Uma ungenzi imizamo yokwenza ucansi olungenakulibaleka futhi elikhanyayo, khona-ke uyohlale uboshiwe othandekayo obanjalo. Yiqiniso, udinga ukushintsha okuthile kuwe. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukuzibuka esibukweni bese uthi ngokuqondile: ubheka kanjani lapho uhlangana nomyeni wakho emsebenzini? Esikhathini samasondo omdala wezemidlalo, esembathweni sokugqoka, lapho uzizwa ungahlali khona? Kule fomu, ngeke ubheke ukulingana. Kufanele uhlale ufisa futhi uhle kumthande wakho. Udinga nje ukuzithanda wena uzizwe njengendlovukazi. Zithengelele izingubo zokugqoka zesilika, zizogeleza ngezinhlobo zakho. Masibe mfushane ukuze imilenze ibonakale.
Ekhaya ngendoda enesibindi udinga ukujwayela izingubo ezimnandi futhi ezinhle. Phonsa amahembe amageyimu amadala kanye nama-t-shirts. Udinga amabhulukwe ezemidlalo, ama-shorts, ama-tops, ama-T-shirts azokwandisa isibalo sakho, okudingayo kumfazi onothando onjengawe.
Yenza ukukhohlisa, efiselekayo
Uxhumana kanjani naye kusihlwa? Ingabe ufunda umagazini noma uxoxe nezintombi zakho efonini amahora futhi ubuka i-TV noma uhlala ehlangene namaphephandaba ekhoneni elihlukile lekamelo? Kodwa, ngakho-ke lolu daba ngeke luqhubeke. Ngesikhathi sokugcina wena nomthandi wakho niphuza ibhodlela lewayini noma ubuke i-movie? Ngabe, lapho engena ekugezeni, wahlwitha i-backboard komunye nomunye? Kodwa akekho umuntu owenqabe ukunikezwa okunjalo kumfazi okhangayo, ngoba ubusuku obuchithayo buzophela ngokulala ngokocansi.
Uziphatha kanjani embhedeni? Mhlawumbe, ulindele isinyathelo esivela eceleni komyeni futhi ungazibonakali? Ngakho-ke akumangazi ukuthi umyeni wakho usekhulile kuwe. Noma yimuphi umuntu kufanele azizwe emukelekile. Futhi uma uzizwa sengathi udonsa olulindele, ngeke aqonde uma ufuna noma cha. Ngenxa yalokho, unquma ukuthi awufuni.
Manje uma uqala ukumanga nokumkhathaza, khona-ke ngeke akwazi ukumelana nalo. Ngisho noma ngabe wayesekufisa ubusuku obuhle futhi avulekele. Uyomangala kakhulu, futhi uzothatha lo mdlalo ozithandayo. Futhi uma umnika ukuba azame okuthile okusha ngocansi, uzoqala ukukujabulela njalo, uzoba ngumkakhe oyifunayo kakhulu. Unganqikazi ukukhuluma naye ngezocansi. Ngempela, ukwazi izifiso zomthandi wakho futhi uthole injabulo kuyo, udinga ukukhuluma naye.
Ungakhohlwa ukuvuma uthando lwakho, ukuncoma kuye, ukumanga emhlanganweni, uthande isithakazelo ezinkingeni nasezinkingeni zakhe, ngokuvamile ukuxhumana. Manje siyazi ukuthi ungaba kanjani umfazi okhohlisa, oyifunayo. Ukulandela lawa macebiso amancane, ungaba nokukhohlisa futhi ufiseleka, futhi owesifazane ongenalo ikhono futhi ube nesithukuthezi emva kweminyaka eminingi yempilo yomshado.