Yini esikwenzayo uma kunakekelwa okwanele noma ukukhululeka? Njengawo wonke umuntu ohlakaniphile - siyisebenzisa. Phela, kuyadingeka ukuthi uzuze esimweni ngasinye. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi, esimeni sezinkinga zezenzakalo, sikhohlwa ngezinkinga ezingenzeka. Ngihlangana nabafana ababili, lokhu kuzoholela kuphi?
Isibindi kanye nesifiso sezinkathazo azipheli ngokwabo, kodwa enye yezindlela zokufeza impumelelo. Ukuhlangana nabafana ababili ngesikhathi esisodwa kungenye yezingozi ezingokwengqondo, okusobala njengokuhlolwa esikoleni, eyunivesithi, ukwazi abazali bomuntu othandekayo, ukuxoxa ngomsebenzi. Ake sibheke ekuqaleni, kungani isimo sivela - "Ngihlangana nabafana ababili," lokhu kuzoholela nini esikhathini esizayo esiseduze?
Okokuqala, ake sichaze: ingabe ufuna abantu abaningi ukuzizuzisa noma nje ukugebha ngezimo? Mhlawumbe uthanda ama-adventures, abanalo isithakazelo, kodwa isipiliyoni sokuphila - okungaphezu kokwanele. Uma kunjalo, ungumuntu othakazelisayo. Abazihambelayo bangamantombazane abaziphatha njengamantombazane amancane angazibophezeli ngokwabo izenzo zabo, kodwa futhi afuna ukubonakala. Ngalesi sizathu, uhlangana nabafana ababili ukuze ugcine ukuzethemba, imizwa emisha noma ukuhleka, lokhu ngokucacile ngeke kuholele kunoma yini enhle. Ngesinye isikhathi, kuyoba nenani eliphakeme - futhi amakhadi akho amacilongo azovulwa. Kungase kube nezinkinga nabathandekayo bakho, owamthathela, izintaba zezinkinga nokuchaza akuyona inqubo enhle kakhulu. Awu, yini oyifunayo, lapho uhlangana nabafana ababili, yilokho okwaholela esimweni esicasulayo? Ngenxa yokubona noma ukuhlangenwe nakho, uyaqonda ukuthi abagibeli bangabantu abajabule kakhulu noma abajabuli kakhulu, kodwa futhi akufanele bahlangane nabo. Ngakho-ke, kungenxa yakho, kungumdlalo wokuzijabulisa, noma umdlalo wokuphila.
Kodwa uma ungesiyena othakazelisayo, kodwa nje uhamba ngezimo? Uyoba yini umphumela wokuhlangana nabafana ababili? Ake sicabangele lolu khetho. Uyakuthanda ukunakwa, nakuba intombazane ingathandi ukunakwa. Usuvele uthandana nomfana futhi konke kubonakala kuhle. Kodwa-ke kukhona omunye umkhonto oqinekile ovela, ozama nje ukuthatha ukuvinjezelwa kwenqaba yenhliziyo yakho. Uyathandwa ngabantu, ngoba unesithakazelo, naphezu kokuthi usuvele uhamba emshadweni - kuyamjabulisa wonke intombazane, ngoba usakwazi ukube wesifazane futhi ekhangayo. Esikhathini sosizi kanye nokuzijabulisa kwezenzakalo, awuqapheli indlela engozini. Futhi lokhu akusho ukuthi ungeyena omubi futhi ongekhohlisayo wanquma ukukhetha isimo esikahle sokusebenzisa abakhokheli ababili. Awukwazi ukukhetha ukuthi ubani ozoshiya, futhi ubani okufanele abe nalokhu akukuphumuli. Kunoma yikuphi, lolu daba luzoxazululwa kusenesikhathi, kunalokho uma luzophuza kakhulu - futhi uzohlala emgodini ophukile. Yiba nesibindi futhi ungazakheli izimo ezingathandeki, ngoba lokho bekungeke kube yindawo, ukuhlangabezana nabafana ababili ngeke kuholele kunoma yini enhle.
