Ungayigubha kanjani usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana ekhaya, ukuze lolu suku lungalokothi libalekele? Siza ingane yakho ibe ngumngane wokungenisa izihambi zoKuzalwa kwakhe, khona-ke uzokhumbula ngempela lolu suku, futhi lolu suku luzobe luyilo ngempela. Ungesabi ukuxokozela nomsindo ngobusuku obubodwa, zama ukwenza iholidi lijabule futhi lijabule. Kunezincomo eziningana ezisebenzayo zokulungiselela usuku lokuzalwa kwengane yakho futhi wenze iholide ngaye nabangane bakhe.
Qala ngokulungiselela usuku lwakho lokuzalwa okungenani amasonto amabili. Ngalesi sikhathi, uzoba nesikhathi sokukhuluma nohlu lwezingane lwabangani abamenyiwe. Myeke azitshele ukuthi bangabesilisa abavela kulo lonke igceke noma ekilasini lonke - bese ungamtshela ngokuhlakanipha ngenani eliphezulu lezivakashi, ngokusekelwe kubhajethi yomndeni kanye nobukhulu bendlu yakho. Ngemuva kokunquma ngezivakashi, khetha usuku lokugubha - kunengqondo ukunikela ingane yakho ukugubha iholidi ngeveke ngempelasonto, uma kungazelelwe usuku lokuzalwa lwenzeka ngosuku lwesonto. Zama ukucacisa ukuthi bonke abangane abaseduze bangafika ngalolu suku. Yebo, uma umeme izingane ezinekhadi leposi noma ngamazwi, wena nomntanakho, ukhombise ukuthi umkhosi uzokwenzeka isikhathi esingakanani. Kuyoba lula ngabazali bamenywa abamenywe - khona-ke bangakwazi ukukuthatha noma balinde isikhathi esithile. Yenza izimemo kusengaphambili: izinsuku ezine kuya kweyisikhombisa ngaphambi kokuzalwa "okusemthethweni". Faka ikheli lakho nenamba yocingo kusimemo. Ingane yakho ngokuqinisekile iyoba nesithakazelo ekuzameni nasekwenzeni amakhadi omemo, nabangane bayo bayoba nesithakazelo esifanayo ekutholeni.
Ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa kwengane ekhaya kuyamnandi, zama ukudala indawo yamaholide - ukuhlobisa igumbi ngamabhola, amathrekhi, iminsalo, udwebe iphosta "Siyakwamukela ku-Birthday!". Sebenzisa ithoni eyodwa engcono kumklamo. Isibonelo, amabhola ahlaza okwesibhakabhaka anqunywe ephepheni eliluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, uthathe izimbali eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, ubeke igalari Vumela izitsha ozilungiselela zizoba namagama amakhulu. Noma ubhale phansi kumafulegi ukuze uthole ukugqoka, uma izingane zingakwazi ukufunda.
Ukwenza izingane zizwe zikhululekile, zikhulule isikhala ekamelweni lokuzijabulisa. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi konke ingane yakho iye yajwayele - ukungathinti i-antique vase noma ukuvula ikhebhubhodi ngezinye izinyembezi ze-crystal - ezinye izingane zingase zingazazi ngalokhu futhi ekuphakameni komdlalo nje ungaboni izinto ezinjalo. Hlela itafula ukuze ivuleke ngokwanele, yenza indawo yodonga ukuze ukwazi ukuhambisa itafula, wenze indawo yemidlalo.
Ingane yakho ibaluleke kakhulu, ukuze umama abukeke kahle, ngakho cabanga ngokubukeka kwakho kusengaphambili. Zinike umoya emva kwakho konke okulungiselelwe okungenani isigamu sehora ngaphambi kokuba izivakashi zizitholele wena kanye nengane yakho ngendlela efanele.
Lapho uhlangana nezihambeli ngempela nomsunguli womkhosi, zama ukunikeza izingane ukuthi uzizwe unethemba - ngitshele ukuthi zibukeka kanjani zihle namhlanje, uphawu okuthile ekubukeni kwazo. Zibophe izinwele noma izingubo zakho uma kunesidingo, zisize ziphazamise futhi zibonise ukuthi isibuko siyini. Uma ugubha usuku lokuzalwa lendodakazi yakho, zama ukunikeza indawo noma igumbi lokugqoka abangane bakhe.
Thola izivakashi ezivele zifike ngamathoyizi wengane, kanti ezinye ziqoqa. Zama ukungahlali phansi etafuleni, ungabheki izingane ngaphambi kwesikhathi, uma kungenzeka, zimboze izitsha ngamaphilangwe. Vala umnyango ekhishini, ungashiyi izimangalo ezilungiselelwe emehlweni. Qala ukudlala imidlalo nezingane, lapho iningi lezivakashi selivele likhona emhlanganweni, lizosiza izingane ukuba zibe ngcono futhi zisetshenzisane, kanye nabantu abangabazi - ukwenza abangane. Kunemidlalo yokwazana, iwusizo ngokukhethekile ezinganeni ezincane ezizizwa zizethemba kakhulu ngababili. Isibonelo, lo mdlalo: unqume izinhliziyo ezivela ephepheni elihlukahlukene elinemibala bese uzigaxa uhhafu, uthathe ama-halves ungene esikhwameni bese uxuba, uphakamisa ukuthi izingane zikhishwe ucezu olulodwa bese zithola ingxenye yawo. Uma inani lezimenywa lingavamile, yika inhliziyo eyodwa ibe yizicucu ezintathu. Omunye umdlalo osondelene: lungiselela ubude obufanayo bezintambo ezinemibala, cishe ngamamitha ayi-2, uwafake phansi phansi, uhlanganise, akeke ngamunye athathe ukuphela kwanoma iyiphi intambo futhi athole umlingani wakhe emgqeni.
