Mayelana nentuthuko yasenkulumeni namhlanje, mhlawumbe, abazali ababi kakhulu abazange bazizwe. Emashumini eminyaka asanda kutholakala, kutholakale ubufakazi obunamandla bokuthi amakhono amakhono wengqondo yengane angenamkhawulo kangakanani. Kodwa ngokufanayo, amazwi abanye, abahlonishwayo nabahlonishwayo abahlonishwayo, nabo bayazwakala: izazi zengqondo, othisha, odokotela. Ubuchopho obubuthakathaka kanye nesimiso sezinzwa zesibindi somuntu omncane sidinga isimo sengqondo esiqaphele kakhulu, futhi ukugqugquzela ngokweqile kwengqondo ngeke kulethele izinzuzo kuphela, kodwa kungabangela ukulimala okungenakuqhathaniswa kwengane. Iqiniso lonke mayelana nentuthuko yengane ngaphambi kwesikhathi - kulesi sihloko.
Ubani olungile?
Okunye okukhulu kweminye imibono yentuthuko yasenesikhathi kubangelwa ukuthi ngenxa yokubukeka kwabo, isimo sengqondo ngokuphathelene nezingane sishintshile kakhulu. Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo kuze kube yamuva nje, babhekwa njengabangenalutho, abangenalwazi, izidingo zabo ezinyangeni eziningi zancipha ukuba zondliwe futhi zome. Namuhla, abazali abacabangelayo bayazi ukuthi ngisho nendoda encane kunazo zonke isivele sinomuntu onesimo sengqondo nengqondo okufanele kubalwe nayo. Singakhuluma ngokuzethemba mayelana nokwakhiwa kwesiko lomzali omusha. Iminyaka eyishumi nambili-engamashumi amabili edlule eyedwa eyayiqalwa yodwa isiphendulwa, namuhla iba yinto enkulu. Abazali abaningi banzima izinsana, bafundise ukubhukuda futhi benze imishini yokuzivocavoca eyinkimbinkimbi futhi, ngempela, baqala ukuthuthukisa amakhono abo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, manje, lapho isizukulwane sokuqala sezingane esikhuliswa ngamaphayona okuthuthukiswa kwentuthuko sikhule, kubonakala ukuthi zingaki izigxobo ezithintekayo nokuthi zingaki izilingo ezilindele abazali abaye bahamba ngale ndlela.
I-circus yabantwana abaqeqeshiwe.
Lokhu kunzima kakhulu ukugwema. Kanjani ukumelana nokungabonisi izintombi ukuphumelela okumangalisayo kwengane ekufundeni, ukubhala, umculo. Ungakwazi kanjani ukukhathazeka ngamakhono akhe ngaphambi kwezihlobo zakho nabangane? Ungenqaba kanjani ukuhlanganyela emncintiswaneni wamathalenta amancane? Emva kwakho konke, inhliziyo yakho iyathandeka kanjani lapho ubona isiteji esikhulu umdanso omncane we-ballet ephaketheni elibala noma i-violinist encane eyenza ngokuzethemba ikhonsathi eyinkimbinkimbi? Kodwa-ke, okuhlangenwe nakho kubonisa ukuthi ukubonakaliswa kwethalenta ekuqaleni kubonakala kuyingozi kakhulu kokubili kwengane kanye nabazali. Ukubambisana ngenjabulo nezingane kuyashesha ukulungiswa nokulungiswa okungapheli kwemincintiswano nemincintiswano. Esikhundleni sokubonga okuqotho kuyofika ukungabi nalutho kanye nomncintiswano wokugijima wezimpumelelo ezintsha.
Uma enethalente ngempela, ngaphambi kwesikhathi ukuphoqa amakhono akhe kuyingozi kakhulu. Izingane, eziphethwe yiliphi ithalenta, zinesimiso sezinzwa esingazinzile kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, ukwelashwa okungenangqondo okucindezelwa izifiso zabazali kungabangela kalula ukukhathala kwemizwa ngisho nezifo ezimbi.
Izimpande zobunqunu bomzali.
Ake sizithembele thina ngokwethu: ezimweni eziyisishiyagalolunye ezivela eziyishumi, imbangela yentshiseko yabazali ukunganeliseki ngobuntwana bakho. Ngangifisa ngokuba ngumfundi ovelele kakhulu, kodwa angikwazi ukuthola izibalo nge-physics okungenani kuma-ezine. Ngaphupha ngokunqoba kwezemidlalo, kodwa benqatshelwe ngenxa yezizathu zempilo. Ngangifuna ukufunda ukuthi ngidlala kanjani i-violin, kodwa kwakungekho namahemuhemu ... Futhi ngokuzumayo, lapho ingane ibonakala, abazali bafunda ngokuthuthukiswa kokuqala. Kuvela ukuthi kukhona indlela eyisimangaliso yokuba noma yimuphi ingane ukuba iphenduke ingane enhle! Into esemqoka ukuqala ngesikhathi. "Ngemuva kwezintathu sekuphuzile kakhulu!" Amakhosi axwayisa kakhulu. Ingane yami ingazuza konke engingenakukwazi, ngokuqinisekile iyoba umfundi omuhle kakhulu, umculi, umdlali. Ukuphila komndeni wonke kuncike emqondweni omkhulu. Uzuze emsebenzini wakhe, unina, ukuthengwa kwezinzuzo kanye nokukhokha kwamakilasi kube yinto eyinhloko yesabelomali somndeni. Ugogo nogogo, obakazikazi, nabo, baxhunywe emncintiswaneni womndeni wonke. Kuyafaneleka: sikhuphula ingqondo! Ngesikhathi, ingane, mhlawumbe, ngenjabulo yabazali izokwenza konke okudingekayo kuye. Kodwa uma ekhula futhi kuvela ukuthi akaphuzi umsebenzi wakhe njengomdwebi, umdwebi noma izibalo, izimpi zangempela ziqala emndenini. Phela, egameni lekusasa lakhe, izisulu eziningi kangaka zahlatshwa! Phela, wazuza impumelelo enhle kangaka!