Esinye isizathu salesi simo "Ngihlangana nabafana ababili" ithonya lenkampani. Ubuza ukuthi kuyini? Manje ngizochaza. Ake sithi unomphakathi wokuthi unabangane abaningi, ngokulandelana, izinkampani eziningana. Kuzo zonke izinkampani kukhona okungenani oyedwa osemusha ozokuheha, kuhle uma umuntu engashiyi ibhande. Ngakho-ke, ekubeni enkampanini efanayo, kukhona izintombi zeluleki ozothi: "Kungani ungaqala ukubona uSasha, Kolya, noma omunye umuntu?". Uzocabangela, futhi kungani kungenjalo, futhi ngokuqinisekile ngalesi sikhathi awucabangi ngalokho okuzoholela khona. Isimo esifanayo sivela kwenye umphakathi. Ama-Compasses anezintshisekelo ezahlukene, ngokulandelana, nabantu abahluke ngokuphelele, bathathwa izinto ezahlukene, banezinye izikhundla ezibalulekile. Uyakuthanda, ngaphezu kwalokho kukufanele. Ngobusuku noSasha kusuka enkampanini yokuqala ukhuluma ngezimoto, uzethula njengengcweti yobuchwepheshe bomshini. Futhi kungani, hhayi yonke impilo yakho mayelana namadonki aqala ukukhuluma. Kusasa no-Andrew besuka kwenye inkampani, bexoxa ngezindlela zakamuva zendawo yaseshashalazini yomhlaba, uhola ingxoxo enjalo yezwe. Futhi njengalaba bantu ababili bahlukile futhi kubonakala sengathi bobabili bahle. Kodwa lapha kufika umzuzu: uhlangana nabafana ababili, umcabango uvela: yini ezoholela kuyo? Okungenani lutho, uma bengazi, bangabi nabo abajwayele futhi bahlala ezingxenyeni ezihlukene zomuzi. Lokhu kungashiwo ngokuthi i-jackpot futhi uyinqobe. Futhi uma befunda esikoleni esisodwa, noma okungenani esikoleni esisodwa? Khona-ke kufanelekile ukucabanga ngalokhu: yini okufanele ukwenze, ngoba awufuni izinkinga kunoma ubani. Kunezinketho ezimbili zokuxazulula isimo. Owokuqala ukuqhubeka nomoya ofanayo, ukujabulela amadoda ahlukene, azi ukuthi kuzoba nokushintshashintsha, kodwa ungakhathazeki ngalokhu. Okwesibili ukukhetha: noma ubani oseduze nawe, ofuna ukuhlala naye, ngenxa yalokho, ukususa isithiyo esisodwa, ungakujabulela ngokugcwele ukunakekelwa ohlangothini olulodwa. Uma kunjalo, uzokwazi ukujabula ukuthi lapho uhlangana nabafana ababili, akuholeli lutho olubi.
Enye indlela yokuhlangana nabafana ababili ngokuzithandela. Ngizochaza, uhlangana nomfana, futhi akakhokhi ukunakekelwa okwanele kuwe, kucacile ukuthi ufuna ukuthokoza kwabanye. Ufuna ukugcwalisa lokho okungaqondakali, lokhu kungokwemvelo, isimo samantombazane yilo, sizungezwe ngamadoda nokufudumala. Kulokhu, imihlangano emibili ingabangela ekubuyiselweni komuntu oyedwa ongadingekile oyovuma omunye nomunye kuzo zonke izici, omunye umuntu uzohlala esesikhalazweni, kodwa hhayi wena. Kodwa kungase kube nenye indlela, njengenjwayelo, uzoba ngokweqile njengenhlobo yentombazane engenakunyakazeka, okungekho okwanele kuye. Ukuzikhethela kungokwakho!
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