Izincwadi eziningi zilotshwe mayelana nezinduna nabafazi. Kuyathakazelisa kakhulu futhi kujabulise ukufunda amazwana kule akhawunti kwizigcawu. Lapho ungabona masinyane lapho inkosikazi, nalapho umkakhe ... Kukhona nezimpendulo zalabo abavele bazwelana nalokhu noma lo wesifazane. Kodwa ngokumangazayo, mhlawumbe, izinkolelo zabanye abafazi mayelana nezinduna. Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka, ufunda futhi uqonde ukuthi abesifazane, njengokungathi abakwazi ukuhlukanisa imibala. Unkosikazi - lokhu ngokuqinisekile kuyi-bitch kanye ne-bitch, kahle, abafazi bangama-swans amhlophe. I-Bitch-lover ukuphuza igazi kanye nemali kubayeni ... Kukhona lezi zindlovu, angikuphikisana. Kodwa-ke, iningi labesifazane abanjalo, abangekho nhlobo njengezinambuzane noma izidumbu, bafuna injabulo evamile yabesifazane ... Ngakho manje sizosusa izinkondlo ...
Inkolelo yenombolo 1. "U-Onasama wagijima phezu kwakhe ..."
Yiqiniso, esikhathini sethu abesifazane baqina futhi isinyathelo siphumelela. Kodwa-ke, amadoda, njengasendulo, ahlale abaholi, futhi futhi baba abaqalile amanoveli omshado. Bazama ukuncoma, bacele inombolo yocingo, banike izipho nezimbali, bameme ngosuku, ukushayela, isithembiso, ukukholisa nokuvuma ...
Abaningi bayahamba nabesifazane abafana namakati futhi banxusa abajwayelene ukuba bangatshele ukuthi bashadile, ukuze bangabesabi owesifazane abathandekayo. Khona-ke esikoleni bathanda amanothi nezipho. Uma i-"zhenatiki" ithola ukuthi unomsebenzi wokuzilibazisa, isibonelo, uqoqa izigqoko ze-crystal, zihudula amaphakethe azo ezivela phesheya uma zihamba uhambo lwebhizinisi ... Abesifazane bawina amadoda, kodwa hhayi enye indlela! Phawula lokhu, mfazi othandekayo!
Inkolelo yenombolo yesi-2. "Ekhanda lami umcabango owodwa kuphela - ukubhubhisa umndeni wethu ..."
Lapho abathandi bejika amanoveli namadoda ashadile, abafuni njalo ukuchitha umndeni futhi babambe indoda. Lokhu kufana nokusemusha, lapho abantu behlangana, kodwa abakhulumi ngomshado.
Abaningi (kodwa hhayi bonke) abacindezelayo bathi bashadile iminyaka eminingana kumadoda ashadile, kodwa abengeke bamshade naye. Ngenxa yokuthi bayaqonda: ngokufika komshado, uthando luyalala futhi imihlangano yemikhosi iba yinkinga yomndeni. Zithathwa izinkinga ngokulandelana kanye nokulangazelela okuqhubekayo. Ngakho-ke, abathandi abafuni ukushada ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngisho noma amadoda evuma ukushiya umndeni. Kungcono kakhulu ukuhlangabezana nayo yonke imihlangano ngokuthuthumela, izimbali, izipho, isidlo sothando kanye nocansi oluvuthayo, futhi emva kokuphila komshado kuzoba vobedennost.
Inkolelo yenombolo yesithathu. "Awukwazi ukwakha injabulo enhlekeleleni yomunye umuntu ..."
Izindlebe azivumelani nalesi sahlulelo. Baqiniseka ukuthi ukuhlakanipha okunjalo kwakhiwe ngumfazi olahliwe. Ekuqaleni, injabulo yanoma yikuphi inkosikazi yinkinga yomuntu. Noma kunjalo, khumbula wena eminyakeni yakho yokufunda. Wonke umuntu wayekhululekile, futhi akekho oshadile. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi zingaki izinhliziyo ezaphukile? Bangaki abafana ababetha amantombazane nokuthi bangaki amantombazane athathe abafana kude nabanye? Kodwa-ke, akekho owahlukunyezwa ngomuzwa wokuthi wenze okuthile komuntu kabi, kodwa ngokuphambene nalokho, wayeziqhayisa njalo ukuthi wakwazi ukuthatha lo mfana kude nomncintiswano wakhe. Futhi manje, lapho beshada nomfana owayedluliwe, bakhumbula ukuthi othile ubuhlungu.
Inkolelo yenombolo 4. "Sasiyindoda enhle futhi enhle kakhulu. Wabhubhisa konke ... "
Kwadlule isikhathi esingakanani. Kungani indoda ingaqala inkosikazi uma ithanda futhi ithanda umkayo, kungani engaziwa kuye, uma ekulungele ukunikela impilo yakhe ngenxa yabathandekayo, futhi ucabange izinsuku ngezinsuku okumelwe amnike yona nokuthi angammangaza kanjani ensimini? Izindlebe azikwazi ukubhubhisa, okuye kwabhujiswa isikhathi eside. Uma i-parasite ekwehlisweni kwenhlonipho nokuzwelana, ekugqaseni komthando omkhulu, akumele kusimangaze ukuthi inkosikazi
Inkolelo yenkolelo engu-5. "Kungani ethatha umyeni wami, akakwazi yini ukuthola umuntu ongenalutho? Cha, udinga ukushayela ne-bitchiness njengoba kudingekile ukuthuthukisa ... "
Uma eminyakeni engama-30-40 umuntu engenawo umndeni, ke uyaqonda ukuthi lokhu akusikho okwenzekayo. Akakwazi ukukhathalela noma ubani, kungaba umlutha wezidakamizwa, i-parasite, i-alcoholic, noma i-egoist eyithandayo, njalonjalo.
Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi amadoda akha umndeni, lapho kufika isikhathi, lapho udinga ukushada. Bashada, ukuze abantu bawaqonde kahle, ukuze bangaboni imibono ye-idiotic, abahlambalazi ukuthi banezinkimbinkimbi eziningi, abaphazamanga nentuthuko yabo emkhakheni wezemisebenzi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amadoda ayazibopha ngomshado ukuze umuntu azinakekele - adala uzwela futhi aduduze endlini, alungiselele kwasekuseni nasemini. Yebo, kukhona, amadoda ashada ngenxa yothando olukhulu futhi oluhlanzekile, lapha awukwazi ukuphikisana.
Inganekwane "№ 6. "Akukho lutho lokubuka omunye umuntu ..."
Yeka indlela okudabukisayo okwakungeke kuzwakale kudabukisayo, kodwa emva komshado, abesifazane baphakamisa izandla, becabanga ukuthi "kwenziwe okwenziwe". Baqiniseka ukuthi kusukela ngesikhathi sokubhala ehhovisi lokubhalisa, umyeni uyisakhiwo sabo. Kumelwe bazi ukuthi kuphi, kuphi, kuphi, umyeni, ukuthi ucabangani manje, uphupha lapho ebuyela ekhaya. Bazizwa ukuthi umyeni uyinto yabo, futhi ama-mistress yizigebengu ezihlasela ubudlelwano bazo. Nokho, umuntu ungumuntu, kodwa akuyona into. Umyeni wakho unezifiso zakhe kanye nemizwa yakhe. Futhi banesifiso esinjalo lapho befuna ukwenza into engavumelekile.
Inkolelo yenombolo engu-7. "Indlovukazi owesifazane oziphethe kabi!"
Mhlawumbe udinga ukufunda imisebenzi yabalobi baseRashiya noma base-Ukraine abangakwazi ukucacisa ingqondo. Akuwona wonke ama-mistress aziphatha kabi nokuziphatha okubi. Abaningi babo banomusa kakhulu, bengenalo igremu le-bitchiness. Ungafaki konke usayizi owodwa kufaka konke. Kunezibonelo eziningi lapho amantombazane afundiswa kakhulu, aphethe futhi aqotho, angenawo inhlanhla empilweni yabo siqu. Kodwa ngokufika komuntu othanda kakhulu ababa ... Lokhu kungukuphila ...
Inkolelo yenkolelo engu-8. "Ufuna kuphela imali kuye ..."
Akufanelekile ukucabangela ... Kulula kakhulu ukuthola imali ehloniphekile kunokuthola umuntu omuhle. Indoda ongayithanda ngempela. Abesifazane abaneminyaka engama-30 no-30 banomsebenzi omuhle, abafelwa ukulamba, abahambi emgwaqweni ngamanetha okudoba noma ama-rags.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi akubona bonke abantu abahlukaniswa ukuphana kwabo ekuphathweni kwabo, njengabafazi abajwayele ukucabanga. Iningi lemali kunoma ngubani oya emndenini wabafazi. Futhi izipho kuphela ezingavamile ezingathinti isabelomali semindeni, wehla ezinkampanini ...
Yiqiniso, kunabesifazane abafuna indoda ngemali. Kodwa manje akukhona ngabo.
Inkolelo yenkolelo 9. "Banikeza izingane isibonelo?"
Izingane ezisencane zisakwazi ukufunda ngakho. Yebo, izingane ezindala azisekho ezincane, zizoqonda futhi ziqonde konke ... Imfundo iyinkqubo esekelwe kuphela kwizibonelo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuqinisekile abafazi abaphelele. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi bangaziqhayisa ngokuthi bahlale bekeza izingane izibonelo ezinhle kuphela.
Inkolelo yenombolo yeshumi. "Akakwazi ngisho nokucabanga ukuthi ..."
Ngabe inkosikazi izongena endaweni yowesifazane nokuthi yini? Ucabanga ukuthi ukhona esakhiweni somgcini weqembu elilahlekelwe emqhudelwaneni wezwe? Noma ukuthi emva kokumxosha indodakazi yakhe esikhungweni futhi enikeza isifumbathiso kumuntu ofanele, bayamncisha umfundi owayekulungele kangcono? Uzimele endaweni yincintisana, oshaya futhi usayine inkontileka kuqala?
Ekuphileni, kubalulekile ukulwa njalo futhi akukho mkhuba ungayeki. Kumelwe silwele injabulo yethu, futhi kulo mpi wonke umuntu ulwa naye. Ungacabangi ngokuziphatha! Kungcono ukucabanga ngalokho okwenzayo okungalungile uma umyeni ekushiya omunye wesifazane. Yenza iziphetho, ungamangaleli umphikisi wakho konke okwakucabangile, abaroyi beli yizinganekwane ezijwayelekile.
Inkolelo yenkolelo 11. Abakhohlisi banikeza wonke umuntu imizwa nemizwelo, kodwa ekugcineni bahlala bodwa.
Kuyiqiniso, kodwa kuphela uma bengumnikazi we-proprietress. Intombazane echitha ubudlelwane nomuntu oshadile, ingakha ubuhlobo kanye nokuphila okuhlukile ngokufanayo, akekho ongamphazamisa kulokhu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma emthola injabulo, angakwazi ukuhlukanisa nomthandi wakhe, abathandi bothando abanakho okunye okumele bakwenze.