Kungani abesifazane bezama ukuheha abantu? Lokhu kungavunyelwa amahora. Abesifazane abakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokunakekelwa kwamadoda, njengoba nje amadoda angakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokunakekelwa kwabesifazane. Abesifazane abaningi babevame ukuzibuza ukuthi bangadonsa kanjani abantu. Ukwenza lokhu, udinga ukwazi zonke izicabucabu ze-psychology, kanye nokuthanda nokuthandwa komuntu wakho okhethiwe.
Ngakho-ke wakhulelwa ngokwemvelo, ukuthi owesifazane ongenamuntu awutholakali, futhi kuphela abesifazane abaqine kakhulu abazokwenza isinqumo salokhu, umbono wabo ozoholela engelutho. Kuwo wonke owesifazane, isifiso sokubeletha ingane, ukwakha umndeni, futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuthandana nokuthandwa, kuyinto enemvelo. Lokhu, mhlawumbe, kuyinjongo ephawulekayo kakhulu.
Kodwa yini okumele yenziwe ukudala ubudlelwane obuseduze phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane ozobaholela emshadweni ojabulisayo? Izazi zengqondo ziqinisekile ukuthi ngaphansi komuntu ngamunye, uhlobo lomlingani olufanele kakhulu kithi lubekwe ekuqaleni. Emva kwakho konke, sithandwa ngokungathí sina abantu abathile, ukubukeka komuntu, iphunga, ukuziphatha. Ubuhlobo obude kakhulu kunabo bonke buqala ngokudlala ngothando, kodwa okokuqala udinga ukuheha umlingani wakho. Okokuqala, udinga ukuthola ukuthi ungubani umuntu othanda kakhulu. Kuzodingeka ukhange umuntu oyedwa, hhayi wonke olandelanayo. Ngokwezengqondo ze-psychologists, kudingeka "sihlele" umfana wamaphupho akho. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukubhala ephepheni zonke lezo zimfanelo ongathanda ukuzibona ensizweni yakho. Futhi-ke kufanelekile ukubhala ukuthi kungaba yini okufisa ukubona, kodwa ngabe ngabe uphile. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi abantu abalungile abakho, ngakho-ke uma kunjalo, cabanga bese ubhala phansi ephepheni amaphutha okusolakala ukuthi angeke akwenze ukucasuka nokunganeliseki. Ungase ungavumelani nale ndlela, kodwa iyosebenza kuphela ngaphansi kwethonya yengqondo yakho engaphansi kwengqondo. Ukuqaphela ukuheha komuntu akulula, kukwanele ukuzithanda wena nokubukeka kwakho.
Udinga ukuyeka ukucabanga ngakho konke ukushiyeka kwakho, ngoba abesifazane ezimweni eziningi bafika ngokwabo ngokwehluleka ngokwabo, kusukela ekuqaleni. Khumbula ukuthi owesifazane ohlale ejabule, ejabule, enethemba, enhle, uzohlale eheha abantu. Esikhathini sethu, iningi labesifazane alijabuli ngokwabo kanye nokubukeka kwabo. Phonsa konke ukubandlulula okuvela ekhanda futhi uqaphele ukuthi uma ugxila kakhulu ekuphutheni kwakho, nakakhulu uzosongela omunye umuntu futhi ngeke ukwazi ukunaka umuntu. Udinga ukuzama wonke amandla akho ukuba abe amahle, kodwa akunandaba ukuthi ukuphakama kwakho kukuphi, yikuphi umbala izinwele zakho. Zizwa ukhululekile ukugcizelela sonke isithunzi sakho, ngazo zonke izindlela ulahle ukuhluleka kwakho, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu khumbula njalo ukuthi uhle!
Ukuhlanzeka
Ubuhle besifazane buhlobene nokuhlanzeka nokuhlanza - umzimba, izinwele, ilineni, izicathulo nezingubo. Izingubo ezingcolile, ukuphefumula kabi noma iphunga lokujuluka, izinwele ezingcolile - konke lokhu akumukeleki kowesifazane. Kukholelwa ukuthi amadoda ngokuyinhloko anake izinwele zowesifazane, ukuze ukuhlanzeka nokuheha kwabo kubaluleke kakhulu empumelelweni.
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Esinye sezigaba ezibalulekile ukuheha ukunakekelwa izimonyo kanye nokwenza kahle. Wonke owesifazane usebenzisa izimonyo futhi ngamunye wenza ngendlela ehlukile. Uma usebenzisa ukwakheka okunekhono, kuzokukwenza ube mnandi, futhi uma kunalokho, uzobukeka ungancibilikile futhi ungathandeki. Ukumisa okuqhakazile kakhulu nokuqhakazile kuyokwesabisa umuntu. Kodwa amadoda atholakale engaqakatheki ukubaluleka kwezimonyo, ngokuvamile avame ukuthi abesifazane banhle ngaphandle kwalo, ngokwabo. Ungaboni kakhulu izimonyo, ungakhathazeki ngokuthi ungagcina kanjani ubuso bakho konke okwenziwe.
Umfanekiso nesisindo
Umfanekiso - lokhu mhlawumbe isihloko esibuhlungu kunazo zonke kwabesifazane abaningi. Izinhlobo zomzimba zihluke ngokuphelele, futhi uma unamathambo amakhulu kusukela ekuzalweni, khona-ke ungasebenzisa izidlo eziningi, futhi ngaphandle kokufinyelela okhalweni oluncane kanye namathanga amancane. Ngokudla okunzima udinga ukucabanga kuphela kulezo zimo lapho isibalo sakho siphuca amafutha amaningi, okuvela kuyo lapho kugujwa khona amagundane. Qala ukudla ngendlela efanele, ngena emidlalweni, ukuze ungagijimi isibalo sakho.
Indlela yokugqoka
Indlela yokugqoka, ukuze amadoda aqale ukukhokha konke? Ngenxa yalokhu, asikho isidingo sokulwela imfashini. Ukugqoka kuyadingeka ukuze kugcizelele konke ubuhle bayo, isimo, ukuze abantu, bakubheke, bayakujabulela ukunambitheka kwakho nokuheha. Amadoda amaningi afana nawo kakhulu lapho owesifazane egqoke egqoke, iziketi nge-slit, izinto ezikhululekile. Izambatho zidinga ukuthenga ezifanelekile, ukuze zikufanele.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuzithanda wena ukuthi ungubani, hhayi ukukhohlwa mayelana nemfanelo yakho bese kuzokuba lula kakhulu ukuheha umuntu.