Akungabazeki ukuthi lokhu kuyadingeka.
Okungenani ukuze avikele inzalo yakhe ekudakwa nasezidakamizweni. Ekuboneni kokuqala, lokhu kuzwakale kungavamile, kodwa kukhona ukuxhumana phakathi kwesiko sangaphakathi somuntu kanye nokulutha. Ngakho-ke, ososayensi baseNgilandi, lapho bexoxwa nabantu abangaphezu kwenkulungwane, bathola ukuthi phakathi kwabalandeli bomculo we-classical, kuphela abaphendula abangu-1.5% "bangabangane ibhodlela". Ngenkathi abalandeli abangu-24% be-hip-hop nomculo we-electronic ukuhlukumeza utshwala, izidakamizwa futhi bashintsha abalingani bobulili, njengeglavu. Nokho, lokhu akuwona ukuvula. Ngisho nomfilosofi wasendulo waseShayina u-Xun Tzu wabhala: "Lapho umculo ungenalutho futhi unonya, abantu baxoshwa futhi banesizotha, basendle futhi bayakufanelekela ukudelelwa." Okufanayo kungashiwo ngezincwadi ezingenalutho, amabhayisikobho, imidlalo ... Ngakho-ke, uma ufisa ingane ikusasa elingcono, qala inqubo ye "acculturation" ngokuphuthumayo!
"Murka" noma "i-Nutcracker"?
Yiqiniso, kuzodingeka siqale nathi. Ungagcwalisa indlu ngezincwadi zobuciko, kuyilapho wena ngokwakho ubuka "Dom-2"; ungavimbela ingane ukuba ibeke izimbotfo etafuleni, futhi uphonsa ipuleti ngemuva kokudla; ungafaka amakhodi wezingane, futhi wena ngokwakho ulalele ingoma - qiniseka ukuthi ingane ngeke ikholwe ngamazwi akho, kodwa ukuziphatha kwakho. Bese uyikopisha. Akuyona into engaqondakali ukuthi izingane eziningi zabadlali, abalobi kanye nabaculi bayavuma ukuthi abazali abazange 'bazigcizelele' - babehlale bephethe izincwadi ezihlakaniphile endlini, izivakashi ezithakazelisayo zafika nomculo omuhle wezwakala. Ngendlela, ngomculo. Ososayensi baye bafakazela ukuthi kakade ngesonto lama-18-20 lokukhulelwa umntwana uyakwazi ukubona umculo. Ikakhulukazi imizwa, isibonelo imisebenzi kaMozart noVivaldi. Ngakho-ke, uma uhlele ukuzala omunye umntwana, faka kuye ukunambitheka okuhle komculo ngisho nangaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe. Kodwa-ke, uma ubuphuzile ngokuqeqeshwa "okukhulelwe," konke akulahlekile. Faka phakathi nezingane ezinomculo ohlukile - hhayi izingoma zezingane kuphela, kodwa futhi ezindala, i-jazz, i-folklore. Into esemqoka ukuthi kungumculo wekhwalithi, hhayi izimpahla zabathengi eshibhile, ezidlalwa kuzo zonke iziteshi. Ochwepheshe bayeluleka ukuqala nge-jazz - kulula ukubona, futhi kuphela lapho ungalalela izigaba. Buza ingane ukuthi imizwa yimuphi umaka noma omunye umculo owenza kuyo ubangelwa yini. Lisho ukuthini lo msebenzi, ngaphandle kwalokho inzalo izolala ebusweni. Awubheke incazelo efihlekile ekuculeni kwe-nightingale - nje ujabulela ama-trills omlingo. Kumntwana akalahlekelwe yithakazelo emculweni ongajwayelekile, yivule isikhathi esifushane. Okokuqala, imizuzu emithathu kuya emihlanu iyoba yanele. Khona-ke kuzoba nesifiso sokulilalela futhi. Khuthaza ingane ukuthi iqale umculo wayo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, ungathenga ezweni lezingane lonke "i-orchestra", kusukela emipayipi namadubhu bese uphela nge-synthesizer. Ingane yakho izokujabulela ukuzama umsindo. Bhala phansi indlalifa esikoleni somculo. Ungesabi ukuthi ngeke ahlale eqinile ngezibalo.
Ngokuphambene nalokho!
Ososayensi baseSwitzerland nabase-Austria baye bafakazela ukuthi izifundo zomculo zisisiza ukuba bafunde ngokushesha isayensi kanye nezilimi zangaphandle. Futhi abacwaningi baseMelika bafinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi ukudlala izinsimbi zomculo kusiza izingane ezingu-4-7 ezineminyaka engu-7 ubudala, ziyeka emuva ekuthuthukiseni, zibambisane neontanga ekufundeni nasekufinyeleleni ngezibalo.
