Njengoba isisebenzi sami satshele omunye wabasebenzi: "Angiyena wesifazane emsebenzini, ngingumsebenzi emsebenzini". Okufanayo kungashiwo ngomholi-wesifazane. Kodwa uma, engene emngceleni wehhovisi lakhe, akazange asuse "isigqubuthelo sekhanda" futhi akazange akhumbule ukuthi useyinsikazi, khona-ke inkinga izalwa yodwa.
Owesifazane kanye nezinto eziza kuqala
Kwabesifazane abathile, ukukhushulwa ngokusebenzisa isiteji sezemfundo kuyisimo esinqunyiwe. Bazibophezele kakhulu emisebenzini yabo ukuthi "umqondo X" uhlala nabo ngisho nasephusheni. Kodwa, akuyona imfihlo kunoma ubani owesifazane odinga uthando, ukuqonda okufanayo nobulili obuhlukile, induduzo yomndeni, futhi, ekugcineni, ucansi. Ochwepheshe besifazane uqala ukubheka umona kwabanye abesifazana, obani emiphakathini yabo siqu bonke abahlanu abane-plus. Yile ndlela abazalwa ngayo "ababi" abazalwa, abangenakho ukuthuthukisa impilo yabo siqu, futhi bazama ukuphonsa konke ukuthukuthela nokunganeliseki kubaphathi babo, amantombazane amancane, okusemandleni abo bonke.
Ngezinye izikhathi, ngezinye izikhathi, owesifazane uphonsela emsebenzini ngekhanda ngesizathu esilula ukuthi empilweni yakhe kwakukhona ukwehluleka kothando. Uma indoda iphonsa owesifazane, ingabe iyayilahla, noma ifuna ukushintshwa okufanele, noma izama ukufakazela, okokuqala, ukuthi ilahlekelwe iqembu elifanele. Ngakho-ke, yena, lona wesifazane, uqondisa wonke amabutho ayo ukuze azuze izindawo eziphakeme zomsebenzi futhi, njengoba umthetho, ufeza okuningi. Masinyane khumbula ifilimu "UMoscow akakholelwa izinyembezi" - isibonelo esivamile somfazi olahliwe, kodwa owanelisayo.
Hlola ukusebenza
Uma owesifazane ezuza konke, ngakho-ke, ngezinye izikhathi kubalulekile ukusebenza okuningi, ukuthi ngokuchaza isikhathi sokuphila komuntu siqu akwanele. Futhi-ke, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuvela indaba ye-banal: "Isikhungo sesiphelile, senza umsebenzi, sithenge indlu, sishadile. Eshu! Ngikhohliwe ukuthi nginomntwana! "
Ngithande kakhulu umbono we-boss-boss, engangiye ngathola ngandlela-thile ithuba lokukhuluma naye. Yena, okokuqala, wazibonela njengomkakhe, njengomama, futhi emva kwalokho, emva kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu, waqala ukwakha umsebenzi wakhe futhi, ngokujabula okukhulu, waphumelela konke. "Ekuqaleni, umndeni, wenza owesifazane abe ngowesifazane, bese ekwazi ukuzibona njengomuntu, umsebenzi, njll. Uma owesifazane engenzi umsebenzi - kungengxenye embi, uma owesifazane engaboni ingane, angeke abe ngowesifazana ngo-100%, "Ngicabanga, amagama egolide engiwazwile.
Ngezinye izikhathi umsebenzi uthatha isikhathi esiningi kangangokuthi akukho nhlobo isikhathi somndeni walesi sikhathi. Kuvela ukuthi izingane zikhula zodwa, ngoba abazali "benza umsebenzi." Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunjani, kubalulekile ukunikeza umsebenzi ofanele, kodwa ungakhohlwa mayelana nezingane, emva kwakho konke, ngomyeni. Uma umsebenzi wakho uthatha impilo yakho yonke, kufanelekile ukucabangela ukuthi kuwufanele yini, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuwufanele impilo yakho ...
Emsebenzini - umholi ekhaya - othobekile, omnene futhi olalelayo
U-boss wesifazane uvame ukuzibandakanya kakhulu emsebenzini wakhe wokuthi le nhloko yomphathi iqala ukufezeka ekhaya. Kodwa amadoda athande omnene, onomusa futhi othandekayo. Ukuhlukumezeka ngokweqile nobuholi kungabonakalisa kabi ubuhlobo bomuntu siqu. Yiqiniso, uma umyeni wakho engakwazi ukwenza izinqumo zakhe, mhlawumbe kufanele wenze izinqumo ngokwakho, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, ungabeki indoda kumuntu, kholwa kimi, kuyisithakazelo sakho.
Umsebenzi wokuqala - ke - umndeni noma ngokuphambene nalokho?
Ngakho-ke, umsebenzi ubalulekile kuwe, kodwa awukabi ukucabanga ukuthi umholi wesifazane angajabula yini ekuphileni kwakhe. Okokuqala, faka izinto ezibalulekile, uhlole ngokwanele, okubaluleke kakhulu kuwe: ikhaya nomndeni noma umndeni wakho nomsebenzi wakho ekhaya. Uma uphendula lo mbuzo obulula kakhulu, uzoqonda ukuthi ungayibeka phambili kanjani.
Okubaluleke kakhulu yizinhloso zakho zokuphila. Futhi uma umgomo wakho wokuphila ujabulela impilo yomndeni, futhi umsebenzi wakho udinga imihlatshelo eminingi ukuze ufike ezindaweni eziphakeme, ngakho-ke ngicabanga ukuthi umndeni awufanelekile lokho. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, uma unomsebenzi obalulekile futhi uzimisele ukufika ezindaweni eziphakeme, khona-ke ungena ngesibindi emgomweni ohlosiwe, kodwa ungakhononi ngokuntuleka kobumfihlo.
Indlela yokuphuma
Kodwa kukhona nencazelo yegolide. Asikhohlwa ukuthi sonke sisebenza, ngezinye izikhathi eside kakhulu futhi sibuhlungu, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, siyakwazi ukuba umama nomfazi omuhle. Ngokuvamile umsebenzi womholi wesifazane uyisikhathi esivamile sokusebenza kowesifazane ovamile, kungani kufanele ushiye "izintambo zikahulumeni" ngokuthandayo.
Mhlawumbe wena uyinhloko yebhizinisi lomndeni, ungumnikazi wesikhathi sakho, ngakho-ke ungayilungisa njengoba kuzokulandela wena nomndeni wakho. Akuyona inhlanganisela ephelele?
Kuzo zonke ezingenhla, ungathola isiphetho esilula: konke kusezandleni zakho. injabulo yomholi wesifazane ngokuqondile ixhomeke kuye, futhi uma efuna ukujabula, khona-ke uzoba njalo, ngoba ngubani, hhayi yena, kufanele azi ukuthi angayifinyelela kanjani futhi afinyelele lokho okuhlosiwe. Ukufeza injabulo yomndeni, kanye nokufeza izindawo eziphakeme zomsebenzi, yizinjongo zokuphila ezizofinyelelwa yibo abafuna ngempela.