso sokulahlekelwa isisindo noma uthole imisipha emihle kakhulu, kungabangela izifo, okuzoba nzima ukuphilisa.
Izambatho zithinta kanjani ukuphila komuntu? Njengoba bethi, indoda enhle kakhulu inhle kukho konke, kuyilapho ubuhle bungumhlanganisi wezimfanelo zakho zangaphakathi nokuheha kwangaphandle, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuqapha ukubukeka kwakho.