Indlela yokubuyisela uthando ngobudlelwane bomndeni

Ngisho nokuphila komndeni okucebile ngokuvamile kuvame ukungathandani, okufana nezinsuku zokuqala. Ngingawubuyisela eminyakeni yobuhlobo ngemva komshado? Indlela yokubuyisela uthando ngobudlelwane bomndeni - isihloko sesihloko.

Wheel of Happiness

Phakathi neminyaka kuye kwaba nzima nakakhulu ukugcina lokhu "umlilo ophakade" kimi kanye nomyeni wami, silondoloze ukuvuselela kokubona. Esikhundleni sezikhathi eziqhakazile, ezingalokothi zibalekele, kwafika ukuphila okulinganisiwe okulinganisiwe, saqala ukucwilisa esimisweni. Ukukhunjulwa kwezinsuku zokuqala, izinyanga neminyaka yokuphila kanye nombhangqwana ngamunye kuhlale kunomphefumulo othanda ukuthandana. Imibhangqwana eminingi ikholelwa ukuthi empilweni yabo i-bouquet-candy period yayisijabulisa kakhulu. Khona-ke impilo yansuku zonke iqala, lapho kukhona ukugaya, ngokuvamile ihambisana nokuhlangenwe nakho okuphawulekayo kwabalingani. Futhi kulula, ubuhle bobudlelwane, umuzwa wansuku zonke weholide, owawuphawu lokuqala kwendaba, kufanele ukhohlwe. Kulokhu, umuntu angamthanda umuntu, abe nesifiso ngaye, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo azizwa engathandeki eduze kwakhe. Eminyakeni edlule, kunengozi yokubamba izingxabano kanye nezingxabano zasekhaya. Ukuzalwa kwengane nakho kungabangela isimo. Emva kwakho konke, cishe sonke isikhathi kufanele sinikezwe osanda kuzalwa, futhi kancane kancane kunomunye nomunye. Kodwa okuyisisekelo sokubambisana, ubudlelwane bomshado akugcini nje ukuxazulula izinkinga zendawo kuphela. Kungokungakhohlwa ukuthi abazali nabo baseduze nabantu, abashade, abathandekayo ... Akunzima ukubuyisela umuzwa wenjabulo ekukhulumisaneni nomunye nomunye. Abahlinzeki bemikhaya batusa iresiphi yendawo yonke ... njalo bahamba ngezinsuku ngomunye nomunye.

Buyisela ubuhlobo ebuhlotsheni

Imihlangano isisiza ukuba sibe nomuzwa wokuthi empeleni ukuphila akukhona kuphela kokubeletha futhi kunqobe ubunzima bekhaya. Ngomqondo othile ukubuyela kuleso sikhathi esimnandi emihlanganweni yokuqala, lapho sesijwayelene futhi sithandana omunye nomunye. Umsunguli wendlela enjalo ingaba indoda. Nakuba kaningi kunomqondo wokubuyisela ukucubungula kokubona ebuhlotsheni obuvela ngqo kumfazi ozwela kakhulu futhi ozwelayo. Nguye ozwa ukungabi nobuhlobo obungokomoya nomyeni wakhe, umthandi, umlingani wakhe. Isimo esibalulekile somhlangano onjalo ukuhlela izindaba ezihlangene, ongakaze uzenze (noma wenze) isikhathi eside. Lokhu kuyadingeka ukuze ukwazi ukubona umlingani ngokukhanya okuhlukile, ukwazi omunye, kuze kube manje engaziwa eceleni kobuntu bakhe. Imihlangano enjalo esimweni esingavamile ingaba ngcono. Ngesinye isikhathi, omunye wenu wayefuna ukuhamba edolobheni kusihlwa, ukhetha omunye umhlangano endaweni lapho usuku lwakho lokuqala lube khona. Futhi-ke, ngaphandle kokusheshisa, uzodlula emigwaqweni eyaziwayo ukuthi wonke umbhangqwana unayo: amagceke athule phakathi, emigwaqeni, emaphoyiseni, amapaki. Ungaqedela ukuhamba ku-cafe yakho oyintandokazi noma yokudlela. Kodwa hhayi okungenani charm of lezo zivakashi ezicatshangwe kahle futhi kuhlelwe nguwe. Ngendlela, akunandaba ukuthi wenzani kulezi zinsuku, into eyinhloko ukuthi uzozichitha ndawonye (ungazinakekela izingane nge-nanny noma uhlele nogogo nomkhulu). Futhi khumbula ukuthi into oyinqume ukunikezela amahora ambalwa, kufanele ihambisane nawe kokubili.

Nokho, kungenzeka ukuthi eminye imibhangqwana ingavamile, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukuchitha isikhathi esamukelekile kakhulu ... kusihlwa komndeni phambi kwe-TV. Izinjabulo ezinjalo ezinokuthula ziyoba ukunambitha, ngokwesibonelo, zimatasa kakhulu ngebhizinisi labo kanye nomsebenzi wabo, abashadile abangeke bakwazi ukukhokhela ukunethezeka kokuxhumana nomuntu ekhaya ... Uma ukuthanda kwakho nokuthanda kwakho kungafani, ungacacisa imininingwane. Ake sithi ungumdlali wezemidlalo ongaphuthelwa yi-premiere eyodwa, futhi ibhola liseduze naye. Ngakho-ke uthenga amathikithi amabili enkundleni yemidlalo futhi umemele ekudlaleni. Yena - amathikithi amabili ebhola, futhi ubona umdlalo wekhulu ndawonye ... Ngombono wethu, into esondelene kakhulu esondelene ngaso sonke isikhathi iwukuba umkhosi wothando. U-Rendezvous nomyeni wakhe angeke aqede ubuhlobo bobulili. Ngaphandle kwamacala lapho ubulili kuphela bugcina lo mbhangqwana ndawonye. Uma okungenani oyedwa womlingani abhekana nokungakhululeki noma ukungabaza, akufanele ugcizelele kulokhu. Kulabo abashadile, kubalulekile ukuthi ukwazi ukugcina ukuhlukumezeka kokungalingani ebuhlotsheni futhi ungazami ukuvuselela impilo yobulili, ukuzama, isibonelo, isithombe somuntu obulala isifo esibulalayo, esingavamile kuwe. Kungcono kakhulu ukuthusa indoda. Futhi ama-hints-amacebo, othintekayo ngezikhathi ezithile, ukuncoma - konke lokhu kuzomenza aqonde ukuthi nguye kuphela futhi oyifunayo kuwe.