Ukuthinta izandla kuvunyelwe
Ingane izokwanda ngokushesha "ukunambitheka" ngokunambitheka okuhle nemikhuba, uma ufunda okuningi. Akukona kuphela omagazini abasakhulayo, amanoveli wezintandokazi kanye nabahloli abancane, kodwa izincwadi zangempela. Ukuzijwayeza ukufundela ngokoqobo kusukela ebusweni. Vumela ingane ingabi nezinhlayiya kuphela, kodwa futhi nezincwadi ezingathinteka, zihlafunwe futhi zisetshenziswe ekugeza (manje kunezincwadi eziningi ezithengiswayo ezingaguquki emanzini noma amazinyo abantwana abanzi) - ingane yakho izojwayela ukuthi izincwadi uhambe naye yonke indawo. Funda ngokwakho ngokwengeziwe. Uma indoda encane ivame ukubona umama wakhe nobaba benencwadi ezandleni zakhe, isandla sakhe sizophinde sithathwe encwadini, hhayi ebhange nebhiya. Funda ingane ngaphambi kokulala - akuyona izingane kuphela ezizithandayo, kodwa nabantwana abasebancane. Uma indodana noma indodakazi inzonda izincwadi, okuyinto evamile eminyakeni edlulayo, ivela ohlelweni lokukhuthaza. Isibonelo, ngenxa yokuthi le ntsha yaqala ukufunda okuningi, mvumela ukuba ahambe ihora futhi ahlale kukhompyutha. Abaningi bayokuphikisa - akunakwenzeka ukufaka uthando lokufunda ngale ndlela. Yebo, okokuqala, ingane izodingeka inqobe ngokwayo, kodwa ngokuqinisekile iyokwehla ukunambitheka. Kubalulekile kuphela ukukhetha amabhuku ngeminyaka. Ngakho-ke, ingane eneminyaka engu-10 ngeke iqonde "Ubugebengu nokujeziswa", kodwa "I-Adventures ka-Tom Sawyer" izoyithanda. Ikhetho elihle kakhulu - ama-audiobooks. Ingane ingabalalela, ngokwesibonelo, endleleni eya e-cottage noma ngesikhathi sokulala. Ukufinyeleleka okungatholakali, kepha akukho ndlela ephumelelayo yokungena kwe-"acculturation" - ukuya emathempelini, imibukiso namamyuziyamu. Ukushayela kwakujabulisa, khetha ukuthi yini ngempela ayithandayo. Isibonelo, abantwana bavame ukuxolisa ekuhluphekeni kumamyuziyamu, ngoba akukho lutho olungathinteka ngezandla. Kodwa-ke, kunamamyuziyamu lapho lo mthetho ungasebenzi khona. Futhi lezi zindwendwe ngokwazo ziyizinto eziningi zokudala kunezikimiso ezijwayelekile. "Isimbongi esidumile sazalwa ngaleyo ndlela nanjengonyaka, safa ngaleyo ndlela, futhi sahlala kule ndlu". Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungazami ukudlula yonke iminyuziyamu ngesikhathi esisodwa, ikakhulukazi uma sikhulu. Isibonelo, uma ufika kumyuziyamu wezobuciko, khetha ikamelo elilodwa noma ubonise izingane ezinye izithombe azithandayo ngokuqinisekile. Okufanayo kusebenza kumabhayisikobho. Hamba kathathu ngeviki ukwenza kahle kwezingane - ukuhamba. Vumela uhambo ngalunye ukuya emidlalo yaseshashalazini libe yeholide. Uma unomsebenzi onzima kakhulu - ukuvula ingane yakho ibe yindawo yokudlala yase-inveterate, ehlezi ngokuthakazelisa phambi kwe-TV noma ehambahamba emgwaqweni, kuqala khetha amashayetha entsha. Izingane ngokuvamile zihlatshwa umxhwele ngokusondelana nomkhathi okhethekile olawula lapho. Kulungile-ke, ungawazisa emakilasini. Akuyona into yokuthi kubhekwa ukuthi ukuhlala njalo kwezemidlalo kungalinganiswa nemfundo ephakeme kunazo zonke.
Awukwazanga yini ukuthi uhloniphe?