Ukudumazeka okungalindelekile kulindeleke ukuthi abapapa nabamama abafisa ukuvelela, uma kungazelelwe kuvele ukuthi ingane ekhulile ayifuni isiqongo sokuziqhenya kwengane yomntwana, kanti izingane zabazali abangaphasi kahle abaneminyaka yobudala abathintekayo kuphela, kodwa futhi baxosha ingane yabo. Ingane, ezwa sengathi ayihambisani nezilindele, izohlupheka kabi. Noma, nakakhulu nakakhulu, bayakubaza: ngaba abazali bayamthanda noma ngabe wayeyigugu kubo, kuphela ngenkathi ehlala eyiqhawe nomnqobi?
Ekuqaleni Noma Ngesikhathi?
Ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila, ubuchopho bomntwana bukhula ngokushesha, futhi ukuxhumana phakathi kwamangqamuzana e-nerve kwenziwa. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, usana lusithatha ulwazi oluningi mayelana naye kanye nezwe elizungezile. Khumbula ambalwa noma ngisho namakhulu emifanekiso noma imibono eyengeziwe ngaye - izimbalwa ezimbalwa. Ngakho-ke kungani ungafundisi ingane ukufunda, izibalo, umculo kule nkathi, kunokuba esikoleni, lapho ukukhula kobuchopho sekuphelile futhi noma yikuphi ukwaziswa kugcwele ubunzima obunzima kakhulu? Ngoba ngokwenza konke konke kubukeka okuhlukile. Lapho umntwana ezalwa, ubuchopho bakhe abukwakhiwa ngokugcwele futhi ezinyangeni zokuqala zikhula ngempela. Kodwa okokuqala, leyo minyango enomthwalo wemisebenzi elula kumele iqale ukuvuthwa: ukubona, ukuzwa, ukuthinta, ukusebenzisana kwezinyathelo, inkulumo. Futhi kuphela izingxenye zobuchopho ezinezici eziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu ezenziwe kusebenze: ingqondo, ukuqonda kwenkulumo ebhaliwe. Ingqondo yengane ipulasitiki eningi kakhulu, futhi uma ivuselelwe ukuthuthukiswa kwezigaba zayo ngaphambi kokuba abaphansi bavuthiwe, lokhu kungaholela ekubonakalisweni kwezimfanelo zakudala, kodwa emiphumeleni engafanelekile: ukulibaziseka ekuthuthukiseni amazwi, ukukhubazeka kwamakhono, ukuphazamiseka kwemvelo, ngisho ne-autism.
Ingabe lokhu kusho ukuthi udinga ukushiya umqondo wokuthuthukisa ikhono lomntwana usencane, ulibeka enkulisa, ngisho nase esikoleni? Cha nakancane. Ukuhlanganiswa okusebenzayo kolwazi kubaluleke kakhulu ngaphambi kwesikhathi sokubona kwayo. Uma phakathi nalesi sikhathi ingane ithola indawo ekhulayo, izofunda futhi ikhumbule konke lapho umzimba wakhe nobuchopho bakhe bekulungele khona, okungukuthi, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, futhi, mhlawumbe, ngaphambi kwesikhathi esivumelanisiwe. Lokhu, ngolimi lwe-pedagogy yesimanje, kuyindawo yokuthuthukiswa okungekho emthethweni. Ngakho-ke, uma ingane ivukile kusukela emasontweni okuqala okuphila kwakhe, ilele emathunjini akhe phansi noma enkundleni yokudlala, lapho kunezithoyizi eziningi ezithakazelisayo, angeke zikhahlele ezinqunyiwe eziyisithupha, kodwa ezinyangeni ezinhlanu noma ezine. Uma ingane efanayo igcinwa i-sabelutym esitokisini, ibeke isisu sayo imizuzu embalwa nje, ingakwazi ukuqala ukuhamba ngokuphawulekayo kunomkhawulo owedlule noma ukungaphuzi nhlobo. Okufanayo kungashiwo nganoma iyiphi enye insimu yomsebenzi. Ingane kufanele izwe inkulumo ebhekiswe kuye isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuba iqale ukukhuluma; bheka izinhlamvu namagama - ngaphambi kokuba baqale ukufunda, namapensela nemibala - ngaphambi kokudweba.
Ngamanye amazwi, ukukhuluma ngentuthuko yasenkulisa, sisho ukuthi ingane izokhula kungekudala kunokujwayelekile, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanele. Lokhu kungukuthi, hhayi ngemuva kokubeka. Kulokhu futhi kufanele ufune bonke abazali. Futhi ekugcineni, zamukele mina iqiniso lokuthi ingane ayikhokedi lutho kunoma ubani. Futhi mnike ukuba aphile.