Indlela yokufeza umgomo: izimfihlo ezintathu zesisusa esifanele

"Kumele," sithi ngokwethu, ukwenza izinhlelo. Kulapha kuphela ngenxa yezizathu ezithile ungasheshi ukuba kwenziwe: iphupho elilandelayo (ukuze ukhule kancane, ufunde isiNgisi, uqale ukudla ngokufanele, uthole umsebenzi othakazelisayo) uya eshalofini elikude le-subconscious ngaphansi kwesignesha "ngolunye usuku". Izazi zengqondo zithi impande yenkinga ikhona ezingeni lesisusa. Indlela yokwenza amaphupho abe yiqiniso?

Isigaba 1 - ukubukeka. Ukubonisa nje okufunayo akukwanele. Kudingeka "ukungena" ephusheni lakho - ngokugqamile, ngokukhululekile, nayo yonke imininingwane. Ufuna isibalo esihle? Sondela esibukweni futhi uzibonele uqobo, uzwe ukukhanya komzimba, ukulalela kwemisipha, ilanga elikhanyayo esikhunjeni esikhulayo, ukubuka okubhekayo kulabo abaseduze. Ungesabi ngeso lengqondo lakho - kungaba yisikhuthazo esinamandla sokunqoba ubuvila nobuqili. Uzoyeka ukusebenza ngokungenalutho "kumele" futhi uye ecacile "Ngifuna, ngoba".

Isinyathelo 2 - "ukusetha kabusha izilungiselelo". Ukuphila kwethu kuqukethe amasiko nemikhuba - eyaziwayo noma engathandeki. Bakha indawo eyaziwayo yokududuza, engasikhathaza ngesimiso esivamile. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi lolu dudu luba ngamaketanga ekubhujisweni kwemigomo yethu. Uma uphumelela ukuqala ibhizinisi elisha - zama ukuphula izinhlelo zokuziphatha zakudala. Uma usetshenziselwa ukuphuza ikhofi ngaphambi kokuba uqale umsebenzi onzima - uyishintshe ngomdanso weminithi eyishumi kumculo. Esikhundleni sokuzivocavoca kusasa ekuseni, yenza imibuthano embalwa ejikeleze indlu. Zama - kusebenza ngempela!

Isinyathelo 3 - dala uhlelo. Imininingwane eyengeziwe kuyoba - ngokushesha uzothola umphumela. Noma imuphi umgomo womhlaba wonke uyabesaba, kodwa ukwesaba kuyanyamalala - uma wenza imfundo ecacile. Ukunyakaza okuhamba kancane kodwa okuqinisekile kuyoholela ekuphumeleleni.