Ake sithi uphatha ukulungisa ukunambitheka kwengane yakho, futhi ngeke isashukunyiswa ngentshiseko "idonsela" kusuka ku-techno noma i-cartoon yokuqala. Kodwa ngaphezu kwemikhuba emihle kufanele usebenze okwengeziwe. Manje izincwadi eziningi eziphathekayo, ezenzelwe noma yimuphi ubudala, zishicilelwe (okwedlula kunazo zonke kukhona amathangi lapho utshele indlela yokuziphatha emcimbini, etafuleni, ezokuthutha, njll). Izingane ezindala zingaya esikoleni semikhuba emihle (izifundo zivame ukuqhutshwa ngezimpelasonto, ngakho lokhu akuphazamisi isikole esisisekelo), lapho befunda ubuhle, ubuhle nokulula okukhulumisana (okungenakudideka nokujwayele). Yebo, izisekelo eziyisisekelo zomthetho kuzodingeka uzibeke. Umyalo wokuqala ukukhanda amagama abaxhumanisi ngekhanda. Omunye u-Roosevelt uthe lena yindlela eqinisekile yokunqoba abanye. Umyalo wesibili: ungakhohlwa ukubingelela abanye. I-gangbang eneminyaka emithathu, eneminyaka emine ingakwazi ukuchaza ukuthi ubani ozobiza ngokuthi "wena", futhi ngubani - ngokukhethekile "kuwe." Inyanga eyisithupha - ukwelula isibambo ngegama elithi "hello" bese uguqula kahle. Uma ungamfundisi ingane izinto eziyisisekelo zokwethembeka ngesikhathi esethenda, khona-ke "ekuphumeni" uzothola intombazane ebuthakathaka, ukhononda ngaphansi kwekhasi lakhe "ungaboni" ngokungajabulisi ngokuphendula ukubingelela kwabangane. Umyalo wesithathu ukuthatha ubulili ku-akhawunti. Umfana kufanele azi ukuthi ekamelweni udinga ukususa isigqoko, ukuthi amantombazane nabesifazane kudingeka badluliselwe phambili nokuthi umama uzobonga uma ebeka isandla lapho ephuma ebhasini noma egcina umnyango esitolo (kungcono uma konke lokhu kuboniswa nsuku zonke kumntwana kababa , futhi hhayi edonswa umalume encwadini ngesitifiketi). Le ntombazane ifundiswa ukuthokoza ngokwazisa usizo lobulili obunamandla uma, isibonelo, umlingani ofunde naye esikoleni umnika ukuba athathe isikhwama esinzima noma asize egqoke ingubo. Futhi ngaphezulu. Qinisekisa ukwenza isaphulelo eminyakeni yobudala. Izingane ezingakapheli iminyaka emithathu azikwazi ukufunda okuthile ngokukhethekile: uma wonke amalungu omndeni enomusa komunye nomunye, umntwana uzothola "amagama omlingo" ngomqondo owedlula wonke wezwi kanye nobisi lomama. Izingane zasenkulisa ziyakuthanda lo mdlalo, ngakho-ke esikhundleni sokuzihlambalaza, cabanga ngendaba yezinganekwane ongayidlala ngazo izigcawu ezihlukene, isibonelo, ukuthi awukwazi ukubiza umuntu, ukuklabalaza, ukuphula ezinye izinzwani zabantu, njll. Anganikezwa "umdanso" kuzo zonke izenzo zokuhlonipha. I-medal ingaba yinoma yini kusuka e-ayisikhilimu kuya ku-wands. Babadi, baqonde leli cala, asikho isidingo - bavele baphonse ngaphandle.
Mayelana nokunambitheka-nokunambitha
Iningi labazali lifundisa izingane izici zokugqoka indwangu: isibonelo, ukuthi ngesikhathi sokudla awukwazi ukuphazamiseka yi-TV noma ifoni ephathekayo. Kodwa ukunambitheka okuhle ngokuphathelene nokudla, i-alas, akusikho okugxilwe ngakho, ngakho-ke abantwana badla konke abakufunayo: izinkukhu, izinja ezishisayo, ama-hamburgers ... Okwamanje, ngisho naseMelika, "waphenduka" ekudleni okusheshayo, manje ukudla ukudla okunempilo. Futhi emazweni amaningi e-European Union agubha uSuku Lokudla Okunempilo, lapho abapheki bezindawo zokudlela ezidumile belungiselela izitsha okumnandi ezinganeni ezivela kokudla okulula. Inhloso yesenzo ukuqinisekisa izingane ukuthi isidlo esilungiselelwe ngezandla zabo siqu sinobuciko obuningi futhi sisebenziseka kakhulu kunezinkwa ezenziwe ngomumo. Futhi sivumele izingane zethu zingadliwa kakhulu ngokudla okusheshayo nemikhiqizo eqedile isigamu, njengaseNtshonalanga, kungani ungahle uhlele i-Healthy Food Festival ekhaya lakho? Phela, ngubani, njengoba kungenjalo unina, ozotshela ingane ukuthi imikhiqizo emihle ihluke kangakanani embi, futhi ukunambitheka okuhle kwe-gastronomic - kusuka kokubi.