Futhi-ke, zonke izivakashi eziqoqweni - yisikhathi setafula! Yilungele, ukuthi okuthile kuzothululela futhi kuphulwe, kugcinwe ngobuningi bemifino. Lungisa isidlo esingeke sibe nesihawu ukuphuka, nje-ukulahlekelwa, sebenzisa izibuko ezisezingeni eliphansi. Beka zonke izitsha ngendlela yokuthi wonke umuntu angafinyelela ngayo. Futhi phakathi netafula, yebo, uhlele ikhekhe namakhandlela. Ungakhathazeka ngokuvunwa okuzayo kusengaphambili, ngakho-ke lungiselela amapayipi anjalo, amakhukhi namaqebelengwane angeke aqhubeke kakhulu. Ungazami ukumangala izingane ngokungenasidingo ngezitsha zabo, inombolo yezinhliziyo kwikhekhe, sebenzisa ukhilimu omncane. Sika ama-pie namaqebelengwane zibe yizicucu ezincane ukuze zilungele ukuthatha. Ama-sandwich kufanele futhi abe ngosayizi amancane. Vumela ube neziphuzo ezanele. Ungenza isiraphu noma umane ugezeze ujamu ngamanzi, kodwa qinisekisa ukuthi iziphuzo azikona kakhulu. Lapho ushisa itiye, ngokushesha ucabange ukuthi kuthatha amanzi amaningi ukushisa. Unamanzi abilayo abilisiwe, ukuze ukwazi ukunciphisa itiye elishisayo.
Ngemuva kokuthi "umkhosi" usuphelile, mema izivakashi ukuthi zizilungiselele: zihlanganise izinwele zazo, ugeze izandla. Zama ukukhipha ngokushesha kusuka etafuleni, zibandakanya abasizi abancane. Lungiselela ama-masks noma i-headgear ukuze ujabule ngokwengeziwe, okungadlalwa phakathi kwezingane ku-lottery win-win "ekamelweni lesibili" leholidi lakho. Ngento ngayinye, faka inombolo, yenza amakhadi afanele ngezinombolo. Amaski nezigqoko zifihle amehlo ebantwaneni, isibonelo, ukumboza nge-handkerchief. Beka amakhadi etafuleni ubheke phansi, ufihle inombolo, noma uwabeke esitsheni. Ukudweba ikhadi, umhlanganyeli ngamunye womdlalo uthola umklomelo wakhe - i-mask noma isigqoko. Cabanga ngamageyimu lapho abathathu abaphumelele khona bangazuzwa ngemiklomelo, kodwa zama ukuguqula imidlalo ibe ukuphishekela izipho. Ukuze wenze lokhu, amanye amageyimu nemiklomelo nalabo abangenawo umqhubi. Imiklomelo ingase ibonakale ipeni, amapensela, amapeni, puzzle, izibuko, amabheji, amasosha nezinye izipho.
Ngesikhathi sokugubha usuku lokuzalwa kwengane ekhaya, zama ukunaka zonke izivakashi ezincane, ungabhalisi umuntu ngokukhethekile. Uma enye yezingane ingasheshi ukujoyina inkampani futhi ihlezi ekhoneni, ungafaki isimemo, sebenzisa amanye amathuba, isibonelo, ukunikela ukukusiza ukuthi ulethe okuthile etafuleni noma uhambise izihlalo. Bamba izivakashi ezincane ngamagama, ugweme ukwelashwa okunjalo nabo "njengezingane." Uma uthi: "Bantwana, manje sizoba nomdlalo omnandi," cabanga ukuthi akekho owake wakuzwa, futhi uzothola udumo, njengoCrarade Dynin ekamu lamaphayona. Uma kunomsindo omkhulu endlini yakho, iholide laliyimpumelelo. Uma ubudala beminyaka engaba ngu-12, khona-ke lungiselela lokho okudingayo ukungenelela ukuze izingane zingahlali ekucabangeni, zingazi ukuthi zenzeni.
Kunconywa ukukhetha imidlalo ojwayelene nayo, ngakho akudingeki uphinde uphinde usebenze. Zama ukushintsha amanye amageyimu ahambayo, lapho ungakwazi ukufudumala uphinde wenze umsindo nge-desktop i-computer ethule, lapho ungabonisa khona ubuhlakani bakho nobuhlakani bakho. Ukushintsha phakathi kwemidlalo, izingane ngeke zikwazi ukukhululeka noma "zilale". Ungakhohlwa ukuchaza imininingwane ngokuningiliziwe ngaphambi komdlalo ngamunye. Bamba iqhaza kulo mdlalo njengomholi noma njengomhlanganyeli, kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi awukwazi ukudala izinzuzo zethimba odlala kulo
Ngokujwayelekile izingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-12, amahora angu-4-5 omnandi anele. Futhi nakuba bazokugqugquzela ukuba udlulise isikhathi, unganikeli! Uma isikhathi sisondela ekupheleni, qala ukulungiselela izingane isikhathi esizayo, lapho ngamunye wabo elinde ekhaya. Ekupheleni kweholide, ukunikeza izinkumbulo ngendlela yama-candies, isibonelo, qiniseka ukuthi zifana. Noma ungawahlukanisa zibe yizinkumbulo zabafana namantombazane. Hlanganisa "izintambo" ezingakhohlwayo ongakwazi kuzikhwama ezivamile ze-cellophane. Ungakhohlwa ukubonga zonke izivakashi ezincane ngokuza ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa kwengane yakho ekhaya futhi uhalalisele umfana wokuzalwa, futhi ubonise ithemba lokuba nomhlangano wokuqala nabo.